Separated Stefanie and the Big Feels

Seriously, if you're a cis white person yelling more at marginalized people in red states or people in Dearborn or trans people or nonbinary people or disabled people or immigrants than you are at elected officials, YOU are actually the problem.

YOU are.

Good. Now fire Adams.

A sexy trans girl with blue eyes looking at the camera.

No wife = No reason not to post this. 💁‍♀️

Hey BlueSky....

It's been a while! Updates are owed: my cis wife kicked me out of the apartment I co-own, I'm broke, I found out I'm bi/polysexual, and it's only getting wilder.

Sitting on the couch, high, and listening to Bob Dylan of all people.

Just what this newly single girl could ever want.

Who needs reactionary garbage anyway?

The Democratic party is a fundraising machine that will, eventually, get around to actually forming an agenda once they hit their Q4 target.

ICYMI this action will take place on Tues Dec 3rd, there's still time to be a part of it, details in link!

A woman looks at the camera. Her makeup is smudged. In a kitchen, with a weary expression but bright eyes.

Thanksgiving is wrapped up. Now it's time for the inevitable orgy of spending and nostalgia/melancholy that is Christmas.

(Messed up the concealer, but I still like this one and could use a little selfie therapy.)

A T4T future?

I was 3 feet away from Allison Wolfe when we waited in line to check in at the same hotel. In nearly collapsed in fan-girl panic.

Of course, these people ignore the fact that trans people are twice as likely to enlist as cis people.

That's touching. Thank you.

I wish cis people could understand the joy that comes with actually seeing ourselves, especially when it can be such a struggle to achieve that joy.

Finally, a leader for the transes!

I can see it already. When we're stuck in a quagmire in Yemen, everyone will blame trans women for destroying masculinity.

That's more faith in our cis queer allies than I can summon at this moment.

We can't afford to comply with our own eradication either.

Unfortunately, I can. There's a murderous rage out there and what scares me is that I thought of Minneapolis as "safe" for trans people.

Thanks! Good to see you here too.

(Being over 40 I'm still mostly on Facebook, but want to broaden my horizons. 😝)

A middle-aged trans woman smiles at the camera. She is wearing a black tank top. Her ginger hair is pulled back in a pony tail.

At 46, I remind myself that middle-aged trans women are rare and beautiful things. We're also indestructible.

Periodic reminder: a lot of what makes AI "work" is exploited people doing the tasks, just hidden behind fancy websites.

It's good that a normie outlet like 60 Minutes is reporting on this.

Nearly every trans person:
We can't "comply" to our eradication.

Sarah McBride:
Nah... I'm good.

Yes, I am 'listening to Marcy Playground' old.

"Non-compliance" is a beautiful phrase. ❤️

Telling.

A girl can dream.

I'm wondering what I'll do when the Army shows up in Queens and starts ID'ing people on the streets and on the train. People need to start accepting this new reality and crafting a response.

Yet more evidence that Magento was right.

Nothing to see here, just Donald Trump provoking a "riot" to justify an authoritarian power grab.

The biggest superpower in a autocracy are saying the words "no, I won't comply."

We outnumber them. Autocrats require constant effort to maintain control. Forcing them to expend effort to enforce compliance is our asymmetrical advantage.

Trans people deserve a little rest.

Trans people deserve a quiet moment to sip our coffee.

Trans people deserve to pay an electric bill with their real name.

Trans people deserve to see a sunrise.