Itβs the worst, Iβm still on holiday, leave me aloneπππ
01.01.2025 18:26 β π 1 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0@banyardharry.bsky.social
Trainee Clinical Psychologist at @unibirmingham | Research interests in Depression, Suicidality, and Personality Disorders | Views are my own | he/him https://www.researchgate.net/profile/Harry-Banyard
Itβs the worst, Iβm still on holiday, leave me aloneπππ
01.01.2025 18:26 β π 1 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0Yeah Iβm always surprised by how much people benefit from just having space to use a therapist as a psychic toilet!! I hope it goes well for you π₯°
01.01.2025 16:39 β π 1 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0Oh yeah, if anything youβll probably start the first couple of months just getting used to no structure really being needed. I think I just βfilled the spaceβ for a little while at first. Definitely no βright or wrongβ way to approach it as a client, which is kind of freeing when you get used it.
01.01.2025 16:07 β π 1 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0Yeah, I think if itβs a relational issue (which I tend to think most issues for people areπ ) then youβll hopefully find the therapy more helpful. It will take time though, and probably need to air out times the therapist will piss you off that might not be given space in brand therapies.
01.01.2025 15:44 β π 1 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0(2) idk if i can just say itβs been βhelpfulβ because I guess I wonβt know until Iβve finished. However, definitely find myself more self-aware and willing to be more self-compassionate. Very much would recommend trusting the process and if youβre annoyed about something, say it.
01.01.2025 15:25 β π 1 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0My experience is mostly as a client but as a trainee clinical psychologist itβs something I am trying to integrate into my practice.
Been in analysis for about a year now. Going twice a week and Iβm continuously surprised by how difficult Iβve found it getting used to having space therapeutically.
Screenshot of thesis supervision reminder
lovely way to be greeted into the New Year with a thesis supervision reminder from the university π«
01.01.2025 14:51 β π 3 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0Shared on Bluesky for the first timeβ¦maybe the best thing I wrote this yearβ¦
Why you donβt want a diagnosis of BPD
#bpd #eupd
www.beamconsultancy.co.uk/the-blog/202...
Would very much recommend, I usually struggle to sit and finish a book but found this very readable!
31.12.2024 00:23 β π 2 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0To anyone who is staying with relatives over the holidays and the house is too warm, remember, βthis too shall pass.β
23.12.2024 15:22 β π 7 π 2 π¬ 0 π 0In my opinion, absolutely. #Autistic folk often notice patterns, such as group dynamics, hypocrisy between words and actions, or inconsistencies in rules and behaviours. These observations are often gaslit by the neurotypical gaze, leading to confusion and alienation, despite being correct.
30.11.2024 18:55 β π 70 π 10 π¬ 10 π 4The ending of Girl, Interrupted sees the main character reject psychiatryβand specifically Borderline Personality Disorderβfor its inherent sexism.
On #BPD, she writes: βTo quote my post-Melvin psychiatrist: βItβs what they call people whose lifestyles bother them.ββ
As much skin as possible and furry leg warmers. Canβt imagine they do understated in the pink pony club.
27.11.2024 15:14 β π 1 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0I reckon youβd be safe in something pink
27.11.2024 15:13 β π 0 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0These are the important questions that need to be asked! If Iβm going to be singing it hourly I should at least know the context.
27.11.2024 15:07 β π 1 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0A photo of the book βlearning from the patientβ by Patrick Casement
Iβve just about finished this book I received as a gift from a previous supervisor as I left the service to start the ClinPsyD. It was a book that she leaned on during her studies and I can see why. Really enjoyed reading this and would recommend to many!
#TherapySky
"Gentlemen, this is democracy manifest! What is the charge? Eating a meal? A succulent Chinese meal? Get your hand off my penis! I see that you know your judo well!β
23.11.2024 05:23 β π 979 π 123 π¬ 33 π 5Salted Pistachio Dark Chocolate Twice Baked Pain au Chocolat - indulgent but soooo worth it!!
23.11.2024 13:42 β π 3 π 0 π¬ 1 π 0Winter vegetables on toast with a poached egg
Twice baked pistachio pain au chocolat
The best bit about autumn weekends is going out for incredible food and then going home to get cosy, read a book, and nap!!
23.11.2024 13:35 β π 4 π 0 π¬ 2 π 0I totally understand that receiving a diagnosis can feel validating - it just doesnβt need to be one that comes with so much prejudice and stigma thrown in #bpd #eupd #traumanotpd
20.11.2024 17:57 β π 13 π 3 π¬ 0 π 0No itβs my bad, I hate acronyms but the character count is a pain! Itβs regarding Personally Disorder Diagnoses. Iβm hoping once Iβve completed my thesis in a couple of years time Iβll have published a couple more timesβΊοΈ
17.11.2024 23:12 β π 1 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0Just shared this elsewhere so to make my Bluesky βsharing nonsenseβ debut, here it is! (And for the first time in a while maybe people will see it!) #bpd #eupd
www.beamconsultancy.co.uk/the-blog/202...
βAn image featuring a trans pride flag in pastel pink, blue, and white, accompanied by the text: βRepost this if Trans people are welcome and safe with you.β Below the text are illustrations of diverse individuals holding trans pride flags, symbolizing support and inclusivity for the trans community.β
Iβve always had trans mates since the early 90s, when I was in the first lived experience pilot. It was seen as a threat, and we were utterly loathed, with the whole hospital waiting for us to break down (which, of course, happened). A trans nurse became our one ally. Difference supports difference.
16.11.2024 15:59 β π 245 π 127 π¬ 4 π 1Hi Jason, please could you add me? Second year at UoB!
15.11.2024 22:03 β π 1 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0Iβve used this previously! Wonderful set of resources!
15.11.2024 14:42 β π 1 π 0 π¬ 0 π 0Zotero is great and I think that anyone who needs to organise and cite more than a handful of references should be using it. Here's an intro to Zotero that I made for my undergrad students (but the info is relevant for anyone new to Zotero).
Full vid [13 mins]: youtu.be/SlUHjOqVCyU
Preview β¬οΈ
Our long didactic paper on #network analysis, written with many of the amazing scientists that work in the field is finally out in IJMPR and open access ! It was a long and collaborative effort two years in the making, but, it was worth it! Please repost onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1002/...
15.11.2024 07:42 β π 73 π 30 π¬ 4 π 4The Sexual and Gender Minority (SGM) Special interest group (SIG), which I co-chair, has joined Bluesky
Please follow!
bsky.app/profile/abct...