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YouTube creator @TheTechPacker, recovering ex-psychologist with 35 years of experience. Bestselling author of Finding Calm, Steady, and The Little Book of Sleep. Ex Club DJ. Dad of 3. 10x marathon/ultramarathoner SarbJohal.com

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Money Talks - The new financial blueprint for today's Singapore dream - CNA For Gen Zs and millennials, financial success is no longer about the 5Cs - itโ€™s about freedom. And that requires a new kind of financial blueprint. From side hustles to micro-retirements, Andrea Heng sits with Jocelyn Kau from Prudential Financial Advisers Singapore to discuss what it will take to achieve the

The idea of micro retirement is very appealing www.channelnewsasia.com/listen/money...

11.11.2025 04:45 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Every time I think โ€˜oh, i must post more on social mediaโ€™,โ€™ real life gets in the way. So, I;m kind of happy about that

10.11.2025 20:03 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Having a second screen thatโ€™s light enough to throw in my bag and powerful enough to run my entire workflow is an absolute game-changer. My @espressodisplays portable monitor means I can be productive anywhere, without compromise. Even if โ€œanywhereโ€ involves keeping one eye on the cover drive. ๐Ÿ˜‰

29.10.2025 21:58 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Some days, โ€œworking from homeโ€ hits different.
First home game of the season for @cricketwellington at the iconic @cellobasinreserve , and the office view is looking pretty good. This is what a flexible setup is all aboutโ€”swapping the spare room for a spot overlooking the boundary rope

29.10.2025 21:58 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

So two days after I said Iโ€™m going to be working from home for the rest of the year unless an invite came in โ€ฆ well, an invite came in :)

29.10.2025 20:48 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Spending this afternoon scripting before heading to eldest daughterโ€™s school privegiving this evening. Yes, its that time of year in NZ

28.10.2025 00:24 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Now that Iโ€™m pretty much based at home for the rest of the year - not withstanding any last minute invites - Iโ€™ll be posting a little more often than when Iโ€™ve been on the move. So, whatโ€™s going on, my people?

27.10.2025 23:57 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Efficiency: No commute = no excuses.
โ€ข Motivation: Great coaches & plans keep me consistent.
โ€ข Real Gains: Feeling genuine functional strength improvements.
โ€ข Brain Boost: Constant variety is great for neuromuscular adaptation.
The best plan is the one you actually do.

27.10.2025 18:23 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Why I'm Sticking With 20-Minute Home Workouts Over the Gym A 56-year-old's deep dive into gym memberships vs. Apple Fitness+. The pros, cons, and the surprising reason why 20-minute workouts win for now.

The great debate: Gym vs. Home Workouts.
For weeks I considered rejoining a gym, but I'm sticking with 20-min Apple Fitness+ strength workouts at home. Hereโ€™s why:

#Fitness #AppleFitnessPlus #HomeWorkout #Consistency #Over50
www.sarbjohal.com/blog/why-im-...

27.10.2025 18:23 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Iโ€™m kind of over this shite weather. Iโ€™m sure Iโ€™m not alone.

27.10.2025 03:27 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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A Labour Day Reflection: Is There Power in Silent Strikes? Are traditional strikes a media trap? A look at the 'silent strike,' a new strategy where a worker's absence is more powerful than presence.

The protest march & picket lines are media traps. The real power is the Silent Strike.
Let the absence do the talking:
๐Ÿซ The empty classroom.
๐Ÿฅ The cancelled clinic.
The story shifts from the protestor to their undeniable value.
www.sarbjohal.com/blog/a-labou...

26.10.2025 20:25 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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How to stay off your phone this long weekend OPINION: The solution is not to seal the portal shut. It is to finally learn how to be its gatekeeper. This requires a robust personal strategy with three core pillars.

The solution is to become a better gatekeeper. I outline a 3-part strategy for how to do it.
Read the full article here:
www.thepost.co.nz/nz-news/3608...
#DigitalWellbeing #Cybersecurity #Scams #Mindset #Tech

25.10.2025 02:34 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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How to stay off your phone this long weekend OPINION: The solution is not to seal the portal shut. It is to finally learn how to be its gatekeeper. This requires a robust personal strategy with three core pillars.

Your phone isn't a friend. It's a portal. And the gate opens both ways.
In my new piece, I argue we need a mindset shift to manage the real risks:

โ€ข The "social recession" it accelerates.
โ€ข The misinformation rabbit holes it creates.
โ€ข The devastating financial scams targeting our families

25.10.2025 02:34 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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A Field Note on Trusting Your Body Over the Machine Smartwatch says you slept badly? A deep dive into data anxiety and why trusting your own body is the key to true well-being.

The solution isn't to ditch the tech, but to find a middle way. Data should be a guide, not a gospel.
www.sarbjohal.com/blog/a-field...

19.10.2025 20:26 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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A Field Note on Trusting Your Body Over the Machine Smartwatch says you slept badly? A deep dive into data anxiety and why trusting your own body is the key to true well-being.

My watch told me I felt bad this morning. I decided to disagree.
We're outsourcing our self-awareness to devices, creating a new kind of "data anxiety" and unlearning how to trust our own bodies.
www.sarbjohal.com/blog/a-field...
#Wellness #Tech #Data #Intuition #MentalHealth #QuantifiedSelf

19.10.2025 20:26 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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My Blog's Comments Section Is Empty. My Inbox Is Full. Here's Why. Why are readers emailing instead of commenting? A look at why public comments feel high-stakes & what it means for online authenticity.

In an age of AI and noise, people are choosing the quiet, human conversation.
I wrote about why this shift is happening, and what it means for creators and communities.

www.sarbjohal.com/p/d236a92e-c...
#Authenticity #Community #DigitalCulture #SocialMedia #Engagement

16.10.2025 18:57 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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My Blog's Comments Section Is Empty. My Inbox Is Full. Here's Why. Why are readers emailing instead of commenting? A look at why public comments feel high-stakes & what it means for online authenticity.

My blog's comments section is a ghost town. My email inbox is a bustling cafe.
It's not a tech problem. It's a psychological shift.
Public comments now feel like high-stakes performance. Private emails feel like real connection.

16.10.2025 18:57 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Homesick for an Internet That No Longer Exists Feeling nostalgic for the old internet? A look at our shift from genuine connection to social media performance, and the search for authenticity.

I argue the only real antidote is a richer offline life. By rebuilding our real-world connections, we give our online selves something authentic to talk about.
I wrote a full essay on this shift. Read it here:
www.sarbjohal.com/blog/homesic...
#Internet #Nostalgia #SocialMedia #DigitalCulture

15.10.2025 19:04 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Homesick for an Internet That No Longer Exists Feeling nostalgic for the old internet? A look at our shift from genuine connection to social media performance, and the search for authenticity.

Feeling homesick for an internet that no longer exists? You're not alone.
We've shifted from an internet of connection (IRC, forums, blogs) to an internet of performance (Instagram, TikTok). This has created a deep psychological tension.

15.10.2025 19:04 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Are You Living in a State of Permanent Stress? An Old Model May Hold the Key Feeling burned out? A former psychologist explains how the ancient Greek concept of 'Kairos' can help you manage modern stress and prevent burnout.

We're using the wrong clock to manage our stress.
Our bodies have 3 stress stages (Alarm, Resistance, Exhaustion). To avoid burnout, we need Kairos (the right time for action or rest), not just Chronos (the ticking clock).
Read it here: www.sarbjohal.com/blog/are-you...

14.10.2025 04:39 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Article submitted. I still fear there is no money to actually pay me though

13.10.2025 20:39 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Wellington is in a Social Recession. Hereโ€™s a 5-Point Plan to Fix It Wellington is in a social recession. Here's a 5-point plan to rebuild human connection, foster well-being, and lead the way forward.

Iโ€™m concerned about our deepening "social recession"โ€”the quiet but damaging retreat from one another. Instead of just diagnosing the problem, I've drafted a practical 5-point plan for how Wellington can intentionally rebuild human connection and lead the way.

www.sarbjohal.com/blog/welling...

12.10.2025 05:25 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Tory Horton is GOLD #Seahawks

21.09.2025 21:02 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Off to Singapore this morning. Hoping to keep up with #Seahawks game as I transit to Auckland for the long haul flight

21.09.2025 18:43 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

One of our national Sunday newspapers asked me to write about my experience in the UK recently. I was happy to oblige. www.thepost.co.nz/nz-news/3608...

20.09.2025 19:09 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Family stuff - complicated as oneโ€™s parents get older

17.09.2025 05:22 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Well, itโ€™s been a while. Like China, UK, China travel while. Iโ€™m back in NZ and next week, Singapore. Iโ€™m not always like this โ€ฆ.

17.09.2025 05:02 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Oxygรจne, Pt. 2 by Jean-Michel Jarre on Appleย Music Song ยท 1976 ยท Duration 7:46

music.apple.com/nz/album/oxy...

13.07.2025 10:30 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Iโ€™m on the Gold Coast in Australia and I have the @fujifilm #Fujifilm #XHalf on loan for a week and I think Iโ€™m in love #eterna

01.07.2025 06:46 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 4    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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That Spidey-Sense Tingle What our visceral recoilโ€”to everything from politics to AIโ€”is trying to tell us.

Have you felt it recently?
A new texture to this disturbance.
Itโ€™s that "spidey-sense" you get when reading an email thatโ€™s a little too slick, seeing art thatโ€™s a little too perfect, or encountering a comment that is grammatically flawless but utterly soulless.

open.substack.com/pub/notestos...

27.06.2025 11:27 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

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