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I like to think that everyone is more interesting than their labels, then I meet a person who is so invested in their labels, they literally will commit more to their labels than being in authentic community with others. Weird choice, but it was *their choice* and I respectfully bow out

Meowdy

#dickheads #beyou #authentic #integrity

I’m really tired of cleaning up after the carelessness of others, and I am tired of begging the same people to GAF. Your nonchalance isn’t cute…it’s a liability. Your “fuck it” attitude? More embarrassing than punk. Go ahead and stick to your guns but don’t expect people to stick around.

Y’all I don’t know how to say this more clearly…but when your actions are a liability to others, you need to address that and act accordingly. You really do benefit from learning to hold yourself accountable for how your actions or neglect compromise and/or negatively impact those around you.

JK Rowling is a predator and is making public restrooms unsafe for every woman by suggesting people stalk (ie photograph without consent) women in public restrooms. Joanne needs to be accountable for encouraging sexual harassment. Gender essentialism harms cis women as well as our trans sisters

A big tell is when people show more respect and acknowledgement to those with a higher follow count. It gives self-serving niceness 🤷🏼‍♀️

I pay attention to patterns (I love patterns). If you show me—even once—that you are the kind of person who only values what you can extract from someone, I will absolutely adjust your allowed proximity to me.

“Me and my shadow” #friendsfurrever #cats #bluskycats #shadowart

As a neurodivergent woman in the workplace, I’m frequently told that my matter-of-fact email communication is “emotional” or “emotive” and I really do not understand why people projecting their own emotions onto my writing happens as frequently as it does #autism #workplaceaggressions #misogyny

Not only are you depriving yourself of connection, you’re depriving yourself of the acknowledgment of your full humanity. The revolution requires you get comfortable with being uncomfortable. Let’s start with conflict resolution because, at the end of the day, we are in this struggle together.

It’s okay to make mistakes. It’s okay to admit you caused harm. Don’t hold yourself to an unattainable standard—no one expects that. It is NOT okay to attack someone’s character when they create a boundary or limit your access to them.

Meowdy, Purrdner!
Bb and my first pride in the UK
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Trans Rights Are Human Rights. AND Free Palestine

Do y’all ever look back at the people you dated before you developed self worth and *cringe* with embarrassment? I hold compassion for that version of me, but I also think “girl, really???”

Hello, this is my cat and he’s a very good bb:

Things that WON’T move the needle on FASCISM:

Strong speeches
Congress
Court orders
Negotiating with TRAITORS
The next election
SCOTUS rulings

Things that WILL move the needle on FASCISM:

MASS MOVEMENTS OF THE PEOPLE.

GENERAL STRIKE.

REVOLUTION through INNOVATION by the PEOPLE.

Ya ready?

If you feel peace in their absence, you’ve every right to remove your presence and energy from their life.

If you’re custom tailoring your personality to fit what you think others want, people don’t have what they need to consent to any form of relationship with you. And consent is MANDATORY. This is why I rly cannot fw people pleasers who are unwilling to examine this tendency

As a person with people pleasing tendencies (for which I've done a LOT of internal work), the greatest realization I had was how manipulative people pleasing really is…

😮‍💨 from @everydaysolitude on Insta

A neoliberal LOVES a photo of the Statue of Liberty in some form of incarceration, but will never apply that same criticism to the Democratic Party who have welcomed and abetted fascism through compliance, negotiation (with fascists), and complacency. Be so fr with this.

plz plz plz do yourself a favor and invest in not continuing the legacy you’ve (until this point) upheld. You deserve liberation too, and your liberation is tied to everyone else’s.

Seriously, every white woman needs to invest (and PAY BLACK WOMEN) in antiracism education. This will open your MINDS to just how ingrained the indoctrination of white supremacy is. I don’t care if you think you’re one of the good ones: you’re probably not.

Why are white women in particular SO RESISTANT to relational repair and authentic community building? It’s White Supremacy. Y’all are so scared of being seen as anything less than perfect and you are choosing isolation. This rly harms you and benefits your oppressors. #whitewomen #whitesupremacy

The USA shouldn’t be involved in land occupation either! I agree. Rights and land back to First Nations people. Land Back to Palestinians. Let’s not forget H1tler supported Zionism— it’s important to combat fascist propaganda.

Yes! And: Israel can stop the war anytime by leaving Palestinian land.

I’m seeing 🗣️ 🗣️ 🗣️ and not enough action from your party. People are TIRED of your words and inaction. It’s complacency. You’ve allowed fascism to take hold of this nation through complacency

Amazing how the mask slips off as soon as you remove yourself as their energy source. #covertnarcs #boundaryup #iamkindnotnice #selfprotection #sopredictable

Hannah Arendt On Standing Up to the Banality of Evil | Philosophy Break For 20th-century German philosopher Hannah Arendt, most evil is committed by people who never make up their minds to be good or evil.

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In her observations of N4z1 war criminal, Adolf Eichmann, she made the keen insight that his actions were defined not so much by thought, but by the absence of thought - all of which built and informed Arendt’s arguments of the "banality of evil."