If you both to agree to something before you enter a relationship, how is that controlling or limiting? Iโm not following your logic here.
05.09.2025 17:05 โ ๐ 0 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0@ashbffralt.bsky.social
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If you both to agree to something before you enter a relationship, how is that controlling or limiting? Iโm not following your logic here.
05.09.2025 17:05 โ ๐ 0 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0I respectfully disagree. I donโt think youโre considering that humanity isnโt a monolith and we all have different desires, wants and needs. Thatโs not silly to me, itโs what makes us human.
05.09.2025 16:57 โ ๐ 0 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0Thatโs silly because itโs a boundary. If me and my partner agreed to monogamy, and they cheated on me, I would not be with them anymore. I cannot be with someone who violates boundaries and also someone I cannot trust. Itโs not about possession.
05.09.2025 16:49 โ ๐ 0 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0And thatโs totally fine but thatโs how you should word/frame it. Itโs about your personal preference, others have different preferences and thatโs ok.
05.09.2025 16:47 โ ๐ 1 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0I donโt think framing it as possession applies to everyone. To some? Sure. But some people are more inclined to a specific dynamic thatโs tied to their identity and want to be with others who are too. Demisexuality exists! We know queerness branches in many directions, monogamy can be a part of that
05.09.2025 16:45 โ ๐ 1 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0Someone could question why you feel the need to be open (not me, each to their own!) Weโre all diverse. Personally, I can only have sex with people I have a connection with or have feelings for. I have no desire to have sex with other people outside of a relationship so being open would be pointless
05.09.2025 16:42 โ ๐ 0 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 1 ๐ 0Thatโs fine when you both agree to an open relationship. However if you enter a monogamous relationship and then go and have sex with other people outside of that, youโre a dick.
05.09.2025 16:36 โ ๐ 1 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0Fucking beautiful man
05.09.2025 02:32 โ ๐ 2 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0Come play with me ๐
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23.08.2025 19:00 โ ๐ 0 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0Happy pride gays & theys ๐
23.08.2025 18:03 โ ๐ 40 ๐ 1 ๐ฌ 2 ๐ 0Wow ๐ฅต๐
08.08.2025 12:46 โ ๐ 2 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 1 ๐ 0Do you know what I miss that I havenโt had in a while? Someone I like being obsessed with me. Itโs such an amazing feeling
07.08.2025 19:18 โ ๐ 8 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0London boys hit me up ๐๐
27.07.2025 18:59 โ ๐ 52 ๐ 1 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0Itโs been a while
15.02.2025 20:54 โ ๐ 82 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 5 ๐ 0Well damn ๐ฅต๐
18.01.2025 19:33 โ ๐ 1 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0Reckon itโs a good fit for your hole?
18.01.2025 18:21 โ ๐ 84 ๐ 1 ๐ฌ 4 ๐ 0Could use a warm hole sliding down on this right now
14.01.2025 16:12 โ ๐ 75 ๐ 1 ๐ฌ 3 ๐ 1Goddamn
02.01.2025 22:42 โ ๐ 2 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0Reposting multiple of your own posts in succession is an instant unfollow, Iโm sorry. Stop clogging up my feed like that.
20.12.2024 23:44 โ ๐ 19 ๐ 2 ๐ฌ 1 ๐ 0Handsome!
20.12.2024 14:02 โ ๐ 2 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0I started a keto diet end of November so I can drink and eat as much as I want over the Christmas period without feeling guilty ๐
18.12.2024 21:39 โ ๐ 1 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0I had sex the other day and when he shot his load, he shot it in his hand, pulled my dick out, covered my dick in his cum and then slid it back in. I came so fucking hard ๐ฅต
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12.12.2024 20:46 โ ๐ 1 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0Maybe you are โฑ๏ธ
12.12.2024 19:20 โ ๐ 21 ๐ 1 ๐ฌ 1 ๐ 0I like to dabble in a bit of bottomfishing now and again ๐โโ๏ธ
12.12.2024 19:13 โ ๐ 3 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 1 ๐ 0Me too ๐ฆ๐ณ๏ธ
12.12.2024 18:52 โ ๐ 1 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0Afternoon boys ๐
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