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Jennifer Luciani

@scintillatingspeck.bsky.social

Trauma-informed relational coach, Cuddlist, facilitator, and writer. Queer polyamorous relationship anarchist. Communitarian. Forager. Lover of cats, herbs, rivers, forests, a climate that sustains life, Earth. A scintillating speck in the web of kinship.

84 Followers  |  101 Following  |  21 Posts  |  Joined: 12.11.2024  |  1.6092

Latest posts by scintillatingspeck.bsky.social on Bluesky

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Ask your Inner Wise Person for help part 3 in What do we do now?

My latest post on Substack, about asking your Inner Wise Person for help. jenniferluciani.substack.com/p/ask-your-i...

29.04.2025 15:57 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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What do we do now? Part 2 return to the body

New post of mine on Substack, as part of the series "What do we do now?" This one is about returning to your body. We need all the unjangling and resilience we can get.
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18.04.2025 15:19 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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What do we do now? as we sit on the sofa broken by the elephant in the room?

My latest post on Substack. Please read, subscribe, like, and share. This is the first in a series on what do we do now? I have some ideas.

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14.04.2025 15:06 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Uh, why would it be illegal to boycott Tesla? Since when are we legally required to buy anything? People, since our "leaders" lack understanding of what's legal and illegal, as evidenced in too many examples to count, here's your reminder that it's on us to know our rights and exercise them.

11.03.2025 16:58 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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One wandering path to expansive kinship (mine), part 1 With signposts including bisexuality, polyamory, and a master’s thesis on a 19th-century free love anarchist

My latest post on Substack. Please read, subscribe, like, and share! This is the first in a two-part series on my path towards expansive kinship.

jenniferluciani.substack.com/p/one-wander...

07.03.2025 22:13 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

β€˜Move fast and break things’ only works for people who have never had to clean up after themselves.

01.03.2025 05:42 β€” πŸ‘ 4394    πŸ” 939    πŸ’¬ 45    πŸ“Œ 42
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The story of kinship or at least mine

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28.02.2025 01:38 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Welcome to Expansive Kinship! An exploration of deep and radical intimacy

Very excited to launch my new Substack, Expansive Kinship! Please check it out and subscribe for free if you are so moved.

17.02.2025 01:41 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I love that your sourdough is named Matilda

30.01.2025 14:23 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
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Dakota Post from the Left Coast - January 26, 2025 Viewing falling US Empire from Santa Cruz, California while reading erudite old white guys who study geopolitics

Insightful thoughts from Kim TallBear.
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27.01.2025 14:25 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

That makes sense. I am planning to start my own Substack; I hope I can link to that.

27.01.2025 02:18 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I've been told that I go off on tangents, anyway. Will this help me get right to the point? LOL, clearly not. Full of questions. Full of verbiage, striving to untangle my own thoughts. Full of hope that others will think and write and untangle along with me.

26.01.2025 16:38 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Aha. I just clicked a "+" at the bottom and it appears to have added a new reply. Maybe I can learn to ride this bike. Also train myself not to hit the space bar twice after a period. & truncate everything. Truncate ruthlessly. Use acronyms. Is this how people felt when Twitter first started?

26.01.2025 16:38 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

I'm not even sure if I'm doing this thread right, replying to a reply. Is that how it's supposed to work if you want to write more than 300 characters? Do I sound like a complete idiot who missed the bus for years and years? I just want to laugh at the clunkiness of it all. I got used to one site.

26.01.2025 16:38 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

I'm not a celebrity. I'm not much of a re-poster, although I will do that occasionally. What does it mean, in this context, to be just my tiny self? What does my voice sound like here? Would it be heard? By whom? Is it valued? understood? misinterpreted? Is there a user manual for this format?

26.01.2025 16:32 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Still puzzling over how to use Bluesky in ways that suit me. I'm glad to read what's here, but not sure it makes sense for me to post in ways at all similar to how I've posted on Facebook. It's hard to get a feel for how people use this medium. I was never on X. Feels like shouting into a void?

26.01.2025 16:28 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0

So, I was never on Twitter/X, and this format is new to me. I guess I'm feeling confused about why people I don't know would follow me? Do I seem possibly interesting? Also confused about what is appropriate to post here and if there are cultural norms here I should be aware of.

16.11.2024 17:41 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Deeply appreciating all the quality cat posts on Bluesky. I don't want social media without cats.

13.11.2024 15:48 β€” πŸ‘ 5    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Today: mindful tea-drinking.

13.11.2024 15:44 β€” πŸ‘ 4    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Thinking a lot about various tools for unjangling the jangled nerves and how what works for one person doesn't necessarily work for another. What tools do you use when you notice you are anxious, stressed, and/or numb?

13.11.2024 14:07 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 3    πŸ“Œ 0

Glad to see you here too!!!

13.11.2024 03:50 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Hi, humans (and bots? I hope not...) I'm new to Bluesky and wondering what the possibilities are, here.

13.11.2024 00:15 β€” πŸ‘ 4    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0

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