Mistress Jadis Ives

The moment of surrender is...when it begins.

Intuition and creativity are essential in Dominance. I won't say that *all* the best ideas come from the "session flowstate", some things require planning to execute, but so many of them do.

There's room to subvert, kink is actually ALL about that, but if you don't understand what you're subverting and why, "disruption" can easily turn to disaster.

If you don't have a deep understanding of why the wheel is round, then you're not qualified to reinvent it. With Dominance, things take certain forms because those forms are functional.

Sydney ✈️✈️
I'll have time to be cruel again soon.
12-14th December
27th to 31st December 🎄🎇

Thinking about all the heavy play (singletailing, needles, blood, strike branding) I got to indulge in last weekend and.. YES.

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Sorry, I cannot hear you. I'm k-kinda busy!
I'm a busy lady and there's not a lot of my time that isn't specifically allocated, especially when I'm in Sydney on tour. If you want my focused attention plan ahead and make it happen. I won't chase you and I won't drop everything to accommodate you.

Things that not only look hot on you but are also relatively comfortable and easy to move in. These will be a valuable resource for days when your bandwidth is lower and for challenging or longer bookings.

ND Dommes: If you have sensory issues, sometimes fetish outfits can be a real challenge. When your energy level is high, spend some time noting and maybe putting aside some sensory-friendly session outfits.

Noticing a trend; a lot of NEWER providers wanting to 'pick my brain' & feeling entitled to do so. That phrase feels parasitic. This is a knowledge exchange, NOT a free consultancy. Every industry has limits & a price tag. Ours isn’t exempt.

#FemDom

Sitting at the hairdresser going through all my pics from the weekend. It certainly was a time! 🔥

Good Morning Sydney! ✈️ I'm looking forward to a big day of double Domme destruction with @_Harper_Bizarre. I'm sticking around for a few extra days this week and I do have some Tuesday and Wednesday availability open.

Good Morning, I am ready to conquer. ✨

Throwback Thursday: 2014 edition ..this was the shoot after the shoot. 😂💦

An underrated Domme skill is the ability to throw a look. A look can tease the tantalising promise of reward, communicate a command or simply stop foolishness in its tracks. All without a word spoken.

Ominous reminder that fellow tall baddie @_Harper_Bizarre will be visiting me this weekend. Saturday and Sunday are quite spoken for but there is a little wiggle room for good supplicants on Friday and Monday.

Some people seem to think of FemDom just as a roleplay to titillate men. Clearly, some people are quite misguided.💀

Putting my feet up for a moment with @athiedoll.bsky.social

In all likelihood, jumping headlong into 24/7 chastity will cause you issues. Start by experimenting with shorter wear times and build up from there. Finding a cage that works for you can be quite the task.

Sure I love my designer shoes and bags, but not as much as my designer nags. 🏇

When asked to assume a slave position, be sure to do so with care. Displaying yourself to best advantage makes you more appealing and invites Mistresses' touch and attention.

Marks! How do you feel about them?
1.Love and can have.
2.Love but can't have.
3.Meh.
4.Dislike.

There's no conflict between creativity and solid technical skills in BDSM scenes. Having a solid skill base allows you to play safely and bring more of your creative ideas to life.

#ThrowbackThursday from 2023.

Being cruel in Sydney - November 28th - December 4th.
Special guest @harper-bizarre.bsky.social November 28th - December 4th.

✈️✈️Good Morning! Heading home this morning after a very busy weekend in Sydney. I'll be releasing dates for the rest of 2025 in the next few days. In addition to my normal schedule I'm entertaining EOI for 27-30th December. ✈️✈️

For me, being a #ProDomme means many things, e.g. holding the space for people to be seen and valued as their true selves, with their vulnerabilities, their insecurities and their search for (sexual) identity.

Being part of such a journey of growth, discovery and trust is deeply touching.💖

#FemDom

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When you have to take measures.... 🩸

Eyyyyyyyyy😉