Andra Porter

I appreciate the desire to find solutions, but people thinking they can just “develop a new app” to get around the very real structural realities is just naive. Legislation and payment processors don’t magically become non-issues.

It took literally 1 click (“Access Hidden”) from the homepage, without any signup or age verification, to porn being blasted on the screen. There is zero chance of this surviving, in light of adult content legislation, unless it changes. Even sex-positive folks don’t want minors to have open access.

It took literally 1 click (“Access Hidden”) from the homepage, without any signup or age verification, to porn being blasted on the screen. There is zero chance of this surviving, in light of adult content legislation, unless it changes. Even sex-positive folks don’t want minors to have open access.

The fact that my “Top Song” on my Spotify Wrapped is one I listened to only 14 times in 2025 tells you how “consistent” I am with music. As with most things, I’ll take eclectic variety, thank you very much.

I put red and green light bulbs in my driveway sconces because I’m being festive. I almost stopped after the first one because I thought it would be more honest.

I wish I could get myself excited about this, but I’m coming over like Eeyore.

The BBL afterwards! Lol

This is so exhausting. Ugh.

Why am I so reluctant/reticent to come over here? The other app is dying, and unless something dramatic changes, it feels unsalvageable. But there are 13+ years of Andra over there, and the idea of starting over is exhausting. I don’t want another account to maintain. Am I the only one feeling this?

Me: “I don’t have ADHD.”

Also me: [spends Friday night sorting every nut and bolt into hundreds of tackle box compartments]

Walk this way

My therapist looked at me w/ compassion & said, “At a certain point, if we’re vulnerable with the wrong people, we’re just teaching them how to hurt us,” & now I can’t shake it & kind of want to throw things. Do you ever have those moments? What zingers have hit YOU sideways?

We all need more days like this

I know nothing about that

Good morning, sunshine!

Don’t know if this is an INTJ thing or spillover from SW, but…

Me as a consultant: “Effectiveness is more important than efficiency.”

Me w/ acquaintances/prior civ colleagues: “No, I’m not driving across town to ‘catch up,’ b/c I have a lot on my plate & that’s inefficient.”

Best views in the house

I don’t want a Labubu. That sounds like something to put a Bandaid on.

I do, however, have a WL full of great books that I’d like to read. I’ll gladly take a Labookbook.

(My wishlist link is in my bio)

I inherited them from a good photographer, lol, but thank you!

Every day is legs day

Stop letting people make you think your intuition is wrong. That gut instinct is part of millions of years of evolution. It’s a gift.

If your account is nothing but AI thirst traps, I will block you. I have no patience for bot self-promotion on my feed.

Don’t even get me started on the effects of bloating, hydration, hormones, etc. The real real: I am 63” and 101 pounds. I have stretch marks, cellulite, rolls, etc., you just don’t seem them because you’re looking at a photo, not up close and personal with the real human.

Unedited: I want people to understand how lighting, pose, angle, etc. change what we perceive as real. Small shifts mean butts flatten, skin/fat rolls, stomachs poof, boobs flatten/turn into triangles (IYKYK)… Sexy ≠ lack of perceived “flaws.” They’re not flaws. They’re NORMAL

Good morning!

And you’re not allowed to promote NSFW accounts (I learned this lesson the hard way: got banned and had to fight to get my account back after referencing OF in a livestream), so you really do need to work hard on the platform

It IS! A big part of the drain is that most of the users don’t realize or accept that, and you spend a lot of energy dealing with people demanding more

I worked my butt off on Fanfix for the first couple of months, making $8500 in Aug & $7500 in Sep. But in truth, it was grueling and depleted me, & I have struggled to force myself back (I've made <$800 on FF in Oct). I'm stuck between "not all money is good money" and "no excuses."

If you're familiar with any of the mind-body connection work, most of it will be a refresher, but it's still a very good reminder!

My knees said no, lol