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Rev Debra

@revdebra.bsky.social

Jewish Unitarian Universalist sexologist minister committed to people flourishing. Religion, sexuality, and social justice. Author, Public Speaker, Parish Minister, Fiancé, She/her. Fierce mom/bonus mom of trans adults. Don’t mess with people I love.

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Wow.

26.02.2026 03:11 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

Wow.

26.02.2026 03:11 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

PBS 74% of immigrants apprehended have no criminal records-“not the worst of the worst. Perez: if you’re here illegally and we find you when we’re targeting someone else, you’re getting deported

25.02.2026 23:52 — 👍 3    🔁 1    💬 0    📌 0

I don’t think people understand what’s this means: MEDICARE AND MEDICAID ARE BLOCKING ALL WHEELCHAIRS, WALKERS, CANES, INSULIN PUMPS, GLUCOSE MONITORS, CPAP MACHINES, NEBULIZERS, BEDS, CRUTCHES, COMODE CHAIRS, BED SORE PRESSURE PADS, CHAIR LIFTS, OXYGEN TANKS, BREATHING EQUIPMENT, to name a few.

25.02.2026 22:31 — 👍 1369    🔁 868    💬 95    📌 65

Paul Perez, head of Border Patrol, just said on PBS, that judicial warrants before arrests would take too much time. and blamed Goode and Petti for their deaths for interfering. Very scary. #IceOut

25.02.2026 23:47 — 👍 7    🔁 2    💬 3    📌 0

maybe someone should tell him #SitDownBabyGirl

25.02.2026 04:25 — 👍 2    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

As expected, Trump’s speech tonight was full of lies about the State of the Union.

The truth is that costs are up, unemployment is up, and people are struggling. Attempts to scapegoat immigrants and trans people won’t change those truths.

25.02.2026 04:19 — 👍 183    🔁 37    💬 2    📌 1
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Happy snow day 2! What happened to teenagers coming round to ask if they can shovel?

24.02.2026 13:23 — 👍 17    🔁 1    💬 6    📌 0

Just finished #IfIHadLegsI'dKickYou" so maybe you don't have to. Rose Byrne is brilliant, but I found it way too dark and frankly exhausting (and not in a good way before bed time.) It's billed as a dark comedy. It is dark - definitely not a comedy. Would love to know what others thought.

23.02.2026 03:51 — 👍 7    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 1

More states should follow suit.

22.02.2026 20:01 — 👍 16    🔁 5    💬 1    📌 0
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The Price of Admission to Epstein’s World: Silence

this article illuminates the extreme misogyny that too many powerful men feel and exercise.

22.02.2026 14:15 — 👍 2    🔁 2    💬 1    📌 0

I'm not sure what that means. Yes, most of us don't have the bodies we had at 25. We can accept our aging bodies and still embrace our sexuality.

22.02.2026 02:26 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

Definitely inclusive of all genders and all sexual orientations. I think the harder part is that young adults aren't too interested in thinking about older people having sex. PS I have a nonbinary trans adult child too

22.02.2026 02:24 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

I found my great love story at 67. I've interviewed people who met their great love story at 85. Happily single is great. Love is always a possibility.

22.02.2026 02:23 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

I write about the need to redefine what good sex is - it doesn't not require "getting it up."

22.02.2026 02:21 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

It might help that

21.02.2026 20:42 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

Oh, I’m sorry. I may quote this

21.02.2026 20:40 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

Of course it does

21.02.2026 19:06 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

Uh yeah. I’m 71. And newly married. 🩷

21.02.2026 19:06 — 👍 3    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

Thanks. And lucky you!

21.02.2026 16:00 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

Not true, you know. I have a section on sex and heat issues

21.02.2026 16:00 — 👍 2    🔁 0    💬 3    📌 0

Good feedback. It’s really aimed at 60-80 and then how to plan for 80 to 100

21.02.2026 15:59 — 👍 4    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

I prefer to think of it as happy fulfilling lives that include love and sex

21.02.2026 15:58 — 👍 4    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

Absolutely!

21.02.2026 15:57 — 👍 3    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

Not what this. It’s actually based on interviews and my years of counseling and educating people. It’s an affirmation and support for sex in the third act

21.02.2026 15:57 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

Thanks. Tell me why not.

21.02.2026 15:54 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

I'm about to submit a book proposal for a new book on Great Love, Great Sex in Midlife and Beyond. Can you give me a heart if you think you'd buy or read it? ❤️❤️

20.02.2026 15:52 — 👍 364    🔁 7    💬 41    📌 0
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SCOTUS 6/3 vote that Trump tariffs are illegal. Yes! And it should have been 9/0. #SCOTUSTariffs

20.02.2026 15:50 — 👍 10    🔁 2    💬 1    📌 0

UN Panel: “So grave is the scale, nature, systematic character & transnational reach of these atrocities against women & girls, that a number of them may reasonably meet the legal threshold of crimes against humanity."

The ICC in The Hague prosecutes those accused of crimes against humanity

20.02.2026 14:16 — 👍 6    🔁 4    💬 1    📌 0
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The British monarchy is having a bad day. #RoyalArrest

19.02.2026 15:00 — 👍 19    🔁 6    💬 5    📌 0

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