A Life of Empathy

"Fox News Democrat" What are things that don't exist, Alex?

Tiffany Stanley | Substack Mediator / Peacemaker / Critical Thinking Teacher I share my decades of peacemaking skills with you to help us all become the change we want to see. Click to read Tiffany Stanley, a Substack publicati...

What is mediation?
A process by which a neutral trained mediator assists participants in communicating constructively about a conflict to see if there are options for Resolution they both can live with.

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As a professional peacemaker, I'd like to acknowledge that conflict sometimes has to escalate before a Resolution can be reached. We have to face the hard things. Anything else is avoidance and compliance.

I've been seeing a lot of questions of "what can I do?"
Pick one thing that matters to you and do that. Know when your need for others to change is making you unable to move forward toward your own goals. Get over the need to change others. We CAN do hard things! #peacemaker
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How do we resolve conflict in a time where it seems peace is impossible?

Teach people to be critical thinkers. Be the order in the chaos. Remain self-aware and work on your biases so as not to add to the drama. Step one is about you.

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It's an illusion meant to keep us spiraling in fear and anger. Nobody can make you feel anything. We don't need to be apathetic to not be tossed about by the waves of chaos. Buckle down. We've got shit to do.

Hello my new friends! Let's continue our peacemaking community together here! This energy is too exciting to lose and we get to decide where to put it!

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This is a test of our integrity. Do we let anger and vindictiveness consume our energy or do we fiercely advocate for the equity and community? You can maintain high accountability and high support.

#equity #integrity #community

I would love to engage with people who are here for the hard work, the self work. Together we can do hard things, and great things!

I meam, Lecter.was a Doctor and very familiar with human anatomy. It's not too far fetched. 🤷‍♀️

There's so much value in the Social Discipline Window. Restorative Practices is not the "soft" way to engage, but in fact, the more demanding of our energy. It is absolutely possible to engage with high accountability AND high support.

This is a reality testing moment. Each of us must decide how much work we are genuinely willing to do on ourselves. It's easy to point at others for not being what we expect, but our expectations are about us.

Ask open ended questions, if you are genuinely seeking information. Anything else is manipulative and seeking to reinforce your bias.

And all those Mexican voters who allegedly voted for him?

How do we make a difference? By starting with ourselves. Before we look around and point to what isn't working we have to be able to look at ourselves and ask how did "I" contribute. And then how will "I" contribute to making my life the way I want it to be?

The opposite of love is fear, not hate. Learning self-awareness and emotional intelligence directs us toward community and not domination.

You get to say NO. NO is a complete sentence. You get to choose what energy you allow in your space. That goes for us all. Boundaries don't require justification.

I'm an expert mediator and restorative practices professional and trainer. Follow along if you want insights on developing the skills of professional conflict managers.

It'll come out one way or another. The fact they are hiding it says it's damning.

Working a D&D one shot for my group.

Conflict can be a good thing. Hear me out. Sometimes conflict needs to escalate to reach resolution. Don't be worried and don't try to avoid it. Develop your emotional intellegence and learn how to sit in the discomfort of the unknown.

Looking for peacemakers to join my community! No toxic positivity and no BS!

Same girl, same!

We better get writing books about how everyone gets free healthcare and education, while also getting the opportunity to self actualize and walk alone at night.

This one is what you see as soon as you walk in my door!