The defense team presses Lairmore on whether the sandwich really 'exploded.' They return to the photo of the sandwich and wrapper on the ground.
"That sandwich hasn't exploded at all, has it?" defense asks.
"It looks like a little bit is coming out towards the bottom," Lairmore replies.
04.11.2025 16:37 โ ๐ 6472 ๐ 1098 ๐ฌ 256 ๐ 668
National Adoption Awareness Month, which is about promoting #adoption, begins today. none of the promotional material contains an answer to the following naรฏve question:
why does โgive this child a loving and safe homeโ require โerase and rewrite this childโs entire identityโ?
01.11.2025 20:46 โ ๐ 82 ๐ 29 ๐ฌ 3 ๐ 1
Idea for a musical: a man is arrested and imprisoned for stealing bread and then is hounded by the cops for breaking parole and then there are some student protesters in the streets and everyone sings One More Dayโฆoh waitโฆ
01.11.2025 15:30 โ ๐ 16 ๐ 7 ๐ฌ 1 ๐ 0
Beautiful Sierra Madre CA #NoKings
18.10.2025 19:27 โ ๐ 9 ๐ 5 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0
2 protesters holding signs at No Kings rally. "No Kings, Yas Queens" and "Trans rights are Human rights"
No Kings!!
18.10.2025 19:30 โ ๐ 74 ๐ 15 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 1
Mine says "Alleged natural father" then his name is misspelled. Is it because they didn't believe her? Or because then they didn't need to get his signature? Or maybe both.
14.10.2025 14:57 โ ๐ 1 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 1 ๐ 0
Entirely fitting that this story appears in a media outlet called Marketplace. Adoptees are human commodities as infants. Made more valuable with their origins erased. Now theyโre the consumers of concierge servicesโDNA testing, media ads, personal searchersโas adultsโฆ2/3
25.09.2025 11:06 โ ๐ 11 ๐ 2 ๐ฌ 1 ๐ 1
Charlie Kirk, Redeemed: A Political Class Finds Its Lost Cause
By ignoring the rhetoric and actions of the Turning Point USA founder, pundits and politicians are sanitizing his legacy.
Ta-Nehasi Coates is doing a lot of things with this essay, but one of the most important is fearlessly using examples of anti-trans hate to describe Charlie Kirk's politics.
The contrast between his choices and those of other writers for major legacy outlets is revealing.
16.09.2025 18:06 โ ๐ 5565 ๐ 1808 ๐ฌ 50 ๐ 86
Fun fact: Ryan and I were purchased from the same "Christian" adoption agency and went to the same high school. He was not, in fact, a "good boy" in HS.
22.08.2025 18:40 โ ๐ 8 ๐ 1 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0
At the Alligator Alcatraz press conference a reporter asked Trump what he planned to do to fulfill his next campaign promise. His full response was six minutes long. This is a verbatim reading of part of his answer. You won't have to listen to his voice or see his face.
06.07.2025 10:35 โ ๐ 555 ๐ 180 ๐ฌ 85 ๐ 49
Economic genius Donald Trump explains how he comes up with tariff rates
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I'm so angry this morning. I grew up during the wars in Afghanistan and Iraq, the pointless pathetic conflicts that only resulted in hundreds of thousands of dead human beings.
22.06.2025 14:34 โ ๐ 6 ๐ 1 ๐ฌ 1 ๐ 0
Well, I liked that he read the source material of "The Girls Who Went Away" and spoke to actual mothers, but I'm not sure there will be much on the babies that were sold... I'd like to hear another adoptee's review first.
25.04.2025 14:25 โ ๐ 1 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 1 ๐ 0
Same here
25.04.2025 13:53 โ ๐ 2 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 1 ๐ 0
The rescued Vietnamese infants of Operation Babylift have grown up
Fifty years after the fall of Saigon a generation of adoptees wrestle with Vietnamโs legacy of transnational adoption
This week @theverge.com is publishing a series on the legacy of the Vietnam War. I wrote about the generation of children who were adopted from the war. While reporting this, I was struck by how historically singular the experiences of this group of people are.
www.theverge.com/cs/features/...
21.04.2025 15:56 โ ๐ 106 ๐ 27 ๐ฌ 5 ๐ 4
"...the beneficent embrace of the American family was always conditional, coming at the cost of more vulnerable families and even the children themselves."
Wow, thank you for this article! Well done
21.04.2025 21:03 โ ๐ 4 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 1 ๐ 0
You've probably shared those answers before, but I'd be interested to hear them again.
14.04.2025 18:20 โ ๐ 0 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0
My Identity Was Stolen From Me And Now I Have To Beg For It Back?
Why itโs infuriating that adults who were adopted have to grovel for their own information
โAdoption stole my family from me. All because of a society that shamed an unmarried pregnant woman and told her Iโd be better off with strangers who were married.โ
#adoptiontrauma
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07.04.2025 06:06 โ ๐ 9 ๐ 3 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 1
One reason the "do diets work?" debate interests me is because so many things that are terrible for fat people (and others) rests on that foundational belief that fat people could stop being fat if they wanted to.
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23.01.2025 22:09 โ ๐ 534 ๐ 139 ๐ฌ 12 ๐ 16
A document header from The White House, Washington, dated 01/26/25. It is labeled 'FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE' and the headline reads: 'ICYMI: President Donald J. Trump's TRUTH on Columbia Sanctions.'"
How can you sanction a country you can't even spell.
26.01.2025 22:05 โ ๐ 4367 ๐ 630 ๐ฌ 147 ๐ 127
From the Daily Beast: Source present at the time tell The Daily Beast that multiple peopleโincluding Vietnam War veteransโchimed in to inform the president that the Apocalypse Now set piece he was talking about showcased the U.S. military using napalm, not Agent Orange.
Trump refused to accept that he was mistaken and proceeded to say things like, โno, I think itโs that stuff from that movie.โ
One clue belying the presidentโs insistence is that the famous Robert Duvall line from the scene in Apocalypse Now, โI love the smell of napalm in the morning,โ is not โI love the smell of Agent Orange in the morning.โ
He then went around the room polling attendees about if it was, in fact, napalm or Agent Orange in the famous scene from โthat movie,โ as the gatheringโorganized to focus on important, sometimes life-or-death issues for veteransโdescended into a pointless debate over Apocalypse Now that the president simply would not concede, despite all the available evidence.
Finally, Trump made eye contact again with Weidman and asked him if it was napalm or Agent Orange. The VVA co-founder assured Trump, as did several before him, that it was in fact napalm, and said that he didnโt like the Coppola film and believed it to be a disservice to Vietnam War veterans.
According to two people in attendance, Trump then flippantly replied to the Vietnam vet, โWell, I think you just didnโt like the movie,โ before finally moving on.
The military vets told Trump that no, Agent Orange wasn't napalm, but he refused to accept it with two full minutes of argument.
"According to two people in attendance, Trump then flippantly replied to the Vietnam vet, 'Well, I think you just didnโt like the movie,' before finally moving on."
19.01.2025 23:56 โ ๐ 54 ๐ 13 ๐ฌ 6 ๐ 1
NYT headline: CAN GOD SPEAK THROUGH A.I.?
What if Ouija boards consumed a liter of fresh water every time you asked a question?
04.01.2025 20:46 โ ๐ 232 ๐ 39 ๐ฌ 3 ๐ 8
DM conversation between me and a sad person reads
your a fag right
(Actually it's you're)
You guys on the left are to easy to trigger and fun to bully
Did I invade your save space
(Actually it's safe space)
Can't believe I was thinking about turning off DMs today.
03.01.2025 00:24 โ ๐ 46655 ๐ 2954 ๐ฌ 2339 ๐ 259
You also voted to strip children of service members of medically necessary care. Youโve lost my vote for any future runs, and made it clear to Californians that you donโt care about trans people.
19.12.2024 01:02 โ ๐ 59 ๐ 2 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0
YouTube video by Paul Kimball
Original Birth Certificates to California Born Adoptees
๐ฅ California Alliance for Adoptee Rights (Facebook) has a new video about CA's sealed birth certificate law. It's 12 mins long. Many Calif. legislators know very little about our issue; they are the target audience. I'd like to see this ancient law change in 2025!
www.youtube.com/watch?v=erHy...
12.12.2024 18:10 โ ๐ 15 ๐ 5 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 2
The incredible Chase Strangio joins me this week on VIBE CHECK for a conversation about his upcoming Supreme Court oral arguments and the future of trans rights โ a future that impacts ALL of us. podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/v...
02.12.2024 16:14 โ ๐ 302 ๐ 49 ๐ฌ 6 ๐ 13
Why?
Download Photo by cottonbro studio on Pexels.com People like to think birthmothers are heartless sluts. Theyโre horrified by how easy it is to break the family bond, while simultaneously loving whaโฆ
People love to push adoption as an alternative to abortion. But those very same people will then turn around and say, "I could NEVER do such a thing. What kind of mother gives away her own baby?"
I've been grappling with that question for 25 years now.
informedconsent.wordpress.com/2024/12/06/w...
06.12.2024 14:58 โ ๐ 12 ๐ 4 ๐ฌ 5 ๐ 4
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