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@loverdumb.bsky.social

trying to navigate through life and love in my twenties. I aspire to become the tumblr influencer i never was in 2015

11 Followers  |  11 Following  |  29 Posts  |  Joined: 07.06.2025  |  1.7258

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If you are thinking about quitting, do it. You deserve a better job. You deserve to not suffer. Make the jump. Your health, your loved ones are not worth losing over a job.

23.08.2025 11:25 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

Is it because I’m a woman? I’m an immigrant? I’m a lesbian? I’m Young ? It was hard for me to accept I was a victim of inequality I stressed so much about it I had (and still have) Bell’s Palsy. I’m glad I left , I’m grateful I found another Job.

23.08.2025 11:24 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

Some of them have not previous work experience and no degree. Nothing wrong with that we all deserve oportunities, but legally it should affect your income. And yet I was significally less país. I applied to other jobs and I quit.

23.08.2025 11:20 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

One day, talking to HR to see if some thing were paid to our partners she showed me all the company’s transactions by accident (to prove to me that our partner was indeed paid)

It was just payday the day before and I saw all my coworkers salaries. I was paid less than all of them.

23.08.2025 10:52 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

Until 4 months passed and still no news on my income. I had the urge to renew my Visa (again) and still no news. I have my all to this work and still no news…

23.08.2025 10:48 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

To renew my Visa to a more permanent one I had to have a job with a major income. My income was not enough and i did not know what to do. The more stratégie solution for me at the time was to negóciate a bette salary . They kept saying “we will see … you deserve it”

23.08.2025 10:46 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

I started as an intern and in two and a half years I became head of department . I started at a base salary (bearly to cover my living expenses) and they gave me a couple bucks more as a head of department. I thought it was normal. My visa got renewed for another 6 months.

23.08.2025 10:45 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

I still worked extra unpaid hours, week-ends and holydays. I stopped showing up to friends reunions because I was so tired, stopped being attentive with my at this point girlfriend of 3 years and I just stopped caring about myself. All I had in mind was my work and how to survive for my Visa.

23.08.2025 10:41 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

At The company they were aware of this situation and so, I accepted the job, thinking it was going to be less hard because I was not an intern anymore. Girl was I wrong …

23.08.2025 10:36 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

To stay in the country it HAD to be a job with something related to my career. So it was the oportunity I needed to stay in the country . Note : I’ve been living here for 7 years and left my country because I’m a lesbian and it’s not really accepted where I’m from

23.08.2025 10:33 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

Because I’m a latin american woman in Europe, I had to get my Visa renewed and I could not do it if I didn’t have a Job or was studying. At this point I already graduated while being an intern and at my company they off eres me a contract to stay there working as an employee (lucky me I thought)

23.08.2025 10:31 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

I gave it my all, it was hard : working on week-ends, holydays and unpaid extra hours. But I told myself that “is ok it’s because I’m an intern and it’s supposed to be this hard”

23.08.2025 10:28 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

I started working at the company in 2022 as an intern because I needed the experience to graduate from my Master’s degree. My internship was meant to last 3 months, but I got it renewed for anothe 3 months to gain more experience.

23.08.2025 10:25 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

I just quit my under playing job. It almost ended my relationship with my girlfriend, friends and most importantly myself.

23.08.2025 10:23 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

I will start cycling or swiming this year

06.08.2025 19:17 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

Hiiii

06.08.2025 19:16 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

I want to Marry my gf so bad

18.07.2025 20:50 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

I just ended a friendship of 10+ years … Is so strange when dynamics change and you don’t tolérate the same treatment than before

29.06.2025 19:13 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

I hate people who cheat, you’re the worst

20.06.2025 10:21 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

Bruh

13.06.2025 14:26 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

ICE can suck my latinamerican ass

11.06.2025 16:32 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

Damn i behaved poorly

09.06.2025 20:21 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

Do you listen to sad music when you’re sad? I find it too painful now and i don’t anymore

08.06.2025 12:11 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
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Went outside and touched some fking grass

07.06.2025 15:13 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

It is brave to let someone love you don’t lose the oportunity guys!

07.06.2025 15:07 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

I deserve to take up the space people who love me have given me

07.06.2025 15:06 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

My job is draining my happiness away and I’m supposed to be grateful?

07.06.2025 09:59 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

I want to marry my girlfriend
sooo bad I can’t keep getting my insecurities get the best of me, trust her love and patience.

07.06.2025 08:02 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

I’m just going to post about my life and how sometimes I am so dumb to myself and others

07.06.2025 07:49 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

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