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Disabled writer & feminist. Bi 🌈. Pub. in Disability Visibility (Vintage). Passionate about experimental lit & vintage. Twitter: @a_h_reaume she/her Web: www.ahreaume.com Newsletter: https://ah-newsletter.beehiiv.com/subscribe

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She made a comment about how it’s easy for us to do it and she’s disabled so she figured we would and then left the group.

I wasn’t even aware she was disabled. I still wouldn’t do it as we are just too busy. Plus the item is already sold.

05.12.2025 17:47 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Not only that, but she didn’t even offer to compensate us for that extra time delivery would take. We still wouldn’t do it as we are just too busy but you don’t get to ask individuals for free delivery and then get mad when they don’t do it for you. Other people’s time is valuable.

05.12.2025 17:46 β€” πŸ‘ 6    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

β€œ I just figured if you’re already driving by on the expressway, it’s easy to get off and come directly to my home, wait for me and then get back on.”

Yes that is just as convenient as someone picking up an item from my home or my partners work.

05.12.2025 17:44 β€” πŸ‘ 7    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Someone on marketplace got mad at me because I wouldn’t deliver an item to her home because she’s in a wheelchair.

I am also disabled and so is my partner. And I just don’t think you get to expect special treatment from individuals selling their shit on marketplace because you’re disabled.

05.12.2025 17:42 β€” πŸ‘ 17    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0

I’ve never paywalled my articles because I know many of my readers are on disability & can’t afford it.

I’m in a terrible situation with my housing and may need to ask for help.

What’s the best way to do this? Paywall? Wish list? Go fund me?

Would folks be bothered by a GFM in lieu of a paywall?

03.12.2025 06:05 β€” πŸ‘ 212    πŸ” 69    πŸ’¬ 29    πŸ“Œ 1

U.S. manufacturing activity has now contracted for 9 straight months.

02.12.2025 17:07 β€” πŸ‘ 682    πŸ” 244    πŸ’¬ 28    πŸ“Œ 34

He wore dingy sweatpants. He’s acclimated to our ways on this planet.

Is it Dr Councilor Fishface or Dr Fishface Councilor? I’m not sure.

02.12.2025 08:08 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

lol. Yess.

02.12.2025 02:38 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Just another alt-academic success story.

He even got an offer to stay on at his practicum practice so he already has a part time job.

Tho he’s starting his own practice if you know someone in need in BC!

02.12.2025 02:36 β€” πŸ‘ 12    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0

Anyways. I’m so proud of him. He’s great.

You can leave academia if you want to. His employer paid most of his tuition as he did the degree at the school he teaches at.

02.12.2025 02:34 β€” πŸ‘ 16    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

He didn’t know if he could do it but he got high 90s in all the courses (they were super easy, as I’d suspected) and managed to teach a great term. And got into the program.

And it taught him what he was capable of and what we could do together as a couple.

02.12.2025 02:33 β€” πŸ‘ 17    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

I researched every place that offered them remotely or in person, created a spreadsheet and personally called or emailed some places.

Which working full time and running a business. And I helped him with his application.

This was our first big project as a couple.

02.12.2025 02:30 β€” πŸ‘ 14    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Funny story: he decided in the summer two years ago to do it and I was like… you can apply this year!

But that also involved him getting into and taking four pre requisites at the last minute and doing those courses while teaching 3 courses.

02.12.2025 02:28 β€” πŸ‘ 12    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

My partner worked for two years to transition out of academia by getting a degree in counseling and he finally graduated this week!

The ceremony was at 8:30 am and would have required us to get up at like 5am, so we skipped it and recreated it in our kitchen instead.

I was the chancellor.

02.12.2025 02:27 β€” πŸ‘ 77    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 6    πŸ“Œ 0

Plus while she could have talked about her experience and referred to her faith and beliefs as part of that she didn’t. She just randomly gave a theological argument that didn’t adhere to the well established academic theological standards for writing an argument based in theology.

02.12.2025 01:34 β€” πŸ‘ 5    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

The essay cites the Bible and β€˜God’ for a Psychology class. The Bible is not her own personal experience of bullying around gender. The Bible is her beliefs. Belief and experience are different things.

This student did not complete the assignment as written and deserved a zero.

01.12.2025 17:11 β€” πŸ‘ 57    πŸ” 7    πŸ’¬ 5    πŸ“Œ 0

Omg. Third year. I thought she was a freshman. This was god awful. And you’re right. Didn’t cite. Vaguely referenced.

02.12.2025 01:31 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

She lacks an understanding of the readings, the topic of the essay and fundamental parts of Christian teachings.

And not all Christians think gender roles are necessary so strict. Many groups interpret them much more loosely.

01.12.2025 17:18 β€” πŸ‘ 10    πŸ” 2    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0

That doesn’t even comply with Christian teaching which is to love the sinner, not to mock them. She also would fail in the eyes of Jesus.

What would Jesus do? Also, give her a zero.

01.12.2025 17:15 β€” πŸ‘ 15    πŸ” 2    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
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The essay if you want to read it yourself. The student used a reading about bullying around gender to argue that bullying around gender is good actually because not following gender roles is demonic.
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01.12.2025 17:13 β€” πŸ‘ 13    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

The essay cites the Bible and β€˜God’ for a Psychology class. The Bible is not her own personal experience of bullying around gender. The Bible is her beliefs. Belief and experience are different things.

This student did not complete the assignment as written and deserved a zero.

01.12.2025 17:11 β€” πŸ‘ 57    πŸ” 7    πŸ’¬ 5    πŸ“Œ 0

This is Kayla Nicole who used to date Travis Kelce she did Braxton’s man enough video for Halloween and Thanksgiving and dozens of videos exist of her when she was with Kelce begging him to give her an engagement ring and marry her.

That’s not Braxton energy. That’s something else.

30.11.2025 10:12 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I am honestly fascinated by the fact that:

1) Someone thought this was a good idea and…
2) Other people think it’s a good idea.

I do not think it is a good idea. I think it’s wildly embarrassing.

30.11.2025 10:11 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

There are certain things that you could never pay me enough to do and number 1 is singing Toni Braxton twice on camera about a man I repeatedly publicly begged to marry me who wouldn’t and pretending like I broke up with him and let him go.

30.11.2025 10:09 β€” πŸ‘ 4    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

lol. I mean it doesn’t really make sense that Canadians have Black Friday except for capitalism so it makes sense.

I will have to create a Home for self exiling Americans. So many want to come. I live in the middle of nowhere now tho.

29.11.2025 08:23 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
Black chairs with a curved back and spindles coming up from the seat

Black chairs with a curved back and spindles coming up from the seat

I’m doing a reclaimed wood table with black Windsor chairs like this.

29.11.2025 04:13 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Ohhhh. Pretty!

29.11.2025 04:11 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

People camp out at stores the night before here too.

29.11.2025 04:10 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

And yes, Black Friday is also our biggest shopping day with the best sales here.

Why? Because our retailers copied the U.S. lol.

29.11.2025 04:09 β€” πŸ‘ 4    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0

Free hops are cool!

29.11.2025 04:08 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

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