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ValerieJohnsAshes

@valeriejohnsashes.bsky.social

I’m a veteran psychotherapist, poet and storyteller. I am writing books and making good noise.

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Age is just a number when your spirit stays timeless. 🌟 #sneakpeek #nightflights

10.10.2025 22:07 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
Close-up of a thank you note with a heart and pen on colored paper.

Close-up of a thank you note with a heart and pen on colored paper.

⭐ ⭐⭐⭐⭐ So descriptive of a very interesting woman’s battle with emotions and deciding what is consistent with her priorities and goals. A fascinating life.
~ Denise via goodreads

Thank you, Denise, for this thoughtful review.Β 

#PoeticMemoir #Grateful #Author #Goodreads #Review

08.10.2025 15:11 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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8️⃣ Revisit Recurring Dreams

πŸŒ™ Recurring dreams aren’t just mental rerunsβ€”they’re invitations. Your subconscious is waving a flag, asking you to pay attention. In this 8th tip, we revisit those recurring dreams.Β 

Instead of brushing it off, try gently asking:
➑️ What are you trying to show me?

06.10.2025 16:02 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

my heart breaks for you
for our country
for the post-pandemic
dysphoria
that looks more and more
psychotic
with each passing day.
may we hit a bottom
may we all awaken
back to kindness!
may your husband be returned to you
safely! β€οΈβ€πŸ©Ή

04.10.2025 01:12 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Please enjoy this sneak peek of my work-in-progress, Night Flights.Β 
Running free along the coast, where dreams are strung like gems. 🌊✨

04.10.2025 00:02 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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A Prayer from an Elder Here, listen now:

If you are a creative
Read me
If not, read me anyway. #poetry #addiction #recovery
open.substack.com/pub/johnsv/p...

03.10.2025 21:36 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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While the world feels heavy, it would be wonderful to look back at October and realize we did better. 🍁

01.10.2025 13:00 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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7️⃣ Invite Your DreamsΒ 

🌌 Dreams love an invitation.

Before you sleep, whisper:
 ✨ β€œTonight I welcome any dream that wants to guide me.”

▢️ Intrigued by dreams? Be sure to watch my latest podcast guest episodes. https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLeKe-UYHNOhNDvvBaPYyDdv9phVlW6-4q&si=yAi85Lp9qDTjBYMr

29.09.2025 18:22 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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#FlashbackFriday πŸŽ™οΈβœ¨

Last year, I had the honor of joining the Therapist Expanded podcast to talk about poetry, trauma, and the deep work of soul retrieval.

If you missed it thenβ€”or want to revisit the conversationβ€”
you can watch it here:Β πŸ”— https://youtu.be/IrvPG912MC0?si=FETT_nr3oh_3ERIE

26.09.2025 19:34 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Puppies
Fill a god shaped hold
In some hearts
Like mine #love #puppies

24.09.2025 05:16 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Continuing in the fascinating world of dreams.....

6️⃣ Notice the Feelings, Not Just the Plot
🌊 Your dream isn’t just a story. It’s a feeling.

Β The flying part? Cool.
Β The talking raccoon? Adorable.

But it’s the emotion that reveals the real meaning.

Β πŸ’¬ Do you remember the mood of your last dream?

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maybe it's foster time #puppies

20.09.2025 22:54 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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🎧 Did you know?

There’s also an audiobook version of Ashes in the Milkβ€”
and yes, it’s me reading it. Not AI. Just me. 😊
My voice, my breath, my story… in my own words.

Recording it was more work than I expected,
but it felt important.

πŸ’œ Get your copy here: πŸ“˜ https://a.co/d/7c4RySN

19.09.2025 23:07 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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me too

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boycott disney

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A stylish thank you card paired with purple flowers, a gift box, and pen on a marble surface.

A stylish thank you card paired with purple flowers, a gift box, and pen on a marble surface.

β€œTo write a memoir worth reading you have to have lived a life worth living… Valerie Johns has lived the life and has the writing chops. Insightful, sometimes painful, always gripping.”
J. Van Kirk via Amazon

If Ashes in the Milk has moved you, I’d be so honored if you’d leave a review.

17.09.2025 13:56 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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koan work
hasn't made me laugh
with joy
yet
#poetry #koan #fireflies

17.09.2025 00:20 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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5️⃣ in our dream series.....Talk to Your Dreams
πŸ’Œ What if you could write back to your dream?

If a dream character or scene lingers in your mind, try this:
Write a letter to it.

Let it β€œreply.”

Β πŸ–Š Tonight, give it a tryβ€”you might meet the wisest part of yourself.

Β πŸ’­ Who or what would you write to?

15.09.2025 21:05 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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✨ I can’t quite believe itβ€”
Ashes in the Milk was launched into the world one year ago today.

Thank you for reading.

Your support, messages, and shared moments over this past year have meant more than I can say.
Here’s to the stories still unfolding. πŸ’œ

13.09.2025 16:02 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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The Medicine of Nightmares God, I wish for the world to wake up...

Read me:
open.substack.com/pub/johnsv/p...

13.09.2025 02:58 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Some books stay on the surface.
Others reach in and rearrange something quietly inside you.

If you've ever longed to feel seen,
to remember yourself again,
this book might find you the way it found me.

πŸ–€ Order your copy of Ashes in the Milk today: https://a.co/d/7c4RySN

10.09.2025 17:11 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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What does your dream MEAN?

4️⃣ Use Symbols, Not Dictionaries

πŸ”‘ Your dream symbols don’t need Google.

Water might mean peace to one person… and overwhelm to another.
Ask yourself: β€œWhat does this symbol mean to me right now?”

πŸ’‘ What’s one dream symbol that’s stuck with you?

08.09.2025 16:02 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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🌿 Craving more calm and meaning?
Join me on Substack for reflections on intentional living, creativity, and soul care.
Let’s create a life that’s not just livedβ€”but cherished.
πŸ”— https://f.mtr.cool/ajlwxucdfz

05.09.2025 20:48 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Thank you, Eliana, for this stunning review of Ashes in the Milk:
β€œRoars and whispers… a tapestry of spellbinding images.”
Your words moved me deeply.
Grateful beyond measure. πŸ’«
#PoeticMemoir #AshesInTheMilk #ValerieJohns

03.09.2025 20:44 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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There's A Horse Upstairs Upstairs: a colloquial term for the mind

There is a horse upstairs
a young foal
is it a dream? #horses #poetry #dreaming
open.substack.com/pub/johnsv/p...

02.09.2025 19:02 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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HOW MUCH TIME DO WE HAVE TO RESIST? On Writing, The Story That Must Not Be Told

Please read Deena!
URGENT.
open.substack.com/pub/deenamet...

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Let's continue our dream series.Β 
3️⃣ Create a Gentle Wake-Up Ritual
β˜€οΈ Don’t jump out of bed just yet.Β When you wake up, stay still for 60 seconds. Ask yourself:
➑️ β€œWhat was I dreaming?”

πŸ›Œ Try it tomorrow morningβ€”your dream might be waiting for you. Don't forget to write notes in your journal.

01.09.2025 16:00 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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🎧 You might not know this…
But Ashes in the Milk is also available as an audiobookβ€”and I recorded it myself.

If you've been meaning to read it, this is a beautiful way to experience itβ€”
before Night Flights arrives.

Get the audiobook now, wherever you listen.Β And thank you, truly, for listening. πŸ’œ

29.08.2025 23:02 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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🐴✨ Reader Gratitude ✨🐴

Thank you, Emily, for these beautiful words about Ashes in the Milk:

To be witnessed in this way is deeply humbling.
To share that space with others on their own journey? That’s everything.

πŸ’œ Read more reviews or order a copy: πŸ“˜ https://a.co/d/7c4RySN

27.08.2025 18:03 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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In continuing our dream series, we are moving on to the second tip.Β 

2️⃣ Name Your Dreams

πŸ–Š Every dream deserves a title.
It sounds simple, but naming your dream can reveal its central theme in seconds.

Suddenly, it’s easier to revisit laterβ€”and harder to forget.

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