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@grumpylegion.bsky.social

๐Ÿ’š Silly autistic + ADHD + cluster B + DID guy(s) 26 y.o. ๐Ÿ“šI translate stuff about autism and different conditions. ๐ŸงธI love collecting toys, playing video games, learning about autism. ๐Ÿ–๏ธEnglish is not my first language.

908 Followers  |  285 Following  |  515 Posts  |  Joined: 19.10.2024  |  1.8818

Latest posts by grumpylegion.bsky.social on Bluesky

Ummm, so if someone said โ€œclassic autistic behaviourโ€ and put a screenshot of an abusive behaviour that is not specific to any diagnosisโ€ฆ I donโ€™t think that people would be okay with that statement. And would be right.

10.04.2025 16:03 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Itโ€™s not. Gaslighting, manipulation, DARVO, sexual and many other forms of abuse are not specific to people with NPD.

People with NPD are not more likely to be abuse than people with GAD, depression, ASD or BPD. Abuse is abuse.

10.04.2025 16:00 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Yes, narcissists are part of neurodivergent community. Shock, shock, surprise, surprise. All the cluster B. Yep.

10.04.2025 15:56 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 4    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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So we gotta do this again, huh.
Narcissistic abuse doesnโ€™t exist! If you believe in that, please, block me, unfollow or if you are willing to learn and accept that you are wrong - do your research, follow people with NPD, read the dx criteria too to see, fact check these pop psy โ€œfactsโ€.

10.04.2025 15:55 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 2    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Ew. It doesnโ€™t exists. There is no such a thing, people with NPD donโ€™t have special tactics to abuse, itโ€™s just abuse. Different form. Stop it.

10.04.2025 15:51 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Then you have to deal with the consequences. I feel unsafe because of these words too. It sounds like you are talking about all people with cluster B disorders.

10.04.2025 15:51 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

And I realised that I/we reached a goal in my therapy. Itโ€™s not over, but we definitely did something, and it helps us to enjoy our life more. Wow! Like, we donโ€™t have to suffer forever to prove that we are worthy or valid, we deserve to be happy and loved already.

10.04.2025 15:49 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I am doing okay though! I have started taking care of myself (and I am doing that for a few months), I have started to going outside, I have been reading more books too. I realised that I can visit kidโ€™s library and take books or read them there. It was so healing.

10.04.2025 15:49 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I was doing a lot of therapy and reflecting and trying to start to live my life again.

10.04.2025 15:49 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Happy autism awareness and acceptance month. Letโ€™s uplift the marginalised voices within four community and be there for each other.

10.04.2025 15:45 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

the ADHD urge to say โ€œhang on, let me finish this one quick thing firstโ€ and then blacking out for two hours

25.02.2025 17:42 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 607    ๐Ÿ” 104    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 20    ๐Ÿ“Œ 13

I can't move, even to reach things in bed, and it sucks

I was always an A-type, power through, top of the class kind of person. I was all fury and fight

Disability turns you into something different entirely. If I push, I pay dearly. Needing to do things & being helpless to do them feels horrible

24.02.2025 22:34 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 939    ๐Ÿ” 64    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 75    ๐Ÿ“Œ 13

my brain demanding entertainment during every single meal offends me

24.02.2025 17:09 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 97    ๐Ÿ” 9    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 7    ๐Ÿ“Œ 1

I wanna spend more time IRL.
I think i wanna get this kid's camera to make silly photos and go out more. It looks kinda fun! And i can choose a silly design for it too, our kiddos are excited too.

25.02.2025 09:34 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Currently appearing at UK bus-stops.

More of this pointed ridicule, please.

24.02.2025 22:10 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 45578    ๐Ÿ” 12221    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 699    ๐Ÿ“Œ 547
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Disability: What Have Black People Got to Do with It? - AAIHS *This piece is part of the Blackness, Disability, & Gender Identity Series organized by Vilissa Thompson. โ€œWhat comes first for you, your race, gender, or disability?โ€ This question has always perplex...

"Black people with disabilities have contributed significantly to Black life and culture. The resilience, ingenuity, and talents of Black people with disabilities need to be highlighted, uplifted, celebrated, learned from, & replicated." By Angel Love Miles at AAIHS:

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25.02.2025 04:08 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 82    ๐Ÿ” 27    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 2    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Like yall we can acknowledge someone's bad behavior without being ableist. We can just describe his actions. Simple.

25.02.2025 05:17 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

bluesky is an app to yell at strangers with your friends

02.01.2025 18:54 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 403    ๐Ÿ” 47    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 20    ๐Ÿ“Œ 10
https://discord.gg/hkPXGAtJ

Join us on discord!

https://discord.gg/hkPXGAtJ Join us on discord!

JOIN OUR DISCORD.

Aut2Ask- an autism community for you!

discord.gg/hkPXGAtJ

#autism #actuallyautistic #discord

24.02.2025 00:38 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 5    ๐Ÿ” 3    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Aalways remember that fear and anger are not bad feelings and that theyโ€™re your allies protecting you. These hateful ppl are trying to make you scared so you give up. Instead, you will use your fear and anger to protect yourself & your loved ones & to resist & survive! You are also NOT alone!

24.02.2025 22:05 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 3    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

So people were mad at me because i said that you can't diagnose Elon with ASPD just because he is a bad person. Wow. Common sense is rare these days. And people claim to be MH activists until it comes to easily dx a bad person with NPD or ASPD. Good job. /sarc

25.02.2025 04:39 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

P.S. I have never ever tried to defend Elon or people like him. So, yeah. If it wasn't obvious by this place and my thoughts and reposts.

25.02.2025 04:26 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
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Got this today on my tumblr. Nice. Thank you, anon.
Especially when it comes to me being against him and justifying problematic behavior by using someone's diagnosis. No proff. Too scared to switch off from anon. Good job.

25.02.2025 04:24 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

They want us to be afraid. They want us to hesitate. They want us to fear their next move.

Fuck that shit.

We are just getting started fighting.

23.02.2025 04:31 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 32567    ๐Ÿ” 6360    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 897    ๐Ÿ“Œ 311
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the home he hates

23.02.2025 03:09 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 4164    ๐Ÿ” 1037    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 59    ๐Ÿ“Œ 10
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And I am an ally. If you are too, let the world know.

22.02.2025 22:14 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 79628    ๐Ÿ” 17259    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1294    ๐Ÿ“Œ 1019
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Landlines, Burner Phones, CBs, Telepathy- all aging well.

23.02.2025 06:02 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 111    ๐Ÿ” 27    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 3    ๐Ÿ“Œ 2
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Why yes, yes I can...

23.02.2025 06:40 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I am in the process of stopping my medication, so, yeah, it's not fun.

23.02.2025 08:35 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

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