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@mindskills.substack.com

Expert Speaker, Coach and Trainer on Emotional Intelligence, Behavioural Change and Unconscious Bias

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Anytime you hear "Draw your own conclusions", it's an appeal to go down the rabbit hole and search for info that confirms your prejudices.
Why? Because any silly thing can be found online.
And then we act as if a single data point is as valid as hundreds of responsible sources.

22.02.2026 12:09 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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From Team Member to Leader: The Praise Gap How do you know you've done a good job?

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22.02.2026 11:37 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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The Invisible Rulebook That Keeps You Feeling Undeserving If this happens, then...

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21.02.2026 20:19 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I think I just added two more pages to the booklet... 😜

21.02.2026 10:10 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

You make a fantastic point. Being told that it needs to be fluffed up makes me feel that it's not good enough and once it's fluffed up, it won't feel like my work anymore and I will feel like an imposter.

21.02.2026 09:59 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
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Why So Many Capable People Feel Like Frauds High achievement and low confidence.

Why so many capable people feel like frauds:

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20.02.2026 23:36 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

"Never attribute to malice that which can be adequately explained by stupidity." (Hanlon's Razor)

Well, unless you are a Republican, I guess...

19.02.2026 21:16 β€” πŸ‘ 7    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I have written this really good (according to people who have read it) booklet about imposter syndrome. It's about 40 pages, but a publisher I talked to told me I would need to fluff it up to at least 180 pages. Why isn't there a market for short, but information-dense booklets?

31.01.2026 23:37 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0

Second star to the right and straight on till morning.

18.02.2026 23:29 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

"Does it need to be said? Does it need to be said in this way? Does it need to be said in this way now? Does it need to be said in this way now by me?"

If not, maybe we should keep it to ourselves?

17.02.2026 12:48 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 1

"I have always found it quaint and rather touching that there is a movement [Libertarians] in the US that thinks Americans are not yet selfish enough."

(Christopher Hitchens)

17.02.2026 12:47 β€” πŸ‘ 4    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Here is an idea for a new US National Anthem:

"No one likes us, I don't know why
We may not be perfect, but heaven knows we try
And all around, even our old friends put us down
Let's drop the big one and see what happens"

(Randy Newman - Political Science)

16.02.2026 18:42 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

According to the number plate, it's a genuine 1959 BMW Isetta 300.

11.02.2026 18:43 β€” πŸ‘ 5    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Coriander/Cilantro is disgusting.

08.02.2026 16:36 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

β€œI wish it need not have happened in my time,” said Frodo. "So do I," said Gandalf, "and so do all who live to see such times.

But that is not for them to decide. All we have to decide is what to do with the time that is given us.”

08.02.2026 16:35 β€” πŸ‘ 26    πŸ” 10    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 1

I was in Munich last weekend and went to a cafΓ© at around 11am. Sat down and a waiter rushed over to explain that I couldn't sit there, as that area was reserved for people who order food. When I asked why he thought I would not be ordering food, his answer was: "We don't serve food before 12!".

07.02.2026 13:57 β€” πŸ‘ 7    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

After watching "Best of Enemies" about Gore Vidal and William Buckley, I thought it would actually be quite nice to listen to a current intelligent and articulate conservative.

But I really can't think of anyone.

07.02.2026 00:56 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Why is what specifically?

05.02.2026 09:04 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Very wise arrangement!

04.02.2026 23:57 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Interesting that some of the email addresses in the Epstein files are not redacted, especially if the email chain is longer than a page. I wonder how many of them will be used to sign up people to Tinder and Grindr...

www.justice.gov/epstein

04.02.2026 18:59 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Interesting that some of the email addresses in the Epstein files are not redacted, especially if the email chain is longer than a page. I wonder how many of them will be used to sign up people to Tinder and Grindr...

www.justice.gov/epstein

04.02.2026 18:59 β€” πŸ‘ 5    πŸ” 2    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
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Interesting that some of the email addresses in the Epstein files are not redacted, especially if the email chain is longer than a page. I wonder how many of them will be used to sign up people to Tinder and Grindr...

www.justice.gov/epstein

#epstein #epsteinfiles

04.02.2026 15:52 β€” πŸ‘ 9    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

"As democracy is perfected, the office of president represents, more and more closely, the inner soul of the people. On some great and glorious day the plain folks of the land will reach their heart’s desire at last and the White House will be adorned by a downright moron.”

(H.L. Mencken, 1920)

04.02.2026 10:10 β€” πŸ‘ 15    πŸ” 6    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0

I used to have a neighbour I did not know well, but we used to greet each other. I still see her from time to time and sometimes she greets me, sometimes she totally ignores me and I was wondering what was wrong with her.

Today I saw her in town with her twin sister...

03.02.2026 14:06 β€” πŸ‘ 5    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0

"Does it need to be said? Does it need to be said in this way? Does it need to be said in this way now? Does it need to be said in this way now by me?"

03.02.2026 00:29 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Come on, isn't it obvious?

Orcas! (really)

02.02.2026 22:08 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

The top 5 natural predators of moose are
Grizzlies
Black Bears
Wolves
Humans
and?

#TIL #InterestingRandomFacts

01.02.2026 20:16 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

I have written this really good (according to people who have read it) booklet about imposter syndrome. It's about 40 pages, but a publisher I talked to told me I would need to fluff it up to at least 180 pages. Why isn't there a market for short, but information-dense booklets?

31.01.2026 23:37 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0

β€œA man who doesn't know the truth is just an idiot, but a man who knows the truth and calls it a lie is a crook.”

(Bertolt Brecht)

31.01.2026 23:13 β€” πŸ‘ 8    πŸ” 5    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

"You do your worst – and we will do our best."

(Winston Churchill, 1941)

30.01.2026 01:19 β€” πŸ‘ 4    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

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