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Finn Deerhart

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AASECT Certified Sex Counselor. Writer. Teacher. Group facilitator. Writing: finndeerhart.substack.com Counseling: finndeerhart.com

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Searching for Phallos in the dark.
finndeerhart.substack.com/p/i-want-my-...

30.09.2025 19:06 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

A vacuous skull for brains

31.08.2025 16:06 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

๐Ÿ’šlove him

23.08.2025 20:45 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Sometimes an under-towel sauna stroke can lead to surprising political conversations.
Link: finndeerhart.substack.com/p/finntrests...

21.08.2025 20:05 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Father As Process, Not Object Me in the middle of my own fucking way

To those of us whose fathers have not been what we needed - Happy Father's Day to the ONE inside you who inspires you to let go and grow. ๐Ÿ’š Yes, this is me as a child.

17.06.2025 18:15 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 6    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Dear Kristi Noem, there is not enough filler in the world to lift your face away from the anguish beneath.

12.06.2025 21:01 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
ON THE SO-CALLED DEATH DRIVE AND THE REVOLUTIONARY IMPULSE By Avgi Saketopoulou The idea of a death drive functioning like a passe-partout explanation serves as the starting point for psychoanalyst Avgi Saketopoulou. In her view, the Freudian differentiation between destructive a...

An important, if not urgent, read. ๐Ÿ˜

12.06.2025 20:59 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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The Devil Followed Me Home My thoughts on the film Sinners

โ€œNot all Christianity is overtly violent on the surface. But for me, even the most accommodating sects must still contend with an inherent displacement of universal existential guiltโ€”which remains frozen inside fantasies of a bludgeoned and murdered (White) son-god.โ€

02.06.2025 16:36 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Performing empathyโ€ฆ

01.06.2025 00:37 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

๐Ÿ’š

25.05.2025 17:40 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Meanwhile...

22.05.2025 20:57 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Pageantry of the Undone If only it was just your cock...

On sex apps and modern dating culture.

The Ideal Object is only a map of oneโ€™s inner terrain.

That said, please like and share; the irony is not lost on me.

20.05.2025 17:53 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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The Assault on the Transgender Community is a Piece of a Far More Foreboding Puzzle Listen now | a conversation with two world renowned experts in this space

An incredible listen ๐Ÿ”ฎ

17.05.2025 20:44 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

๏ฟผ

17.05.2025 17:22 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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In Praise of Sinners Soil of my Soil

In Praise of Sinners - Chloรฉ Valdary layin' it down!

17.05.2025 13:02 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Pope Leo XIV Says Marriage Is โ€œBetween a Man and a Womanโ€ The new Pope's first meeting with the Vatican diplomatic corps touched on a range of topics.

Of course...

16.05.2025 18:03 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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๐Ÿ’š๐Ÿ”ฎ๐ŸŒˆMost proud of banned ๐Ÿ“š

12.05.2025 17:36 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

๐Ÿ˜

03.05.2025 19:36 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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The Undertow by Jeff Sharlet I know inside every man, a war has already come and gone.

Read the brilliance of Jeff Sharlet!
(And my Substack)๐Ÿ’š๐Ÿซถ๐Ÿผ

03.05.2025 17:10 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 6    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Say. This.

24.04.2025 00:23 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 6737    ๐Ÿ” 1376    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 55    ๐Ÿ“Œ 34

Ha! You must be joking!

20.04.2025 20:26 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Happy Easter๐Ÿ’š

20.04.2025 16:06 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 4    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

๐Ÿ’š

12.04.2025 22:00 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 4    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Charged Like Exploding Stars Without someone to blame...

Who is to blame for the pain? Oh yeah, I rememberโ€ฆagain and again. Thereโ€™s really no one there.๐Ÿ’š๐Ÿ”ฎ

05.04.2025 16:03 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
America Never Cared About Israel or Jewish People, Here's The Real Reason They Are Funding Genocide!
YouTube video by Baldwin & Co. America Never Cared About Israel or Jewish People, Here's The Real Reason They Are Funding Genocide!

So good.๐Ÿ’š
@joyannreid.bsky.social

24.03.2025 18:09 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

๐Ÿ’š๐Ÿ’š

24.03.2025 15:17 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Surprise

19.03.2025 15:50 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

๐Ÿ’š

17.03.2025 22:27 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ’š

17.03.2025 22:27 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Hannah, thank you for your complimentary mention! I have just followed and look forward to seeing more of your work. I appreciate the mention!๐Ÿ’š

17.03.2025 22:15 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

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