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@cupofojayla.bsky.social

you in my business? chi to sd | ucsd alumna | 1922

36 Followers  |  21 Following  |  24 Posts  |  Joined: 14.11.2024  |  1.3753

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03.12.2024 02:16 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I just finished a certification and I can’t even enjoy that feat

03.12.2024 02:16 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I wanna cry πŸ˜€

02.12.2024 22:43 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

the hardest part about the pivot I’m making is the work to get there, not because I’m lazy but because exerting the effort most days feels physically painful and I know it’s a mind game but still

02.12.2024 21:17 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

these thoughts have arisen because I should be sleeping, I have work at 5:30am πŸ™‚β€β†•οΈ

30.11.2024 04:48 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Recently went through pictures of me when I was younger and realized I’ve always done a closed-mouthed smile and funnily enough, the only time I cheesed big was when I was missing my front teeth lol

30.11.2024 04:35 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Bitch I deserve it ALL.

22.11.2024 23:20 β€” πŸ‘ 47    πŸ” 23    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 2

You are not entitled to the grace of someone you’ve traumatized. You do not get to claim space in the life of a person you’ve hurt.

18.11.2024 23:57 β€” πŸ‘ 1160    πŸ” 325    πŸ’¬ 30    πŸ“Œ 27

I wanna sit in the parking lot and eat my food in peace but someone’s child and their friends are parked next to me, windows down, blaring shitty musicβ€” I’m being tortured.

19.11.2024 23:17 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I hate coming to get car stuff done alone, they get to making all kinds of sounds and I’m like I came for an oil change! Please, no bad news 😭

19.11.2024 01:24 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

However, if you personally came to me for my honest opinion on something, that was all real lol. I’m talking about the kind of thing you have to be honest with yourself about before you can be honest with other people about it.

18.11.2024 20:47 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

One day it clicked that the things I found hard to say but felt were ultimately true were probably the type honesty I was really aiming for and not quite grasping. It’s easy to be honest about sh*t you aren’t fully aligned with or affected by personally.

18.11.2024 20:45 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I think, before, my level of honesty and its delivery were coming from a purely protective/defensive place. While I believe honesty is, in fact, the best policy, I can’t say that up until recently my choice to be honest was ever because I was comfortable or felt safe in any environment

18.11.2024 20:45 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 1
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oh nothing, just casually making a safe space for Black girls at PWIs πŸ₯Ή

www.blackbeautynearyou.com

#addtoblacksky #blacksky

16.11.2024 15:35 β€” πŸ‘ 4    πŸ” 4    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 1

There is good corny and bad corny … and bad corny you can NEVER come back from.

18.11.2024 03:50 β€” πŸ‘ 86    πŸ” 16    πŸ’¬ 4    πŸ“Œ 3

I am the universe’s manifestation of greatness. There is no need to stress, it’s already okay.

18.11.2024 00:44 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 2    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

I’ve been so dedicated to seeing how good it can get by implementing a shift in mindset and I must sayβ€” it’s lovely here.

17.11.2024 23:03 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Leaving the gym with the rest of my day ahead of me, I won!

17.11.2024 16:51 β€” πŸ‘ 6    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Came home from work to train my puppy but I still need to detangle and wash my hair, there is not enough time in a day

17.11.2024 03:30 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Let’s get some actual media up on here, tis me

17.11.2024 03:00 β€” πŸ‘ 4    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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I am DYING to dye my hair jet black again, but will I maintain the health of my hair after doing it? ahhhh idk

16.11.2024 18:56 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

That felt very MAGAish

16.11.2024 05:40 β€” πŸ‘ 6    πŸ” 3    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 1

β€œskeet” is crazy, this is my first and last time saying the word in this context

16.11.2024 00:18 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0

Had a bad workout but at least we showed up to the gym today, right?

15.11.2024 03:54 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I know people hate to see me in the gym parking lot. You thought you had a spot, meanwhile I got here 10 minutes ago and never took my foot off the brake 😭

15.11.2024 02:43 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

#AddtoBlackSky πŸ‘€

15.11.2024 02:26 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I know I’ve grown because the urge to emotionally post or find relevant memes has significantly diminished

15.11.2024 01:41 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Hey girlyyy 🀭

14.11.2024 21:29 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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