Seeing those neoprene waders folded down with that cum shot is really hot
Don't worry, I am not being defensive. I felt it necessary to better to articulate my point, and I apologize if I came across that way 😘
I think that supporting others through their difficulties is a radical act of both self love and community love, and one of the cures for a social malaise that is adjacent to doomerism.
If we cannot be there for each other and scatter the moment someone's problems make them less desirable that is not brotherhood - it is a meat market. I find some of the support structures I expected from my time being mentored have fallen apart and I am sad about this.
I pursued it because it was hot and exciting. I stuck around and learned quietly in 1:1 relationships for 2 decades because of the support of some wonderful men. I understand brotherhood to be the act of being there when it's hard and not as a performance.
Here's hoping the strength of your local community will continue to persevere and resist the fascists. Sending you a long distance hug and some support from one leather person to another.
I also find myself wondering this a lot lately. Anything that distracts from the superficiality of appearance based connection is harder to deal with, but I firmly believe that being there when it's hard is how we build real community.
Still enjoying the warmth in Fort Lauderdale for a few more days before we begin the journey northward to snow and ice. My hubby packed the leather away after an evening out at The Ramrod and The Eagle Wilton Manors.
It was all so delightful. Where are you enjoying the newest season?
Enjoying an unexpectedly long stop in Fort Lauderdale. Conversations this weekend have been extremely stimulating, especially in areas of authenticity vs aesthetic.
That's some beautiful work, friend
That series was one of my favorite things to encounter this past year. Having watched it through 3 times I'm still a huge fan.
Tight can be fun. Enjoy!
I’ve been writing stuff that’s been on my mind as I reframe things in my life. Stuff we often think of but I don’t feel we talk about enough.
This is about predictability, holding space, and belonging.
It's a fantastic set of thoughts to apply to any space you'd like to consider safe.
On the plus side I now know exactly how fuzzy your sack is! 🥰
Oh, I like it!
Highly recommend this writing by the wonderful @lthriain.bsky.social
What we mean when we say "safety"
leather.mathan.ca/what-we-mean...
Those damn hot boots again!
If all the planning comes together I should be able to get to MAL for Saturday and/or Sunday before a few days in Fort Lauderdale the following week.
Oh wow, those are wild
Yes, definitely hot boots for that!
Great, I'll listen for the satisfied grunt from here
Damn I've wanted to try one of those for a while
Coveralls and rubber boots and day 🥵
Yet it's still warm and toasty right where you are ❤️🔥
That looks delightful. Good find!
Oh I like those
I should probably be booking MAL stuff if I'm going to do a road trip that conveniently lines up with all those shenanigans.
This is what keeps Uncle Kip from thinking about trebuchet launch trajectories for small humans.
