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Kate, Queen of the Squirrels

@pavlovcat.bsky.social

She/her. Michigander, AuDHD - Living with POTS, MCAS, celiac, & perimenopausal rage. Fuck fascists. Free Palestine. Your 1 stop shop for TMI, soap box diatribes, native plant nerdery, cats, and cross-stitch. I only repost images with alt-text.

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Sad Dads Club Donate Today To Ensure No Dad Grieves Alone

My friend’s newborn son died last year. This org has been helping him and dads like him, find some peace and healing.

They’re close to hitting their goal. If you’ve got a few dollars consider helping out

06.12.2025 00:39 β€” πŸ‘ 13    πŸ” 4    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Avoidance/fear of being perceived.

05.12.2025 23:58 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
A built in wood bookshelf that extends from floor to ceiling and has 3 sets of 6 shelves. 4 of the shelves have no books but a few tchotchkes. One is overstuffed with photo albums. A couple have junk on them. One is full of paint cans. There's a messy table in front of the shelves with a stack of books and other odds and ends. But most of the shelves have an orderly set of books on them as well as photos and keepsakes.

A built in wood bookshelf that extends from floor to ceiling and has 3 sets of 6 shelves. 4 of the shelves have no books but a few tchotchkes. One is overstuffed with photo albums. A couple have junk on them. One is full of paint cans. There's a messy table in front of the shelves with a stack of books and other odds and ends. But most of the shelves have an orderly set of books on them as well as photos and keepsakes.

The bookshelf project continues. I've given away two boxes of books and thrown away two boxes of religious and self-help bullshit books. Still have the photo albums to go through- a daunting task. We have several empty shelves to play with now.

05.12.2025 22:55 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Why can't my body produce dopamine at the same rate it produces prostaglandins?

05.12.2025 20:08 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

As someone who got 4 hours of sleep last night because my uterus turned violent at 1 am, I cosign this.

05.12.2025 18:25 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Finally fell back asleep at 8 am and managed 3 more hours. Woke up with a headache and my uterus immediately started misbehaving again. So I guess I'm awake now.

05.12.2025 17:05 β€” πŸ‘ 5    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Congratulations!

05.12.2025 10:14 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Have managed one hour sleep so far. Fairly certain my uterus is violating the Geneva convention at this point.

05.12.2025 10:13 β€” πŸ‘ 6    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 1

Wanna give a shout out to my uterus for holding back the red tide until after my doctor's appt today.

Maybe next time, don't wait until 1 am to unleash your pent up fury though. Not to seem ungrateful, but there's that whole sleep thing to consider.

05.12.2025 06:18 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

You go inside and say, "The world's biggest bird must have shit on the new car!"

05.12.2025 04:13 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

A total double whammy.

05.12.2025 03:40 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Alt never works on videos, I don't know why. It's really annoying.

05.12.2025 02:37 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
Watercolour painting showing a bird sitting on a branch. The bird, a great spotted woodpecker, is black and white with a red vent. The branch is highly textured and detailed with blue-green lichen and peeling bark. There is a hint of golden light coming up from below. The background is a slightly textured wash in shades of blue, cooler at the bottom and warmer at the top.

Watercolour painting showing a bird sitting on a branch. The bird, a great spotted woodpecker, is black and white with a red vent. The branch is highly textured and detailed with blue-green lichen and peeling bark. There is a hint of golden light coming up from below. The background is a slightly textured wash in shades of blue, cooler at the bottom and warmer at the top.

Just finished this painting of a branch, incidentally featuring a great spotted woodpecker! πŸ˜‚

Watercolor on 30x40cm paper, 425g/m2 - but learned my lesson about trying to use anything but Arches. πŸ™ƒ

#BirdArt #SciArt #ArtAdventCalendar

01.12.2025 21:49 β€” πŸ‘ 83    πŸ” 15    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 1

Deserves to be seen.

Alt text: a short video of possibly a planter or handle-less mug depicting four fat white ducks with various facial expressions. They're surrounded by a shiny dark glaze.

05.12.2025 02:29 β€” πŸ‘ 30    πŸ” 9    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0

People will probably get the most use out of the more commonly used counts 14, 16, 28, and 32.

There are several of those on the market though. I've had a hell of a time finding a decent one for 40 ct. I got a wooden one but the lines are too fuzzy and it's pretty useless.

04.12.2025 23:54 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I keep getting ads for this shit in a game I play and it's horrifying. It showed an example of "will YouTuber so-and-so get to 250k followers by X date." So someone will place a bet, then scramble to influence the outcome, but bot farms run by corporations trying to drive market behaviors will win.

04.12.2025 22:25 β€” πŸ‘ 4    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Your instinct was correct!

Extra points for you! Hopefully they're some small comfort when your needs are getting trampled all over.

04.12.2025 22:20 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Saw someone on fb post about needing a specific Owl Forest floss color to finish her WIP and I happen to have that color and no pattern that requires it so I was about to offer it to her but then I noticed she had a pfp of an AI eagle carrying an American flag and all my generosity went poof.

04.12.2025 22:18 β€” πŸ‘ 13    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 3    πŸ“Œ 0

This is the damn horrifying truth. Even our therapist says sometimes you simply cannot hold a boundary with an autistic (especially PDA) child because doing so will cause more harm in the long run.

04.12.2025 22:14 β€” πŸ‘ 5    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0

I have survived!

04.12.2025 21:44 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Naked & Afraid

04.12.2025 19:54 β€” πŸ‘ 18    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0

Apparently my doctors appt today is a paper gown type appt. I was unprepared. I did not select the correct underwear for this.

04.12.2025 19:50 β€” πŸ‘ 5    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 1

a cancer nurse in a state I've never been to told messaged me and said that reading out Rice Truck aloud as it happened was the only day in her entire 14 year career on chemo ward that nobody cried and it's probably the best compliment I will ever get in my life

27.11.2025 13:21 β€” πŸ‘ 2924    πŸ” 235    πŸ’¬ 52    πŸ“Œ 7

It's very weird. It's like the dark shows up at the right time but it's somehow darker than normal. Especially weird because of all the light pollution.

04.12.2025 18:02 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Not Pantone making white the color of the year. First time ever! Gee, I wonder what made them suddenly decide after 26 years that white really captured the moment? I can't imagine!

They said it "goes with everything!" For sure, Pantone! That must be it.

04.12.2025 17:28 β€” πŸ‘ 8    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

My 1980's Honda Accord could go for two weeks on a 10 gallon tank of gas. It was glorious. I would just fill up every payday.

04.12.2025 16:43 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Temperature Snake - 2026 Temperature SAL - Digital Cross-Stitch Pattern - TheCozyDH's Ko-fi Shop 2026 is right around the corner, and I know you're looking for a fun and unique temperature tracking pattern to fill in all year long. This Richard Sc...

🐍 🌑 NEW PATTERN DROP! 🌑 🐍

And not just any pattern - the 2026 temp SAL! This adorable snake will gain stripes as the year progresses. Also includes a printable planning sheet and a digital spreadsheet pre-loaded with dates and formulas!

ko-fi.com/s/8116007e66

#stitchsky #crossstitch

04.12.2025 15:34 β€” πŸ‘ 15    πŸ” 6    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0

Me too!

04.12.2025 07:05 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

I truly don't remember the last time December was this cold and snowy. Lows in the single digits this week! That's Jan/Feb weather.

04.12.2025 04:31 β€” πŸ‘ 7    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

So cute!

04.12.2025 04:06 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

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