Failure is not the key to key to success it’s learning.
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I can do anything I want to do but I cant be everything I want to be.
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Learn
Conflict will make you anxious until you understand this concept.
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Learn
The hardest thing to learn about pain is also the most important
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The speed of your change can be directly measured by how uncomfortable you are.
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One of the most important things you can ever learn about boundaries is they have nothing to do with anyone else. They are guidelines for how you show up in the world, what you will accept and what you will not accept, what you will tolerate and not tolerate.
They are based on your value systems,
Setting boundaries will make you uncomfortable until you understand this concept.
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Leaving abusive relationships can often feel scarier than staying I them.
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5 "Personal Growth" hacks that are probably going to piss you off.
1. Do it now. Not tomorrow. Not after lunch. Right now. Delaying the work is just another form of hiding.
2. You aren't stuck. You are afraid. You don't lack options; you just don't like the options you have. You know exactly
The Pain You Keep Avoiding is the Path to the life you Want.
You wanna know what it is to be a people pleaser? To be a people pleaser is to have a total inability to tolerate other people's normal negative emotions.
And whether you call it disappointment, anger, fear, anxiety, it doesn't matter.
You will step in to try and make everything okay for
What if there is nothing wrong with you?
#trauma #healing #adhd
Child estrangement and no contact solved in under sixty seconds in one video.
Here we go.
If you're the child in the situation, you need to realize that your parents had no idea what they were doing, and there's a good to fair chance. If you have children, you also don't know what you're
People-pleasing and narcissism look eerily similar.
You break your back trying to make everyone happy—only to be called selfish or narcissistic. And here’s why: both narcissists and people pleasers believe they’re the main character, just for very different reasons.
A narcissist thinks they’re
You’re allowed to hurt people.
Not by being cruel — but by growing, by saying no, by setting boundaries that disrupt their comfort zone.
Every time you stop rescuing someone from their own mess, every time you disagree, every time you change in a way that challenges their worldview, it’s going to
You’re allowed to hurt people.
Not by being cruel — but by growing, by saying no, by setting boundaries that disrupt their comfort zone.
Every time you stop rescuing someone from their own mess, every time you disagree, every time you change in a way that challenges their worldview, it’s going to
People-pleasing and narcissism look eerily similar.
You break your back trying to make everyone happy—only to be called selfish or narcissistic. And here’s why: both narcissists and people pleasers believe they’re the main character, just for very different reasons.
A narcissist thinks they’re
What if there is nothing wrong with you?
#trauma #healing #adhd
The Pain You Keep Avoiding is the Path to the life you Want.
The most dangerous person in any corporation.
How much longer are you going to tolerate plaing small in your own life?
Being liked by everyone means being known by no one. That is the plight of the externally validated people pleaser. You are just an idea, because you keep selling that idea in lieu of develloping a personality.
They only see your screw-ups. They never recognize your contributions. You think this is a trap. Actually, it is a Permission Slip.
If your "best" behavior buys you zero credit... Then your "bad" behavior costs you zero leverage.
If they are going to be mad either way, the outcome is fixed. And
Three Things Your Therapist Should Tell You But Probably Won't
1. Everyone Has Trauma
2. You Are Not Special
3. Nobody is Guranteed Breakfast (You're Gonna Die)
How it feels to be a people pleaser
You have No Idea Who You Are
No Idea Where You Are Going
And making yourself miserable helping everyone else.
5 Personal Growth Hacks You Will Probably Hate.
1. Mistakes Happen: Repeating those mistakes is a choice.
2. My responsiblity for other peoples feelings ends where my peace begins.
3. I do not control my circumstance only what I build from them
4. Feelings are not a choice, but my response to
5 years as a RECOVERED alcoholic in 60 seconds.
5 years of philosophy in under one minute: Generational trauma is actually just generational behavior that I kept engaging in.
Trauma isn’t passed down; shitty behavior is.
Changing your behavior is the only way to break the cycle.
Being self-aware trumps what happened to you.
I didn’t inherit
You’re not actually afraid of what anyone will think about your boundaries. You just don’t want to face the discomfort of standing up for yourself.
You think you have to be a jerk to set boundaries, but when you use clear, kind, and mature language, it’s almost never a
The phrase that changed my life permanently is triggering as shit, and you probably won’t like it.
So what?
Born into a bad family? So what.
Childhood trauma? So what?
Neurodivergent? So what?
No matter what has happened to you, and no matter what will ever happen to you, your life is your
