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Psychologist (but not *your* psychologist), parent, progressive, and all manner of things that begin with P. What a time to be alive and anxious.

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This is a remarkable book! I recommend it.

29.10.2025 00:07 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Me: β€œSo your brain keeps handing you the same thoughts again and again, right, Depression’s Greatest Hits…”

16yo client who is now my personal hero: β€œIt’s my Thoughtify Wrapped.”

#therapistsky

28.10.2025 22:13 β€” πŸ‘ 9    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

IQ tests *are* cognitive tests.

Laypeople tend to think of IQ as one number that says how smart you are, but modern tests are a useful measure of a broad range of cognitive skills and allow comparisons between different domains of ability.

27.10.2025 14:49 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Of course they do. You don’t think a hospital serving soldiers needs to be able to track the cognitive impact of traumatic brain injuries?

27.10.2025 14:42 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
A large black book illustrated with a scene from Tove Jansson’s β€œFinn Family Moomintroll,” picturing a scene of odd little fantasy creatures arrayed around a festive table outdoors at night. The book is surrounded by colored pens, stickers, and washi tape.

A large black book illustrated with a scene from Tove Jansson’s β€œFinn Family Moomintroll,” picturing a scene of odd little fantasy creatures arrayed around a festive table outdoors at night. The book is surrounded by colored pens, stickers, and washi tape.

I deserve a special treat so I’ve broken out my new 2026 planner for the first time.

26.10.2025 21:22 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Just pass it over here - I’ll have two.

26.10.2025 19:03 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
Grilled cheese sandwich oozing cheese from the edges, cut diagonally, on an off-white plate with a pickle spear

Grilled cheese sandwich oozing cheese from the edges, cut diagonally, on an off-white plate with a pickle spear

I just woke up from a three-hour nap and now I’m eating a grilled cheese and bacon sandwich with homemade tomato jam on it.

This is the future that liberals want.

26.10.2025 18:54 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

β€œI HAVE NEVER FELT SO CELEBRATED”

26.10.2025 17:46 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

This is heartwarming stuff. The way ordinary people in an ordinary neighborhood are just NOT HAVING IT.

26.10.2025 02:01 β€” πŸ‘ 4    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

(She didn’t write it but she did take me out for dinner and cocktails for my birthday and gave me this book plus some tomato jam and some pepper jam)

25.10.2025 02:19 β€” πŸ‘ 5    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0
Hardcover book titled β€œThe fight for sex ed: the century-long battle between truth and doctrine” by Margaret Grace Myers

Hardcover book titled β€œThe fight for sex ed: the century-long battle between truth and doctrine” by Margaret Grace Myers

Get yourself a best friend who

25.10.2025 02:17 β€” πŸ‘ 4    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

The same folks were rhapsodizing about β€œre-lactation” during the infant formula shortage.

23.10.2025 19:28 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

It doesn’t hurt, from their perspective, that the β€œnever change America” crowd feel pressured to accept this, to wrap their mouths around words of approval. It intensifies their submission.

23.10.2025 12:24 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

The shock and the sense of violation people are feeling is 100% intentional. They had to work hard to keep this quiet.

They did it to inflict pain. They did it to present the image that they can act with impunity, and that we’re helpless.

23.10.2025 12:20 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

The suddenness of the East Wing’s destruction means that either they spent days removing and safeguarding art and historical artifacts and reusable furnishings in *absolute secrecy* from the press and the public…

…or they didn’t.

23.10.2025 11:00 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Thanks! That was interesting.

23.10.2025 02:15 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

With the emphasis on the BA, obviously

23.10.2025 02:01 β€” πŸ‘ 4    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I showed up (online) to a committee meeting and found out that I am not actually on the committee!

I cannot begin to describe the joyful feeling of liberation involved.

(Hilariously, my teenage daughter IS on the committee and had to stay behind when I walked from the webcam to freedom.)

21.10.2025 01:15 β€” πŸ‘ 19    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

The US also had the Catholic Worker movement! But yeah, right-wing political beliefs have warped Christian teaching here, and it’s only getting worse.

20.10.2025 18:09 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Political stances that arise from Protestant fundamentalism get grafted onto Catholic theology, because the lines between political and religious beliefs have been so effectively blurred.

It’s how you wind up with β€œtrad Catholics” being outraged that the pope opposes capital punishment.

20.10.2025 17:11 β€” πŸ‘ 7    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

No one under 50 goes through childbirth, apparently.

20.10.2025 14:10 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

In the right wing universe it is simultaneously true that:

(1) young people don’t need much medical care so it’s a trifling expense for them

(2) young people’s medical care is so astronomically expensive that the government cannot possibly afford it

20.10.2025 13:55 β€” πŸ‘ 11    πŸ” 2    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

The Steerswomen books are SO RIDICULOUSLY GOOD and I have been waiting for the next one for a ridiculously long time!

20.10.2025 13:46 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

β€œYou can win elections by tacking to the middle; lots of people have. But you can also win elections by staking a moral position and convincing people to agree with you. You can earn support by demonstrating what is important to you instead of just being determined to nod along with what you hear.”

18.10.2025 21:21 β€” πŸ‘ 11185    πŸ” 1957    πŸ’¬ 112    πŸ“Œ 64

People advocating against peace without strategy or tactics do not want you to *win*. They want you to be delegitimized.

14.10.2025 14:28 β€” πŸ‘ 262    πŸ” 34    πŸ’¬ 3    πŸ“Œ 0
MYTH: ICE agents lack proper training.

FACT: Most have been racists their entire lives.

MYTH: ICE agents lack proper training. FACT: Most have been racists their entire lives.

theonion.com/ice-raids-my...

11.10.2025 23:19 β€” πŸ‘ 13875    πŸ” 3529    πŸ’¬ 110    πŸ“Œ 67
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Snow Ghost Cocoa Cream Pie - Mid-Century Menu Snow Ghost Cocoa Cream Pie

Snow Ghost chocolate cream pie may be vintage, but it’s the best chocolate pie I’ve ever tasted and it’s really easy to make. I would make this + some chowder

11.10.2025 16:22 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Be sure to read the thread.

10.10.2025 00:58 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Rebecca's review of All of Us Murderers 4/5: Thanks to KJ Charles, Poisoned Pen Press, and NetGalley for the opportunity to read the ARC! As always, all opinions are my own. "He was being absurd. All he was doing was walking through the da...

@kjcharleswriter.com has a new book out today! I was lucky enough to read the ARC. www.goodreads.com/review/show/...

07.10.2025 16:49 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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How to Turn Off AI Tools Like Gemini, Apple Intelligence, Copilot, and More - Consumer Reports AI features are crowding into Google search, Gmail, iPhones, Windows laptops, and other products. If you're suffering from AI overload, these settings can help.

🎢Turn the AI off TURN THE AI OFF🎢

04.10.2025 13:12 β€” πŸ‘ 420    πŸ” 191    πŸ’¬ 8    πŸ“Œ 12

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