The Mela Experience 🟣⚪️⚫️

So I'm done sharing my columns every week here. In the off-chance y'all still want to read it, bookmark the site like the olden times and check it on Sundays after noon EST.

I look forward to absolutely none of you bothering. Again.

Bye for good this time.

Hell, the only time anyone here even SHARED it was cuz I linked part of one to some observance day. No one here gives a fuck.

And frankly, it's just been getting worse & worse here. I tried to minimize it cuz my brain's too broken to quit, but apparently it's not broken enough for here.

Y'know... I really truly think I'm done with this place. Every visit just makes me more & more annoyed by its unique & proudly practiced obnoxiousness.

I'm not gonna be sharing my stuff anymore on here, since I know y'all aren't reading it.

Imagine you're Freddy Kruger and some dude you're tormenting just leaves you in Bronze League

Reminder that muting specific words on social media for a day, a week, a month, or even forever can be laudatory self-care.

People think all authors are rich and royalties are a bonus. HAHAHAHA. Some of the books on that list I spent years making and have literally never earned a single cent from. Every time someone buys the book, or borrows it from the library, I get closer to that day, which may still be year away.

If folks could stop comparing piracy sites to libraries, that would be awesome. Libraries are a public good who buy books in bulk to benefit their communities, and when you read those books, they buy more.

A screenshot of a reply to me that reads "You're right, all of *your* work should be forgotten by history. Fucking petit bourgeois scum."

Thank you for admitting that I am right.

Oh boy, the piracy advocates have found my posts about us getting our settlement checks and are big mad that I'm not grateful to piracy sites for "preserving" my very much in-print books via bootleg uncredited scans surrounded by scammy popups.

i thought a labubu was a vagina injury

It's the personal stories people share about 9/11 that always get to me.
Here's a 🧵 of them.
All of these folks deserve to be remembered.

A comic strip in four panels: 1. A bird's-eye view of a giant amphora the size of a building with closed eyes and a closed mouth engraved on it. Using scaffolding, a community of wizards climbed up and are throwing all their books into it, to fill its content. > Wizards: All our grimoires for the Amphora of Great Intelligence! 2. A ground level view at the bottom of the giant amphora. This time, the wizards bring tree trunks, cut down nearby trees, and throw them into a large fire to boil the giant amphora. > Wizards: All our forests for the Amphora of Great Intelligence! 3. A gathering of all the wizards below the imposing amphora which has now opened its glowing eyes and mouth slightly. The crowd of wizards at its feet applauds: > Wizards: Amphora of Great Intelligence, our world is dying, share your knowledge with us! 4. Same shot, as the amphora responds with joyful and amused eyes. The wizards are confused by the answer... > Artificial Intelligence: According to geologists, you should eat at least one small rock per day. > Wizards: ... ... ...

The Amphora of Great Intelligence (AGI)

#webcomic #krita #miniFantasyTheater

I don't think many homophobes are indulging in self-described "queer-inclusive media" to begin with. But even within non-queer narratives, asexuality upsets the belief that "everyone" experiences a desire for sex and romance. That's why non-queer bigots dislike aces.

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WOW, my "never trust a Gretchen" rule has a new example.

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Here's the whole thing gathered up

But this is ultimately why asexuality is maligned in the queer community as well: If your definition of queerness revolves around romance and sex as proof of humanity, asexuality will always be seen as a threat.

Unfortunately, the queer community has shown that it will only support aces if we fade into the background and center other queer people's stories over our own.

Instead, ace artists are frantic to establish themselves as "the most horny" or "the best at writing smut"--whatever positions them within the circle of palatable queerness and garners their work the most praise and support.

This is an indictment, by the way, not praise. The fact that ace people can only have their art seen and valued if they erase themselves from the narrative should cause ace writers and artists more anger than it seems to.

Publishing rewards palatable queerness, rote romantic arcs and familiar fanfic tropes. Ace authors like Alice Oseman, Lindsey Miller and TJ Klune made it past the gatekeepers specifically because they decentered ace people and focused instead on typical queer romance narratives.

The idea that aphobes are all gleefully making anti-ace discourse blogs on tumblr circa 2013 absolutes the queer community of actually having to THINK about how they exclude ace people. Constantly "forgetting" to include us, not actively supporting us, is exclusion.

I think that's part of the problem. No one seems to know any ace exclusionists, yet ace people are always left out or hand-waved away by queer activism and queer narratives. No one, apparently, is actively excluding ace people... they just "forget" we exist and say casually aphobic things.

A very large orange cat stretched out on a sofa.

Chonker.

On September 10th, 1966, the original SPACE GHOST animated series made its official debut! Happy 59th birthday, Big Guy!

don't think it's a good thing to have a society this highly armed and this unstable

Absolutely obsessed with this hat I just finished up!! The colors just came together so perfectly 😍 The hat is my upcoming Modern Mushroom Witch Hat which is currently in testing and the flowers are my free trillium pattern.

#crochet #mushroomhat #witchhat

Wow, Mom's call is even more obnoxious than I expected, and I was already expecting it to be horrible.

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