Leanne💖

So validating and great hearing from my friends that they never even liked Miguel and always got bad vibes from him or thought he was a loser

Sucks that my family has such high esteem for my abusive ex. He didn't even LIKE spending time with them, was so mean and rude to me all the time and I had to basically beg him to spend any time with me and my family while in Michigan.

Not only am I now being treated like a person & actually being listened to, I am being shown extreme kindness, care & patience, being understood! and with someone who actually cares how I feel and wants to communicate and be kind towards one another. Something I didn't even think was possible for me

For sharing my feelings, for trying to communicate, for asking for kindness, for being emotional, for being myself.
I believed these things. He really had me thinking that being treated well wasn't for me and was some sort of fairytale.
Abuse can do fucked up things to your brain

"no one will treat you better than I do"
"No one else would tolerate you"
"Anyone else will treat you worse"
"you wouldn't be able to date yourself"
"I'm the most patient person, no one will have more patience with you"
What I was told by a mentally abusive misogynist who yelled at me constantly.

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So validating to read other people's thoughts on the movie as well

Watching Alice darling and even though the issues weren't the same it's so crazy seeing a story of mental abuse from the outside after experiencing an abusive relationship that I thought I deserved, it feels too similar. Especially when her friends confront her... Only half way though but damn :/

How I feel

Kendrick's jeans tho 😍

I moved to Philly in 2017 and then the Eagles win the Superbowl. My ex moves out of Philadelphia in 2025 and the Eagles win the fucking Superbowl!!!! MEANT. TO. BE. BYEEEEEEEEE

If you leave the house/bar you're at while the eagles are ahead and then the eagles fall behind you better go back to where you first were!!!

My therapist told me that Miguel never saw me as a person and that was such a revelation for me. I was just an object for him to control. He actually never saw any women as people, he is such a misogynist. I spent ten years with someone who didn't even treat me like a person. I am trying to heal...

Also sad that I thought it was normal and okay, sad that I was told that asking for kindness was wrong, sad that I thought I didn't deserve better, sad no one really knew what I was going through

Really really sick when I think about all the mental and emotional abuse I endured with my ex. Sick that I dealt with what I did

💖🥹💖

Like I'm in my fucking 30s, it doesn't make any sense.

You gain nothing by "standing by" your traditional values in not letting your daughter and her partner stay when they visit you because they are unmarried. You do lose your relationship with your daughter though.

Such a reassuring reminder.
Being scared to leave my toxic relationship because it was so familiar and I was scared of the unknown.
So glad I was capable of making necessary changes for myself! Once I did that everything started falling into place
@selfcare4yu

My gynecologist said he was glad I wasn't with my ex anymore! That's how bad it was! Omg.....

Really can't wait till Taylor makes an album with love songs about Travis, I know I'm gonna relate to every single one of them

still obsessed with the 1989tv vault tracks so if we don't get rep tv this year I'll be ok

To not be yelled at 💖
To be so incredibly adored 💖
To have such a deep connection 💖
To be listened to 💖
To be treated with kindness and respect 💖
To share values 💖
...is beautiful and wonderful and I never knew I could have this in a relationship and I'm so glad. ☺️

Sure bud, go listen to her music while you masterbate in your parents basement cause you're miserable and abusive

He'd say stuff like "I need to have kids with her, she's so short" and how much he loves her bangs (I didn't have bangs at the time & he gave me shit for growing out my bangs oh and also for being tall) he'd say crude shit about how he want to fck her and cum on her and kept screenshots on his phone

Something so disgusting and hilarious about my toxic ex now obsessively listening to the music of this girl who he was obsessed with and would say demeaning and gross shit about while we were dating. Bro she's not gonna pick you you're repulsive 😂

Polar strawberry watermelon sparkling water is basically liquid pink starbursts without the sugar and I love it

My mentally abusive ex moves out of the city two days before the Eagles win the game that puts them in the Superbowl?! Meant to be. #BYEBITCH

My heart is so warm 💖

It's an incredible feeling not having to ask "can you please be kind to me" on a daily basis anymore.