Focused and Filthy

Mono pic of white male standing in front of a wardrobe. His jeans are open and he is holding open a zip top to reveal a naked torso.

Bonus #ShirtlessSunday content.

Thank you x I love a good reflection. And clean glass hotel tables are excellent for them!

Hotel windows - Focused and Filthy I haven’t stayed in a really posh hotel for a while, but recently I did. The type of place that has Molton and Brown toiletries and Tunnocks wafers for biscuits. I usually try and take my big camera w...

This weekend’s SexBlog post focusedandfilthy.com/2025/10/12/h...

Collection of tiny sexy Warhammer-style dolls lounging in various slutty positions next to a pair of glasses, a D20 and a small purple paint pot

"I’m standing over my Warhammer-style collection of tiny fuckdolls, holding one up to you with trembling fingertips, going ‘look! Isn’t this cool!’"

NEW blog: what being a sex nerd means to me.

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(note: this starts off light but builds to smut)

“I don’t fuck on a first date” Partway through a kiss. A good one. A promising one. I break off and hold my face close to his. Whisper: “I don’t fuck on the first date, just so you know.” “Oh. Ok. Why’s that?” I don’t know what he’s thinking, but I imagine it’s something about self respect. Maybe I don’t fuck on a first date because I want men to value me more, or because I’ve been shagged then ghosted enough to be a bit wary of jumping straight into bed. But that is not what I say. That is not how I feel. The reason I don’t fuck on a first date is… “Because anticipation is half the fun.”

Got high, wrote something pretty. Here is the start of it. Been a while since I wrote something I was excited about.

Landscape photo looking down a lane towards some trees and bales that are in layers of mist but have a warm sun glow about them

Morning Bluesky. First cold
Misty dog walk of the year for me.

Hold my hand and come with me into the sky | Girl on the Net This is the first time I have ever got this man to hold my hand in public. And it made for a particularly sexy moment in the London cable car...

"I want to look across the Thames and reach for you with this trembling hand, then take you in my arms and breathe you in and know you’re mine."

This time last year, I got romantic in a cable car...

www.girlonthenet.com/blog/hold-my...

When it comes to sex, there is so much possibility! So many different roads to go down! If you want me to meet you where your kink is, I need you to draw me a map.

NEW blog, gorgeous art by @stuartcb.bsky.social

www.girlonthenet.com/blog/eat-the...

Numbered list which reads: High speed train – Stratford International to St Pancras International Thameslink – St Pancras to Farringdon Sub-surface tube (Circle line) – Farringdon to Monument Moving walkway – Monument to Bank Waterloo and City Line – Bank to Waterloo Mainline train – Waterloo to St Margarets Hammerton’s Ferry – North to south Thames banks Single-decker bus – 371 to Norbiton Church Double-decker bus – 57 to Wimbledon Tram – Wimbledon to West Croydon Overground – West Croydon to Whitechapel Crossrail – Whitechapel to Liverpool Street Inclined lift/funicular – Liverpool Street Deep tube (Central Line) – Liverpool Street to St Paul’s Hire Bike – St Paul’s to Aldwych Vintage Bus – Aldwych to Charing Cross Pedicab – Charing Cross to Embankment Thames Clipper – Embankment to North Greenwich Cable Car – North Greenwich to Royal Docks Black Cab – Royal Docks to North Woolwich Woolwich Ferry – North terminal to South terminal Uber/Private taxi – Woolwich ferry to Cutty Sark Lift – Cutty Sark Greenwich Foot Tunnel – Cutty Sark to Island Gardens Docklands Light Railway (DLR) – Island Gardens to Stratford International

And obviously I have to reshare this, because it took me ages and ages and it was the best date I have ever planned.

I took 25 *different* forms of London transport in one day:

www.girlonthenet.com/london-trans...

Yippee for magical times and new posts x x

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Why not spend some time listening to the magical sexy #AudioPorn instead? There have been some proper filth bangers lately, courtesy of @gdwsundial.bsky.social and @focusedandfilthy.bsky.social

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Mono pic of naked white male lying on a sofa bathed in sunlight pouring through a window behind him. His head is tipped back & his arms are draped across the back & arm of the sofa.

Enjoying an autumn sunny Sunday 🙂

Nipple bars and shields. - Focused and Filthy I haven’t posted any new pieces of jewellery for a while. I do have some, I was recently gifted three from a partner and I was so touched. I thought they were very brave but they were different to all...

Sunday night and a few nipple jewellery images on my blog focusedandfilthy.com/2025/10/05/n...

The people turning to AI for dating and relationship advice - BBC News More people are turning to AI for help with their relationships, but is that a good idea?

*le sigh* www.bbc.co.uk/news/article... Please just send people to BISH or Meg-John and Justin instead

Work thing just for the day.

Nope 😊

Photograph of a train seat with lots of different coloured lines on but predominantly purple.

Can you guess which I’m on now?

May manage four or five different types of trains/transport today! Think @girlonthenet.bsky.social would be proud.

Guest blogs | Girl on the Net If you want to write a guest blog, that would be bloody lovely. Guest blogs in the past have included such diverse topics as foot fetishes, sex work, first time sex, and how difficult it is to chat up...

Got a bit more money in the budget so I've doubled payment for guest blogs.

£40 now rather than £20, come pitch me a story if you've got something sexy to say.

www.girlonthenet.com/guest-blogs/

Naked on her knees on the kitchen floor, a woman plays with herself eagerly as she sucks a guy's cock. His jeans are open and his eyes closed in pleasure as he grabs the back of her head to push her further onto his shaft. Behind her, another man reaches forward eagerly while sliding his belt out through the loops.

"You push the length of yourself into my mouth. You’re rough with me, your pleasure station, and saliva begins to run down my chin. "

#FreeUse fans - go fucking wild for @gdwsundial.bsky.social's latest amazing #AudioPorn.

www.girlonthenet.com/blog/sunday-... NEW sexy art by @stuartcb.bsky.social

Sitting at a low table in a bar, a smiling woman holding a drink rests her hand on a guy's knee. He's visibly laughing and cracking a huge smile, pointing at her as if in acknowledgement at the great joke she's just made.

Dating someone who makes me laugh < Dating someone who laughs at my jokes

NEW blog:

www.girlonthenet.com/blog/good-se... Fabulous art by @stuartcb.bsky.social ❤️

I could probably fill a whole book of these now, but I want it to be perfect. next year for sure.

Looking out - Focused and Filthy Looking out , because it’s much easier than looking in.

This week’s blog post for what would have been #SinfulSunday focusedandfilthy.com/2025/09/28/l...

This only happens to you once

Photo of a large fruit scone and coffee in the sunshine next to a big cafe window

In my happy place on a Saturday morning. Catching up online with friends and all the delicious filth I’ve missed this week.

Pinch me - Focused and Filthy Her nipple torture and teasing is something I fear and crave in equal measure.

This week’s blog post and something I crave focusedandfilthy.com/2025/09/21/p...

Guest blog: Husband sitting - keeping him entertained | Girl on the Net Ever considered asking someone to keep your husband entertained sexually while you're busy? Missy introduces the concept of husband sitting...

"Maybe next time I’ll ask if two sitters can come over. Particularly if he’s being a handful and I know needs to be energetically enjoyed."

Fabulous new #AudioPorn by @focusedandfilthy.bsky.social about inviting women to come sit on her husband 🫠 www.girlonthenet.com/blog/husband...

Guest blog: Husband sitting - keeping him entertained | Girl on the Net Ever considered asking someone to keep your husband entertained sexually while you're busy? Missy introduces the concept of husband sitting...

"I decided to ask a very sexy woman if she’d like to come to our AirBnB and husband sit for me. Keep him entertained sexually while I was busy."

NEW #AudioPorn! @focusedandfilthy.bsky.social introduces us to the wildly hot concept of 'husband sitting'

www.girlonthenet.com/blog/husband...

You need a reason to wear those boots again!

Three years??? Where the fuck has that gone? 🤔