There’s a moment in every transsexual’s transition when they realize that a large population of their fellow queers couldn’t care less about whether they have HRT access or not, or are even antagonistic to trans affirming care. Which is just a different way to put: “care little for our deaths”
I'm 1 of the only 3 people that Alejandra (a 210K-followers giant of the trans community) has blocked today.
Not bad for a 980-followers ant like me🐜💅🏻
Ever since the queer intelligentsia succeeded at convincing a huge chunk of our community that "people who thoughtfully think about gender metaphysics, in the interiority of their own minds" are equally or more oppressed than "people who fucking transition"
Mainstream trans orgs are also like this.
Validity/"ID-change-without-HRT" trumps everything.
Even in Nanny State EU where informed consent barely exists.
Orgs and activists are totally captured by the Queer Industrial Complex
Also nice try framing being pro-transsexual as "right wing" / Musk-𝕏-coded, when this Pro-Transsexual Renaissance started out *HERE ON BSKY* (2024 "Evil Tranny Summer")
bsky.app/profile/anna...
No other minority self-polices as much as we do in support of "Outsiders must be able to use and co-opt our language as they please".
Is it really hating yourself, or is it respecting yourself enough to not be talked over by cissexual gender studies academics and treated like a token to utilize in gender abolition activism, especially when said gender abolition is a psyop actively discouraging people from transitioning?
Trans women's pickmeism towards Tenderqueers/Theyfabs is probably 10x-50x bigger than that towards Christians/MAGA.
Yet the former is never called out.
Instead, it's even promoted as the "heckin wholesome progressive thing to do"
And besides, "transmed" is at this point just an anti-transition slur.
It's constantly used to vilify those who put Transsexual interests first, regardless of how pro-DIY they are.
Transsexuals (those who transition / take HRT) are OUTNUMBERED by a majority of non-transitioners that constantly center their own perspectives and cissexual biases.
And we're tired of pretending that "uwu non-transitioners actually have it as hard as those who actually transition"
Our leadership is fully compromised (& has been for years).
Remember: you don't get to climb the trans popularity ladder if you don't constantly coddle the Cissexual/Non-transitioning majority.
According to EU bureaucrats, everything is "harmful".
EU bureaucrats are what tenderqueers would be if they had political power.
A previous generation's hard-line "code is speech" stance is the only reason you didn't send this post through a 40-bit ciphersuite
TMEs draw a trans woman as a beautiful woman challenge IMPOSSIBLE
The support group near me is just full of tenderqueers who have a very different attitude towards being trans than I do
Because it harms our credibility even when we then say things that are instead actually supported by data/statistics (like "timely and unrestricted access to HRT is important")
Like, I care ZERO about sports, I hate sports.
But I do care that the trans community came off as a bunch of lunatics detached from reality that just spout completely baseless, but politically correct, statements ("men and women are equally good at sports!!!1 no difference!").
Another hyperleftist copium was the "sex segregation in sports is sexist! It's imposed by MEN to keep women away from PROPER sports because men were JEALOUS/OFFENDED by women's success against them!"
Does anyone actually believe this? Or was it just extrapolated from isolated anecdotes?
So don't be surprised when "let trans folx play based on gender identity" is interpreted as "No-HRT theymabs should play in women's sports".
The trans community did **literally nothing** to dispel this argument.
Validity rhetoric actually implicitly promoted it.
inb4 ""but it should've been obvious!""
No. The overwhelming mainstream narrative from the trans/queer community was that >>you don't have to transition<<, to be a trans woman/man.
Ok but this counterpoint was rarely, if ever, used by us.
The narrative was always only about "reflecting the athlete's gender identity".
Testosterone limits were decried as problematic/sexist/colonial.
Or that T provides no advantage (which, let's be real, is BS)
assimilating by doing all the stuff that society keeps trying to stop me from doing
They hate it when we have a concise word to describe an ubiquitously observed phenomenon, within the context of trans/queer spaces
And so their generic word for "woman/female" becomes "AFAB", so that they don't exclude themselves and fellow theyfabs from references to "people that any reasonable person would perceive as 'women' ".
To them, making theyfabs feel "included" is always more important than including trans women.
They always have the escape hatch of "actually I'm AFAB", that they *consistently* use.
Both in society, and in courtrooms.
It's splash damage that they receive, I don't think it's useful to water down our language like that.
anything that amounts to "this combination of words and/or numbers is illegal" is garbage legislation, left or right
They can condescendingly forgive cis women who call themselves "women" (they're not woke enough, they're indoctrinated by the patriarchy..)
But a trans woman who actively decides to call herself "woman" instead of "genderfucky valid enby"? "Yikes! I thought trans folx were woker than that!"
And that shouldn't be surprising, given that that are probably 10x theyfabs for each trans woman.
Even more so if you consider their social clique of "fellow theyfabs/non-transitioners/TMEs".
To them trans women are the most distant afterthought.
To them, Trans community == Theyfab community
