Menopause is weiiiiird π
Why am I getting emotional about the Battle of Helms Deep?
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Menopause is weiiiiird π
Why am I getting emotional about the Battle of Helms Deep?
My 98yr old nan asked me to explain the process of transitioning and the medical options available, she wants to understand what my nephew's best friend is going through. She's 98, don't let anyone tell you age is an excuse for ignorance.
17.02.2026 00:18 β π 7 π 1 π¬ 0 π 0I've fallen down an Aragorn/Boromir shaped AO3 hole! HELP!!!
16.02.2026 21:58 β π 2 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0Bringing this back for Valentine's Day!
14.02.2026 01:50 β π 8 π 2 π¬ 0 π 0calypso wee john & izzy claimed! steddyhands are still available, either individually or as a bundle :D
(if you want edizzy, stizzy or gentlebeard you can also get them)
Haven't had a verbal conversation about anything but work for the last 2 weeks, before that it was 6 weeks. I just want to have an occasional chat with someone who doesn't hate me before I've even opened my mouth.
Making plans for 3 months time isn't keeping me going anymore, I hate life
America is proving Milgram and Zimbardo right on a huge scale. Those experiments led to ethics revues and new regulations. MAGA has no ethics to regulate.
10.02.2026 13:54 β π 0 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0Zimbardo is rolling in his grave right now, and probably screaming 'I told you so!'
10.02.2026 12:05 β π 0 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0Sir Ian McKellen performing a monologue from Shakespeareβs Sir Thomas More on the Stephen Colbert show. Never have I heard this monologue performed with such a keen sense of prescience. Nor have I ever been in this exact historical moment.TY Sir Ian, for reaching us once again.
#Pinks #ProudBlue
Aaaaaaaaaargh!
You can RELISH a thing or situation.
You can REVEL IN a situation.
You cannot RELISH IN anything.
RELISH is a synonym of REVEL IN.
You would not say REVEL IN in.
Yes, this is a pet hate. Yes, I stop reading if I see this.
Please stop!
My sister told me I breathe out to loudly, it's fucking asthma. Maybe she'd be happier if I just stopped breathing, couldnt offend her by existing then.
21.01.2026 19:15 β π 0 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0Can't stand my family, can't afford to move.
21.01.2026 19:03 β π 0 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0Today is 3 years since grandad died, and as much as I miss him, I'm glad he's not here to see Fascism raise it's disgusting head again. He gave up too much the last time,he'd be devastated to see what's happening now
20.01.2026 21:27 β π 5 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0Just been told I've got a weeks holiday to take before march. can't afford to go anywhere, got no one to go anywhere with, and can't think of anything worse than an idle week at home with family,I'd just end up working a 100hr week caring for nan while my mum had a holiday. What's the point
20.01.2026 12:34 β π 0 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0There's a woman at work who organises 'events' for morale. Mostly these are ok & for charity, but she can't "read the room" π today, to combat 'blue Monday' she bought biscuits & cake (none of which were vegan, coeliac or allergy friendly).
I wonder if she even knows why it's called blue Monday?
The first time Charlie Chaplin spoke onscreen, he implored the people of the world to resist the rising tide of fascism.
Nearly 90 years later, it remains a timely message.
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09.01.2026 01:25 β π 1 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0I grew up in the Cold War, the UK had a war with Argentina when i was 9. I've seen the IRA, war in Iraq, European genocides, apartheid, a string of civil wars caused by imperialism and colonialism, bigotry, CND marches, coups and dictators.
And this feels like the closest to WW3 we've ever been
Considering the possibilities today
- Venezuela is larger than the UK
- The UK has oil and Gas reserves
- Anything is possible when a head of state has dementia and no one is stopping them
If you're not afraid, you're not paying attention
Found out my dad's sister died. We are not sad about it. She was an awful person. Stole from people she was supposed to be caring for. Lied to people about their friends to cause fights and stalked her ex-husband while his husband was dying.
We went no contact 10 years ago, she died 2 years ago.
Did I just order a bunch of craft supplies? Yes. Did I need them? No. Do they include long dead, scavenged things that will freak out my family? Of course! π
30.12.2025 16:40 β π 0 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0Everyone went to bed at 7:30, been sat here on my own, feeling like a servant in my own house for the last 2 hours. Fuck Christmas
25.12.2025 21:26 β π 0 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0I coast along not feeling much of anything most of the time. But when I'm supposed to be celebrating I become acutely aware of how fucking miserable I really am.
I don't know what I want, but it's not this life
Whilst you're celebrating the birth of a Palestinian refugee 2 millennia ago, please consider making a donation to feed Palestinian babies now www.unicef.org.uk/donate/child...
22.12.2025 17:03 β π 2 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0Love an M&S gluten free sandwich
Do NOT love that it's not included in the meal deal π€¨
Digital color drawing of Izzy Hands with a speech bubble above him that reads: TODAY (11/19) is the last day for the Year of Belonging calendar pre-sale!
Today is the last day for pre-sales! Order your calendar today!
All proceeds split between Lambda Literary (a non-profit dedicated to amplifying LGBT+ storytelling) & Grassroots Gaza (a mutual aid initiative for Palestinians).
yearofbelongingcalendar.bigcartel.com
Happy Birthday π
09.11.2025 15:27 β π 0 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0When you go to hard for the bit and accidentally volunteer your friend to join a thing ππ€£ oops
27.10.2025 19:02 β π 1 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0She's got a definite aura of Tina Turner, belting out a bit of Mad Max
We don't neeeed another heeeeeero....