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@rivka-otter.bsky.social

Psychologist (but not *your* psychologist), parent, progressive, and all manner of things that begin with P. What a time to be alive and anxious.

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We decided to let our Washington Post subscription lapse, and it feels pretty weird.

But I really can’t see my way to paying them a single cent, and neither can my more-moderate husband.

02.03.2026 14:30 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Ombre French tip feathers? She's a couture bird, for sure

02.03.2026 14:06 β€” πŸ‘ 375    πŸ” 46    πŸ’¬ 5    πŸ“Œ 0

Exactly! I’d love to restore her glory.

02.03.2026 03:08 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

If I had a million dollars…

02.03.2026 03:05 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Misha says hi!

28.02.2026 23:44 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

I had no idea I knew you in person, that’s so lovely! Look at you, you published a book!

28.02.2026 23:32 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0

OH MY GOD HIIIIIII!!!!!!

28.02.2026 23:30 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

What the hell did I just read.

28.02.2026 22:24 β€” πŸ‘ 18    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Oh nooooo

27.02.2026 13:16 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I’ve got two whole backup boxes in my office kitchen.

26.02.2026 18:02 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
A white table in a dimly lit office holds a mug of tea with the matching strainer resting on a little stand behind it, two cookies topped with dark chocolate, and a Moomin-themed daily planner.

A white table in a dimly lit office holds a mug of tea with the matching strainer resting on a little stand behind it, two cookies topped with dark chocolate, and a Moomin-themed daily planner.

This cup of tea is going to fix everything that’s wrong with me, I just know it.

But if it falls short, the cookies are there for backup.

26.02.2026 17:51 β€” πŸ‘ 12    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

I think the last time I really heard you cuss we were in our early 20s. I’m sure you’ve gotten much better at it since then!

25.02.2026 20:14 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

This won’t be the first time you’ve won the internet, but.

25.02.2026 01:27 β€” πŸ‘ 28    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I mean, they correctly assumed that under Trump, laws would be β€œfor thee but not for me.”

Their mistake was thinking that their political loyalty would matter more than their race.

25.02.2026 01:24 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Scott Hunter would never.

25.02.2026 01:14 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

β€œ2026 is the year of the horse”

The horse:

24.02.2026 16:58 β€” πŸ‘ 284    πŸ” 88    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 10

Apparently Mayor Scott has promised to veto any plan that moves the recycling center to a predominantly Black neighborhood. So maybe they’ll just close it? But everyone loves having it exist...

…Just NITBY.

Props to her zoning prof for an assignment that actually matters. (3/3) #baltimore

23.02.2026 23:33 β€” πŸ‘ 9    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

She chose a plan to move or close a recycling center in a gentrifying neighborhood. At dinner, she gave us a rundown of all the stakeholders and their opinions.

We were relieved to hear that plans to move hazmat recycling into the flood plain of the Jones Falls have been scrapped. (2/3) #baltimore

23.02.2026 23:29 β€” πŸ‘ 8    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

My 20yo studies civil engineering technology at community college. As homework, she has to research a local issue and attend a relevant public city meeting.

It’s one of the best school assignments a kid of mine has gotten. (1/3) #baltimore

23.02.2026 23:26 β€” πŸ‘ 11    πŸ” 3    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

What a treat! Thank you!

(And of COURSE it’s a Yuletide.)

22.02.2026 03:59 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
Rocks glass printed with the first couple of verses of Edgar Allen Poe’s β€œThe Raven” and a drawing of Poe. Half-full of a reddish brown liquid and ice.

Rocks glass printed with the first couple of verses of Edgar Allen Poe’s β€œThe Raven” and a drawing of Poe. Half-full of a reddish brown liquid and ice.

First New Cocktail Experiment in a long while, because on a whim I bought my first bottle of Cynar.

This is an Italian Gentleman: bourbon, Aperol, and Cynar with an orange twist. It’s complex, boozy, and delicious.

(Recipe from @tammylc.bsky.social )

20.02.2026 02:47 β€” πŸ‘ 4    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

She's running to replace Dick Durbin and, uh, to say this is a welcome change in tone and attitude would be a hell of an understatement.

19.02.2026 19:45 β€” πŸ‘ 1957    πŸ” 429    πŸ’¬ 41    πŸ“Œ 12

Final score 169-110. Imagine how much better I could have done if I had followed his advice. πŸ™„

16.02.2026 18:06 β€” πŸ‘ 10    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

It’s fun being a woman playing a complex strategy board game online.

I’m currently beating a guy by 40 points and he just corrected one of my gameplay decisions. Kept up with more β€œhelpful advice” after I brushed it off, too.

16.02.2026 16:57 β€” πŸ‘ 9    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

I’m just saying, when he described this as a β€œonce-in-a-lifetime opportunity for a choral singer” I didn’t realize that was because learning it might kill me.

12.02.2026 03:58 β€” πŸ‘ 5    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

β€œWe’re going to sing this like Germans pronouncing Latin, not like Americans who have been trained to imitate Italians pronouncing Latin.” - our director

Also, you will never convince me that Mahler 8 doesn’t have a substantial chorus fatality rate.

12.02.2026 03:49 β€” πŸ‘ 9    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 3    πŸ“Œ 0

There were a bunch of Epstein victims sitting a couple of rows behind her, listening to her say that no one should care that they were raped and trafficked because the stock market is up.

11.02.2026 20:09 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Apparently Grand Juries will indict a ham sandwich, but draw the line at bologna.

11.02.2026 17:42 β€” πŸ‘ 6    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
photo of Pam Bondi testifying in the foreground as a group of 7 women and 1 men raise their hands

photo of Pam Bondi testifying in the foreground as a group of 7 women and 1 men raise their hands

Likely-historic photo by NBC News of all the Epstein victims asked to raise their hands if they've not yet been asked to meet with the DOJ as Bondi testifies in foreground

11.02.2026 17:15 β€” πŸ‘ 40543    πŸ” 13816    πŸ’¬ 1374    πŸ“Œ 891

So the nazi weirdo who developed the sorting plan was named Hans Asperger and that’s why we don’t tell people that they have Asperger Syndrome anymore.

11.02.2026 15:16 β€” πŸ‘ 5    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0