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Pamela Mars

@pamelamars.bsky.social

I enjoy walks in the park and the occasional existential crisis

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Latest posts by pamelamars.bsky.social on Bluesky

Getting dirty looks cuz I’m standing near this girl’s ugly boyfriend. Black under his fingernails, shit breath…girl, no one wants him. Stop being delusional.

13.11.2025 15:02 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Like I think there’s like a lip balm in it that’s full size, but like at least make the last box a full sized face cream.

They have sales all the time so it’s safe to say even at those sales prices they’re profiting. Like I love their Monoi line, but will never buy it full price.

11.11.2025 21:00 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Product size is also why I chose not to buy the Yves Rocher advent. It’s full of their own products & I can’t justify spending $70 for such little product even though I really want the fun of opening an advent calendar.

They could afford to throw in a few full size products

11.11.2025 21:00 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

I get things cost more these days but why are we now having to pay for perfume samples?

The least they can do ia offer a trial size instead of charging us for those little vials that used to be complimentary

11.11.2025 20:56 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

And again, disagreements aren’t gaslighting!! Gaslighting is the intentional act of convincing someone they’re crazy. It’s not a β€œthat tastes like onion” β€œit’s not onion, it’s garlicβ€œ ”WELL IT TASTES LIKE ONION” type deal…if that’s even a good example or not lol

11.11.2025 17:57 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Agencies wouldn’t have been so kind. It would’ve been a straight rejection, with harsher words stating this person would have to lose weight to be added to the roster.

The industry has changed these days BUT there are still standards in place.

11.11.2025 17:51 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Like I remember back when I was modelling, someone said someone should model & I said this person will have to get into shape. This was met with accusations I was calling the person fat when I wasn’t. I was simply stating there was a standard this person didn’t meet.

11.11.2025 17:51 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Like if it’s happened before where there’s been an underlying meaning other than what was stated, yes, address that. but if someone is simply communicating a point, don’t jump to conclusions, dictating they meant something else.

11.11.2025 17:47 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Normalise not adding context to people’s words. So many arguments happen when people misidentify what people are saying because they’re not actively listening.

Intent matters. Sometimes we hear dog whistles loud and clear, but you can’t accuse everyone of it.

11.11.2025 17:46 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

If you are encouraging others to take care of their health, yes, you are working to better lives, but if you’re turning your nose up at people for not dedicating their lives to getting abs, you need to get that ego checked.

11.11.2025 16:30 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

they seem to think their efforts are at par with those who are trying to make society better.

I’m sorry but you’re not better than those who are actively researching cures for diseases, etc. You’re just working out, not saving the world.

11.11.2025 16:28 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I’m not referring to everyone who goes to the gym but there are several fitness types who believe they are superior to others simply due to their focus on exercise.

Itβ€˜s a great thing to make an effort to be active and take care of your body, but it gives people such a sense of achievement that..

11.11.2025 16:28 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Wish people live streaming concerts would shut up and not sing along cuz all you can hear is them singing off key.

11.11.2025 02:45 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

We’ve been brainwashed and gaslit as a society to accept less & less so those who don’t need it can have more & more

10.11.2025 18:51 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

It also goes ignored that it isn’t possible for a human being to work as long as they’d have to in multiple min wage jobs to afford what the government claims is affordable.

People end up disabled or chronically ill by being worked to death, which put a major strain on the system.

10.11.2025 18:50 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Earning more isn’t simply a result of working harder as there is currently more supply than demand.

Under our current employment model, it’s impossible that every citizen work a job that pays over min wage as that volume of jobs do not exist.

10.11.2025 18:48 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

From my understanding, employers will limit hours because it’s cheaper for them. It costs them less to employ a part time worker than a full time one, so its not even likely to get a full time min wage job.

I realise Americans get confused when I call $18 min wage. In Ontario, it’s $17.60/hr.

10.11.2025 18:45 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Rents have skyrocketed, with out of touch politicians thinking $2k/month is an affordable rental.

$2k/month is $24k annually. If someone is earning $30k-36k GROSS, they only have $6k-12k left over BEFORE DEDUCTIONS.

Rent either needs to be halved OR wages need to go up immediately.

10.11.2025 18:38 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I was watching a TikTok where a guy was saying $18/hr isn’t enough to survive on and the miscalculations in the comments are hilarious.

These low wage positions woupd be scheduled for 4-8hr shifts, putting that worker’s annual gross around $30k-36k.

10.11.2025 18:38 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

It’s wild I haven’t learned my lesson yet regarding surrendering to life as it comes. My anxiety steps up, then I’m proven wrong in think a loss was a loss.

Good things find you when you go with the flow.

10.11.2025 16:39 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

For instance, large crowd scenes they know people will be barely visible in. Like a sports game different coloured T-shirts, & casual sweaters or jackets are enough.
They don’t have to be super specific, just make sure different colours are scattered through the crowd.

10.11.2025 16:09 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

From what I’ve observed, having it open to those requiring wardrobe doesn’t negatively impact production as most bg prefer to wear their own clothing. if they have it, they’ll bring it.

Then all that fuss for most of it to not be seen well enough.

10.11.2025 16:09 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

This is in regards to bg work on set btw.

Then wardrobe will have racks upon racks of clothing.

No clue why agents will give the regular spiel like everyone has this endless vault of clothing. I don’t think people should be denied work for not having the clothing.

10.11.2025 16:09 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

I’m confused why some productions think people will just have specific clothing items just lying around.

They’ll be like bring a specific pair of shoes and your best forest green suit. Or bring clothes from 1994, & you’ll find this out at midnight with a 6am call time.

10.11.2025 15:55 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Anyway, it took a hard turn into winter & I'm in hermit mode.

Who said any of us were ready for snow, Mother Nature!

10.11.2025 15:28 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I’m the one who did research by purposely picking fights with the worst misogynists I could find on the internet, trust that I’m not scared of some angry loser in a comment section

10.11.2025 15:26 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

If I find you aggressive and confrontational, I block you.

It’s not cuz I couldn’t handle what you said, it’s cuz I’m choosing my peace over fighting with an irrational stranger online lol

10.11.2025 15:24 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

It’s so funny seeing how guys reacted to the are we dating the same guy groups, threatening lawsuits & shit

But it’s doubtful they make it through discovery, so maybe they should just not act a mess? maybe don’t be a serial cheater.

10.11.2025 13:57 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I wish companies would stop being cheap with their advent calendars

09.11.2025 17:02 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

The β€œthatβ€œ autocorrect gibberish strikes again!!

08.11.2025 20:10 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

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