I work as an elder and hospice caregiver, which I am oddly passionate about. I can love on them shamelessly and no one complains about my codependence. It's a win-win situation.
Many of my caregiving colleagues complain about the repetitive questions and, sometimes reactions, of the elderly, especially when those patients happen to read the newspaper, especially with the current downward spiral of our country — as if these people haven't lived through enough horror...
I love my dementia peeps, but sometimes wonder if there's a Guinness Book World Record for how many times an hour a dementia patient can repeat the same question — it's got to be in the hundreds. At least with small children, they ask different questions. Dementia patients will get stuck on one short question and ask it until you can interrupt their train(carousel) of thought and successfully redirect their attention. That carousel is pretty manic sometimes.
A couple days ago, I picked up my mail from the post office and drove over to the nursing home to take (let's call her "Miss Daisy") Miss Daisy out for a drive. Before we took off on our road trip, to the end of The Road and back, in our landlocked little town (Juneau, Alaska), I set my copy of The Onion down in front of her.
Over our two-hour excursion, tiny Miss Daisy read that front page at least a dozen times and each time she would snicker, giggle, and guffaw, then put it down on the dash board and, a minute later, discover it anew. I think it was the best afternoon of my life. We don't often hear them laugh and when they do, it's the sweetest thing you've ever heard.
...
Thank you, thank you, thank you, for the really important work all of you do. You make the world a better place.
I got permission to share this, and I'm extremely grateful for that.
The Onion got this letter from one of our subscribers in Alaska. She works with dementia patients and decided to leave a copy in the car for each one.
This email made my year. Read it and you'll see what I mean. People are good.
01.07.2025 18:46 — 👍 37419 🔁 6842 💬 643 📌 508
SHINee Minho
🎞 x/satangtosky
03.09.2025 20:00 — 👍 77 🔁 29 💬 0 📌 6
grrrrr
06.09.2025 02:06 — 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0
05.09.2025 15:06 — 👍 52 🔁 26 💬 1 📌 2
been having health issues lately - unexpected surgery! - but hoping to be able to participate in summer of 5hinee once more <3
25.05.2025 21:49 — 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0
May 25, 2025 - September 01, 2025
Summer of 5HINee 2025
PROMPTING OPENS: MAY 25
CLAIMING OPENS: JUNE 1
PROMPTING/CLAIMING END: AUGUST 18
SUBMISSION DEADLINE: AUGUST 25
POSTING WEEK: AUGUST 27 - SEPTEMBER 1
Summer of 5hinee prompts are open! Submit prompts here: archiveofourown.org/collections/...
Carrd w/ more info: summerofshinee25.carrd.co
25.05.2025 21:38 — 👍 6 🔁 4 💬 0 📌 2
Vibrantly colored image with text: VIEWFEST, followed by a list.
Creators:
forochel
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kasuchi
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MD & Albums offered by:
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verity
Kiilea
Ticketing ends 5/10
We have so many creators so eager to create stuff for you, in support of the DDing Dong LGBTIQ Youth Support Center!!!
05.05.2025 20:57 — 👍 6 🔁 8 💬 1 📌 8
Whether it's Hillary Clinton sharing risotto tips on a private server or Pete Hegseth using the nuclear codes as his password on Pornhub, both parties have ignored our nation's security.
25.04.2025 02:10 — 👍 17238 🔁 2795 💬 353 📌 124
fanfiction etiquette has really gone out the window. remember: the back button is your best friend. critiquing fanworks like they are professional works is unnecessary. engaging with works is what keeps authors writing.
20.03.2025 22:59 — 👍 1171 🔁 610 💬 10 📌 8
Trans people are so damn hot and cool. Thank you for blessing me with your existence. That's all. Have a great evening.
27.02.2025 18:19 — 👍 338 🔁 79 💬 0 📌 7
Seulgi's upcoming LP "Accidentally on Purpose", out March 10.
17.02.2025 15:05 — 👍 39 🔁 19 💬 0 📌 7
What if we started fucking…as fellow professionals
15.02.2025 20:52 — 👍 1346 🔁 302 💬 6 📌 102
(minkey)
07.02.2025 19:45 — 👍 16 🔁 7 💬 1 📌 0
Presentlydean on April 3rd, 2024
online communities are so strange because people slip away so easily. you can be on here for years, folding people you've never met into the fabric of your daily life, and then they disappear, leaving only ghost posts scattered across tumblr behind. or their blog stays dormant, for weeks, months, years, until you're only still following them because you remember that they love sunflowers or they were kind to you when they didn't have to be or the last thing they posted as sad and raw and you still worry about them sometimes.
and sometimes they come back when you least expect it, years later, even, and there's this sudden rush of relief like there you are, there you are, even though you barely knew each other.
there's a strange kind of love to it. i don't know you and i want to hold your hand across miles and time zones and oceans. i can still see the imprint of you in this community you left. you don't think anyone will notice or care when you're gone, but we notice and we care and we wish you well.
i hope you're all okay out there. i hope the sun is shining on your face and you are breathing deeply. i miss you.
From www.tumblr.com/presentlydea... -
I miss you, lost friends. I hope the sun is shining on your face, wherever you are.
03.02.2025 15:40 — 👍 4775 🔁 2347 💬 30 📌 121
I love the beginning of a killing voice when they show all the mics against a white background and then the little guy takes his place at the shortest one
28.01.2025 13:50 — 👍 11 🔁 5 💬 1 📌 1
my blorbo of many years
22.01.2025 22:33 — 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0
smosh put out resident evil part 8 with angela and amanda and spencer my prayers are answered in the smallest way possible and i am grateful for this reprieve!!
22.01.2025 22:31 — 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0
#JONGHYUN #SHINee
19.01.2025 14:26 — 👍 53 🔁 17 💬 0 📌 0
let’s not forget: Trump started this TikTok ban thing
19.01.2025 18:45 — 👍 3668 🔁 1282 💬 97 📌 56
red velvet's seulgi in white looking at the camera
red velvet's seulgi in white looking to the left
seulgi 🦢 red velvet
#seulgi #redvelvet #kpopsky
08.01.2025 17:09 — 👍 39 🔁 21 💬 0 📌 0
Key Born to Shine but it’s a duet with Minho
16.01.2025 14:48 — 👍 5 🔁 2 💬 1 📌 0
Minho bending over a table to wrap a flower bouquet with his muscular biceps and forearms visible
Minho carefully wrapping tiny bouquets for his fans with his big biceps out, that’s what muscles are for
16.01.2025 15:50 — 👍 19 🔁 2 💬 1 📌 1
Jonghyun selfie cute white outfit with a blurry man in the background that is shinee’s manager Nam Euisoo from Jan 15 2015 around his first day of work
Happy 10th Anniversary of Debut to Nam Euisoo! #shinee
16.01.2025 16:40 — 👍 65 🔁 16 💬 0 📌 0
i'm setting up my goal of listening to more full albums this year, regardless of age, artist, or genre. any recommendations?
17.01.2025 01:12 — 👍 0 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0
Minho from Shinee and Changmin from TVXQ aggressively hugging on stage while BoA from BoA approaches holding a balloon
Minho now has his sights set on BoA, leaving Changmin with a pat on the back and making a :D face. BoA still has her balloon.
Minho bending down to hug BoA, his hips hinged about as far back as they'll go. You'll be happy to hear the balloon is resting on his back in BoA's hand.
Dick to dick with Changmin, but the politest manner hips of all time with BoA, that's our Minho
13.01.2025 12:50 — 👍 17 🔁 6 💬 2 📌 0
AKMU?
11.01.2025 17:50 — 👍 1 🔁 0 💬 1 📌 0
wait me three
11.01.2025 17:50 — 👍 2 🔁 0 💬 0 📌 0
TVXQ! performs "Psycho" by Red Velvet at SMTown Live.
11.01.2025 14:29 — 👍 116 🔁 40 💬 4 📌 15
a screen cap of star trek. Spock says it has to do with... biology while Kirk stands by
happy fuck or die friday
11.01.2025 00:47 — 👍 133 🔁 55 💬 0 📌 0
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