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Rev Debra

@revdebra.bsky.social

Jewish Unitarian Universalist sexologist minister committed to people flourishing. Religion, sexuality, and social justice. Author, Public Speaker, Parish Minister, Fiancé, She/her. Fierce mom/bonus mom of trans adults. Don’t mess with people I love.

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The Price of Admission to Epstein’s World: Silence

this article illuminates the extreme misogyny that too many powerful men feel and exercise.

22.02.2026 14:15 — 👍 2    🔁 2    💬 1    📌 0

I'm not sure what that means. Yes, most of us don't have the bodies we had at 25. We can accept our aging bodies and still embrace our sexuality.

22.02.2026 02:26 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

Definitely inclusive of all genders and all sexual orientations. I think the harder part is that young adults aren't too interested in thinking about older people having sex. PS I have a nonbinary trans adult child too

22.02.2026 02:24 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

I found my great love story at 67. I've interviewed people who met their great love story at 85. Happily single is great. Love is always a possibility.

22.02.2026 02:23 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

I write about the need to redefine what good sex is - it doesn't not require "getting it up."

22.02.2026 02:21 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

It might help that

21.02.2026 20:42 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

Oh, I’m sorry. I may quote this

21.02.2026 20:40 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

Of course it does

21.02.2026 19:06 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

Uh yeah. I’m 71. And newly married. 🩷

21.02.2026 19:06 — 👍 3    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

Thanks. And lucky you!

21.02.2026 16:00 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

Not true, you know. I have a section on sex and heat issues

21.02.2026 16:00 — 👍 2    🔁 0    💬 3    📌 0

Good feedback. It’s really aimed at 60-80 and then how to plan for 80 to 100

21.02.2026 15:59 — 👍 4    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

I prefer to think of it as happy fulfilling lives that include love and sex

21.02.2026 15:58 — 👍 4    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

Absolutely!

21.02.2026 15:57 — 👍 3    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

Not what this. It’s actually based on interviews and my years of counseling and educating people. It’s an affirmation and support for sex in the third act

21.02.2026 15:57 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

Thanks. Tell me why not.

21.02.2026 15:54 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

I'm about to submit a book proposal for a new book on Great Love, Great Sex in Midlife and Beyond. Can you give me a heart if you think you'd buy or read it? ❤️❤️

20.02.2026 15:52 — 👍 364    🔁 7    💬 41    📌 0
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SCOTUS 6/3 vote that Trump tariffs are illegal. Yes! And it should have been 9/0. #SCOTUSTariffs

20.02.2026 15:50 — 👍 10    🔁 2    💬 1    📌 0

UN Panel: “So grave is the scale, nature, systematic character & transnational reach of these atrocities against women & girls, that a number of them may reasonably meet the legal threshold of crimes against humanity."

The ICC in The Hague prosecutes those accused of crimes against humanity

20.02.2026 14:16 — 👍 6    🔁 4    💬 1    📌 0
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The British monarchy is having a bad day. #RoyalArrest

19.02.2026 15:00 — 👍 19    🔁 6    💬 5    📌 0

Wouldn't it be wonderful if police in the US started arresting people over what's coming out in the #EpsteinFiles Why aren't their people being held accountable for their crimes here?

19.02.2026 14:58 — 👍 5092    🔁 997    💬 296    📌 56

Make today count. For you, for the people you encounter, for #justice. Choose to bless the world. #MorningPrayer

18.02.2026 12:58 — 👍 8    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
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Well done, #JesseJackson Rest in peace and power.

17.02.2026 13:23 — 👍 7845    🔁 907    💬 112    📌 36
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Trump created something they call:

"BABY JAIL"

There are hundreds of preschoolers, toddlers & babies in this "BABY JAIL!"
HUNDREDS!

And it's all being paid for on your dime, with your taxpayer dollars & being done in your name!

Imagine the trauma, the harm, the abuse!

BABY JAIL!
#ICELawlessness

15.02.2026 19:08 — 👍 998    🔁 692    💬 74    📌 47
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OMG!!!

15.02.2026 20:29 — 👍 24    🔁 14    💬 7    📌 3

Good Sunday morning. Our worship service this am is on mortality. Join us by zoom on how explore dying with grace and curiosity. Fusn.org for the zoom link

15.02.2026 11:49 — 👍 5    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
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Happy Valentine's Day to all. Remember, no matter what your relationship status, YOU ARE LOVED. Period.

14.02.2026 18:12 — 👍 9    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

This is horrifying. I’m weeping

14.02.2026 03:56 — 👍 6    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

Bondi is Trump’s Maxwell.

14.02.2026 03:52 — 👍 8    🔁 4    💬 2    📌 0
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Does the White House not see the irony in accusing #Harvard of failing to produce documents on time? #Epstein files, anyone?

13.02.2026 16:58 — 👍 12    🔁 3    💬 1    📌 1

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