FCK YA! SEX POSITIVE

Using guided words or suggestion to create an almost trance-like state where you and your partner(s) explore focus, surrender, and pleasure through you own minds.

As per usual: talk about comfort and triggers ahead of time, and check in after to stay grounded and safe.

#Kinktober

Eroticizing your partner being with someone else. Sometimes you watch, sometimes you just hear about it later.

The thrill can come from power, vulnerability, jealousy, or arousal.

This is considered "Advanced" for sure: Talk through boundaries, triggers, and aftercare.

#Kinktober

Kinktober Day 3: Bondage

Tying or restraining someone to build tension, trust, and surrender. Rope, cuffs, scarves, or tape; it’s about connection, not just restraint!

Talk about limits, use safe words (and/or non-verbal signals), and check comfort and circulation.

#Kinktober

Kinktober Day 2: Role Play

Stepping into characters or dynamics to bring fantasy to life. Teacher and student, boss and assistant, strangers at a bar, or anything you can imagine.

Talk first, share limits, and check in so it stays fun, safe, and hot.

#Kinktober

Kinktober Day 1: Sensory Deprivation

Blocking or reducing one sense so the others go into overdrive. Blindfolds or earplugs can make every touch sharper.

Talk ahead, set signals, and check in often.

#Kinktober

It’s October, which means Kinktober!
All month I'm breaking down one kink per day in plain language, sharing what it is, and how consent and safety fit in.

(Yes, I'm playing catchup here from what I've posted on Instagram lol)

#Kinktober

When public media disappears, so do the stories that bring us together.

With federal funding eliminated, millions may lose their last trusted source of news and connection.

If that matters to you, now’s the time to act. Donate: n.pr/458sOhq

We talk about “mental health" & "mental wellness” a lot. It’s safe. It's algo-friendly.
Bipolar doesn’t care about how many reps you do at the gym.
Depression doesn’t care about gratitude lists.
If you’re going to talk about mental health, talk about mental illness too.

People aren’t numbers. Respect > body count culture.

1. Stop assuming people announce all their activism on social media.

2. Stop demanding people announce all their activism on social media.

3. Stop deriding people for not announcing all their activism on social media.

4. Dunking on people on social media isn't activism and isn't praxis.

Remember, sometimes it's nice to just stop, take a moment to breathe, ground yourself and scream "what the fuck am I doing here?" into the void 🖤

Jfc

Hot take (apparently): Mental health days should be as accepted as sick days. Your mind needs rest too.

100% about communication & consent

Look, it should go without saying, but if you use Fifty Shades of Grey as your blueprint for kink/BDSM, it’s gonna be a red flag for me.

Stats be wild especially kinky stats.

Unpopular (social media content policy) opinion: Sexual health isn't just about STIs. It's about pleasure, consent, and well-being.

So so so excited they are coming to ECCC this year 🤯

🖋️ “POTUS do all you can to protect abortion rights before January 20!” hit 250 signers!

“But if you bully conservatives off the app others won’t want to join”

Correct

Lots of new people coming to Bluesky - where are my people:
🏳️‍🌈 Queer
🌶️ Neurospicy
💋 S3x Positive
⛓️ K¡nk Positive
🐿️ ADHD
🧩 Autistic
🎭 Bipolar
🤓 Nerdy
🎮 Gamer
⚽️ Football/Soccer
📚 INJF

Could be one of these! Could be all of these! Could be only interested in these! You are welcome here 🤗

Welcomeeeee!

It's ok to gentle with yourself. Especially when the world is on fire.

Does anyone know when the horrors stop persisting yet or nah?

Sabrina Carpenter putting out a song about oral in 2024 is not what I had on my bingo card but this year has been full of surprises 🎉

They're a 10, but they masturbate anytime they're slightly bored.

Idk who needs to hear this but it's ok to ask for help.

Yuuuuup 100%

You either pick when to deal with past trauma/emotions or life picks for you. I can promise you, if you let life pick, it will be at the worst possible moment.