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D.L. Mayfield (they/them)

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πŸ‡΅πŸ‡Έ Free Palestine πŸ‡΅πŸ‡Έ Autistic non-binary, exvangelical, tired. Co-founder of STRONGWILLED, a multi-media project focused on survivors of religious authoritarian parenting methods. http://strongwilledproject.com

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jokes on her Burgerville is unionzed with the IWW

07.10.2025 21:33 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
A screenshot of a video of Noem praying at a conference table with other people wearing suits. Fast food bags and water bottles sit on the table.

A screenshot of a video of Noem praying at a conference table with other people wearing suits. Fast food bags and water bottles sit on the table.

Apropos of nothing, Sec. Kristi Noem is currently praying over Burgerville with Portland ICE officials.

07.10.2025 20:03 β€” πŸ‘ 839    πŸ” 157    πŸ’¬ 185    πŸ“Œ 189

BTW James Dobson started the Alliance Defending Freedom legal organization, which is set to undo Colorado's ban on gay conversion therapy. Dobson really, really loved conversion therapy of all types (for autistic kids AND queer kids).

07.10.2025 18:01 β€” πŸ‘ 16    πŸ” 5    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 1

You can give all the proof in the world that the the core of white evangelicalism is the belief that everyone should be ruled by white Christian men and people will still be like but hurting the feelings of fascists is not good you should stop that

07.10.2025 16:44 β€” πŸ‘ 13    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

me: shares the information that Dr. James Dobson was taught everything he knew about marriage and family counseling by the man who inspired the Third Reich to implement their eugenics program.

white person in my DM's: I really don't think we should equate white evangelicals with Nazis

07.10.2025 16:42 β€” πŸ‘ 11    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 2

When I say global strike I mean STRIKE. stop investing your emotional support in authoritarians -- who have made it clear they do not have the moral courage or clarity to meet this moment.

07.10.2025 15:58 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Honor Greta, Palestinians, and the global movement for liberation by deciding today not to hang out or celebrate any of the upcoming holidays with authoritarians who do not care about the survival of the planet or of our species.

07.10.2025 15:56 β€” πŸ‘ 4    πŸ” 2    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

If you are a Christian writer, academic or historian trying to prove you are one of the good ones these days and you ignore or dismiss anyone who left Christianity I’m sorry you are still perpetuating the supremacist norms.

07.10.2025 15:54 β€” πŸ‘ 6    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Peter Thiel was right. Greta is the anti-christ heralding the apocalyptic end of a terrorizing genocidal state.

06.10.2025 20:49 β€” πŸ‘ 6    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Someone looking at all this with a cold eye might say that Miller and Hegseth are seeking control over the power ministries before a Vance ally invokes the 25th Amendment.

06.10.2025 20:11 β€” πŸ‘ 2610    πŸ” 805    πŸ’¬ 141    πŸ“Œ 82

Dobson's parenting methods impacted upwards of 1/3 of the US population. His methods were highly influenced by Paul Popenoe the father of modern eugenics, who Dobson worked with for ten years. The Nazi's used Popenoe's work to implement mass forced sterilization and so did the state of California

06.10.2025 15:48 β€” πŸ‘ 6    πŸ” 3    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Dobson's parenting methods impacted upwards of 1/3 of the US population. His methods were highly influenced by Paul Popenoe the father of modern eugenics, who Dobson worked with for ten years. The Nazi's used Popenoe's work to implement mass forced sterilization and so did the state of California

06.10.2025 15:48 β€” πŸ‘ 6    πŸ” 3    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

You can listen on our website, or find the STRONGWILLED podcast wherever you normally get your audio content. I look forward to making the white supremacist patriarchy annoyed with you!!!

06.10.2025 15:45 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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James Dobson’s Worst Nightmare Part 1 β€” Strongwilled A history of James Dobson, his eugenic beginnings, his work on the Meese Commission, and how he ushered in religious authoritarianism in the US

Do you want to be James Dobson's worst nightmare? Then listen to this podcast episode where I break down his white supremacist eugenicist roots and how his parenting methods create a population of folks who wouldn't resist authoritarian rule: www.strongwilledproject.com/focus-on-the...

06.10.2025 15:44 β€” πŸ‘ 8    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 1

America should listen to Black people

05.10.2025 13:34 β€” πŸ‘ 702    πŸ” 125    πŸ’¬ 10    πŸ“Œ 22

I promise you we are going to get through this together. You aren't alone, you DO have a strong will, and a better world is not only possible -- I believe we will get to see glimpses of it in our time.

05.10.2025 21:15 β€” πŸ‘ 12    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Let yourself feel the feelings + spend some time connecting to your true self and your core values (I hope they include some kind of desire for the survival of the planet and humanity as a whole). Use your values to guide your actions /resist authoritarian rule in whatever ways make sense for you.

05.10.2025 21:14 β€” πŸ‘ 14    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

It was beaten into your body at a young age that to disobey or assert your own will brought pain, isolation, and estrangement from your community and caregivers. But that doesn't mean we can't overcome the authoritarian programming we received. We just have to acknowledge that it exists.

05.10.2025 21:13 β€” πŸ‘ 12    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Hey if you were raised evangelical or your parents used James Dobson parenting methods (corporal punishment for every act of willful defiance) then you might be struggling right now. It might feel terrifying, shameful, and hopeless to stand up to authoritarian rule. That's very much on purpose.

05.10.2025 21:12 β€” πŸ‘ 37    πŸ” 6    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 1
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Free Greta Thunberg and the rest of the illegally detained flotilla activists.

04.10.2025 22:12 β€” πŸ‘ 23681    πŸ” 7941    πŸ’¬ 450    πŸ“Œ 231

Hey, uh, so at what point do you think people will come to terms with the reality that their evangelical family and friends simply do not care about democracy? That they are actually quite OK with authoritarian rule if they think it privileges and protects them?

04.10.2025 23:31 β€” πŸ‘ 51    πŸ” 4    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

If you are a journalist wanting to report on this, please reach out! If you are neurodivergent and want to help us keep researching this, let me know!

03.10.2025 15:09 β€” πŸ‘ 4    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Dobson project 2025 What is James Dobson’s connection to the 100+ groups on the Advisory Board of Project 2025? 1795 Exchange Led by Paul Fitzpatrick who also was a part of Family Research Council which was started b...

Hey, with Russ Vought back in the news I wanted to share a document a few of us have but together that links how James Dobson was involved in 40+ of the organizations on the advisory board of Project 2025. This list is not exhaustive but it is a start: docs.google.com/document/d/1...

03.10.2025 15:08 β€” πŸ‘ 8    πŸ” 4    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0

THEN in the second half of his career he started his political advocacy work and created the blueprints and avenues for endless amounts of anti-abortion and anti-LGBTQIA+ laws to be replicated in every state. Just look up the Family Research Council or your state's Family Policy Council. That's him.

03.10.2025 14:59 β€” πŸ‘ 6    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

We will never get out of this mess unless we figure out some of the ways we got here. And James Dobson is the perfect figure to focus on: he utilized child development strategies to urge parents to punish and control their kids in such a way that they would grow up to comply w/ authority.

03.10.2025 14:57 β€” πŸ‘ 9    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Get ready, I just recorded a two hour long podcast where I info dump every single piece of information I have obtained in the last three years on how Dr. James Dobson is one of the main reasons America finds itself in the grip of a racist misogynist authoritarian fever dream.

03.10.2025 14:56 β€” πŸ‘ 14    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 1

Thank you!

03.10.2025 14:54 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
Here’s my pep talk after studying authoritarianism:

1). They never truly expect a long-term resistance movement bc they think people are a collection of trauma triggers who are easily controlled thru terror 

2). If they can’t terrorize you 24/7 in your mind, they have already lost the war

3). The single best way you can resist fascism is to not let them terrorize you constantly. Protect your mental health to ensure you are not constantly in a terrorized state

4). Keep connecting to who you are at your core. Your values, preferences, ethics, and beliefs. Build up capacity to resist

5). Remember they are like abusive parents: they only see us extensions of them. They have no clue how powerful joy and community and self-expression can be. We can use this to our advantage β€” we can be the strong-willed child they never saw coming.

Spending time connecting to your true self is not selfish in these times β€” it’s intricately connected to a resistance movement that is tied to honoring our bodies, our communities, and to the land. We have to build capacity to resist by being exactly who we are!

Here’s my pep talk after studying authoritarianism: 1). They never truly expect a long-term resistance movement bc they think people are a collection of trauma triggers who are easily controlled thru terror 2). If they can’t terrorize you 24/7 in your mind, they have already lost the war 3). The single best way you can resist fascism is to not let them terrorize you constantly. Protect your mental health to ensure you are not constantly in a terrorized state 4). Keep connecting to who you are at your core. Your values, preferences, ethics, and beliefs. Build up capacity to resist 5). Remember they are like abusive parents: they only see us extensions of them. They have no clue how powerful joy and community and self-expression can be. We can use this to our advantage β€” we can be the strong-willed child they never saw coming. Spending time connecting to your true self is not selfish in these times β€” it’s intricately connected to a resistance movement that is tied to honoring our bodies, our communities, and to the land. We have to build capacity to resist by being exactly who we are!

DLMayfield:

"Here’s my pep talk after studying authoritarianism:

They never truly expect a long-term resistance movement because they think people are a collection of trauma triggers who are easily controlled through terror.

The best way to resist fascism is to not let them terrorize you."

02.10.2025 23:14 β€” πŸ‘ 341    πŸ” 132    πŸ’¬ 14    πŸ“Œ 11

If Mamdani wins the New York mayoral election in November, when would he take office? I got invited to go speak there in March of 2026 and I only wanna go if it's his city πŸ‘€πŸ‘€πŸ‘€

02.10.2025 18:33 β€” πŸ‘ 5    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Never forget that strengthening your connection to your inner strongwilled child is what they tried to beat out of so many of us. If they are so desperately afraid of that, it’s honestly kind of encouraging. We are powerful, especially when we connect and live as our true selves.

02.10.2025 18:06 β€” πŸ‘ 9    πŸ” 2    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

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