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Laura

@pku2319.bsky.social

Thoughts unsolicited Also tips on making and keeping friends

14 Followers  |  17 Following  |  95 Posts  |  Joined: 23.08.2025  |  1.4452

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I mean, feel free to unfollow me if I am insufficiently pure for you. Otherwise, unless one lives in a stick lean-to and drinks naught but pure rainwater, all any of us can do is choose what level of hypocrisy we live at and with. I wrote about this, in fact:

whatever.scalzi.com/2025/03/12/t...

29.01.2026 14:18 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 625    ๐Ÿ” 44    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 49    ๐Ÿ“Œ 5

Penguin random house is being targeted for their stance in favor of DEI. I guess I know which book publisher to support.

12.01.2026 17:39 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

The DOJ is more than three weeks late in delivering the Epstein Files. In those three weeks:

- Trump declared himself acting President of Venezuela
- ICE murdered a woman in Minnesota
- Trump is preparing an invasion of a NATO ally
- Trump initiated a criminal investigation of Fed Chair Powell

12.01.2026 01:47 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 7532    ๐Ÿ” 2795    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 252    ๐Ÿ“Œ 177

I sometimes briefly regret forgetting to take a picture because I am busy enjoying the moment.

That waffle was damn tasty though

12.01.2026 08:55 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
Looking through a pagoda at a pond with a red shrine on the opposite bank.

Looking through a pagoda at a pond with a red shrine on the opposite bank.

Small park discoveries abound. People always say Tokyo is a concrete jungle but these delightful little parks are in so many places just waiting to be discovered.

05.01.2026 13:26 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Reaching out to people on the regular is a habit that takes time to build, but you can start with one person and just ask how they are doing.

If they don't respond, that's fine. You can try again with another person a different day.

05.01.2026 00:58 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

If you reached out to someone to say happy new year, why not follow up with how did it go? Or what did you hope the new year brings?

If you've taken the time to reach out in the first place, it's only one more sentence to check in on them.

04.01.2026 16:57 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

There is a point of too much pandan extract...

03.01.2026 13:35 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

It's probably my favorite series so always love meeting people who also enjoy it!

31.12.2025 03:10 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

My tired brain is often barely able to form coherent sentences in Japanese. I wish it was more automatic ๐Ÿ˜ญ

31.12.2025 02:07 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

It's an amazing series even if it does take over a month to do a re-read ๐Ÿ˜…

31.12.2025 02:06 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Did you finish the ascendance?

31.12.2025 02:05 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Yes yes yes to ascendance of a bookworm! Although one you start the manga.... Might you also consider the light novels

31.12.2025 02:04 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Have started watching tasokare and am enjoying the premise even though it's supposedly based on a game?

30.12.2025 14:46 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Hugs

30.12.2025 02:02 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Is there anyone else that still loves writing letters. I get joy out of using pretty stationary and writing down my thoughts

29.12.2025 05:58 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I didn't realize some mangas just get left hanging without any updates on what's happened to the author or if it will ever continue

28.12.2025 16:29 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Why is it that when I wake up from a nap... I feel tired

26.12.2025 09:52 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Hanging up wet towels as a substitute for a humidifier....

23.12.2025 15:47 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I feel like I'm wasting time while recovering.

23.12.2025 15:46 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I also just realized that I'm missing a discourse that talks about mitigating the racist, sexist, other societal harms issues which isn't let's burn it all to the ground

17.12.2025 03:51 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I find it useful, just tiring. I also haven't found a community to really discuss and propel my usage forward in a positive way.

17.12.2025 02:37 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I wish gifs were stickers instead

17.12.2025 02:33 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

What are you placing your hopes on?

17.12.2025 02:31 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

It's also really exhausting to try to keep on top of what's happening.

17.12.2025 02:29 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Wife jokes are super dated

15.12.2025 00:40 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I've mostly made peace with, I work to live and not I live to work. Sometimes though, I do wonder what it would be like to enjoy work

09.12.2025 17:52 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

What is it like to enjoy working? I don't think I've ever known

09.12.2025 17:28 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

And tired of my body extracting too many calories from the food I give it

20.11.2025 16:36 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

But I do think it's possible to become better at making friends through practice.

17.11.2025 23:25 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

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