Dr Catalina

Colemam How did we get from jobs to buttholes? Easy. That’s the whole f*cking point. How you work, live, love, and fck are all connected. The same stress that keeps you braced at your desk keeps you tight in your body. Daily life sht like bills, deadlines, traffic, endless scrolling, all that keeps

Why are all the curtains closed?😎 There was a time when people walking by this building could look up and see streakers, see couples having fun, see bodies not afraid to be seen. It was wild, it was funny, it was human. Now every curtain is drawn. Every window locked down. And that shift says

literally and metaphorically. Literally, our culture has taught us that the asshole is dirty, dangerous, untouchable. Shame and fear keep people tight and locked down. Which means most people never even consider it could be a source of deep pleasure. But the body knows. When explored with safety,

Dunn582 Time and money of course aren't the real blocks to pleasure. Yes, they matter. And yes, they impact how resourced you feel. But the bigger truth is that pleasure requires presence, not hours on a clock or dollars in a bank account. Pleasure doesn’t always need extra time. Pleasure lives in

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“Did it hurt somebody's feelings.” This is part of the problem fostering loneliness and division. When 100 college boys hang out the windows and scream at women walking by, that’s not harmless. That’s not funny. That’s learned behavior. That’s seggism teaching boys entitlement, teaching women to

If the world seems confusing and chaotic, this is by design. Over 50+ years policy after policy has been written to funnel money and power to the few. Tax breaks, deregulation, corporate loopholes, union busting. All of it stacked the system for the one percent. And as our population grew and our

We’re bending ourselves over to f*ck ourselves in the ass and not getting any pleasure from it. That’s what happens every time we consume without thinking. In what we eat, what we buy, where we live, how we drive, how we spend. Consumption is where we lose our power. Because every purchase, every

We’re bending ourselves over to f*ck ourselves in the ass and not getting any pleasure from it. That’s what happens every time we consume without thinking. In what we eat, what we buy, where we live, how we drive, how we spend. Consumption is where we lose our power. Because every purchase, every

“I learned absolutely nothing.” Thanks for sharing! Because what you (meaning everyone who projects like this) just showed is exactly the problem. You already know how systemic and individual factors contribute to loneliness and division. You already know how this culture blocks us from pleasure.

We’re bending over to f*ck ourselves up the ass and not getting any pleasure out of it. That’s the playbook. We’ve been sold the lie that if you work hard enough, if you grind long enough, if you sacrifice enough, you’ll get the rewards. Maybe that was true for a minute, but not anymore. The people

Stop blaming your wife for not wanting to f*ck you. If there’s no intimacy outside the bedroom, there’s not going to be pleasure inside it. Period. If you (meaning everyone in a relationship) don’t laugh together, if you don’t do fun sh*t together, if you don’t even like each other anymore, why

This asshole behavior is why assholes don’t get f*cked. When boys in a dorm scream vile things at women walking by, it is not harmless fun. It is how segg works through culture. It teaches entitlement. It normalizes disrespect. And it blocks everyone from pleasure. Because this isn’t only about

Segg Ed has failed us! Most of what we got in school was fear based, reproduction based, and shame based. Nobody taught us about consent. Nobody taught us how to figure out what we actually like. Nobody taught us that pleasure is learnable. Instead we were told the goal is intercourse, get there

Giving to get never leads to pleasure. Quid pro quo kills desire. When we keep score, when we trade touch or intimacy like a transaction, the body knows. It shuts down. Pleasure cannot grow in that kind of exchange. But reciprocity is different. Reciprocity is not about keeping track, it is about

Jm You are right. We no longer live in small communities, and that shift has changed everything. Individualism has been sold to us as freedom, but the cost is disconnection. When you live in an individualistic culture, you are taught to prioritize independence above all else. You should not need

Both. It’s literal and it’s metaphorical. When I say assholes need to get f*cked, I’m talking about bodies and I’m talking about behavior. Literally, our culture teaches people to carry so much shame, fear, and tightness around their assholes that they never even consider it could be a place of

Pleasure is not a privilege, it is a resource inside EACH of us. We have been conditioned to believe the opposite. That only certain bodies, certain bank accounts, certain lifestyles are worthy of pleasure. That pleasure is a prize you earn after hustling, performing, or proving yourself. That is

The system just erased your money and told you it’s fine. Former DOJ pardon attorney Liz Oyer revealed that this administration's pardons this year have wiped out over one billion dollars in fines and restitution owed by wealthy offenders. That means people who committed fraud, white collar crimes,

It’s f*cking exhausting right?!!! You’re not imagining it. That exhaustion you feel isn’t because you’re weak or lazy. It’s part of the playbook. The acceleration of everything, the nonstop noise, the endless scroll, the sound bites that pass as truth. All of it designed to keep us too tired to

Non consensual public groping, is gross. And yes, this type of asshole behavior needs to get f*

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Project much?🤔💕 When someone says “sleeping around is disgusting” that’s not truth, that’s projection. That’s their own shame, their own fear, their own discomfort with pleasure spilling out onto someone else. And this is exactly why so many people’s assholes never get f*cked. Literally and

Can dental visits be just as pleasurable as 🍑?!! Here’s the thing. I’m sitting in the chair, mouth open, lights above me, tools everywhere. And instead of bracing, I drop into my senses. What do I hear. The hum of the drill, the song playing overhead. What do I feel. The pressure in my jaw, the

If you don’t know how the system works, you don’t know how it's f*cking you. Only seven states in the entire country require civics. That means younger generations aren’t even learning how government works. And that’s not an accident. That’s the point. This started decades ago. The shrinking of the

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exactly! Politics and religion do make it hard. And you are not imagining it. And it's not dependent on what your spiritual beliefs are, because it is not just politics and religion. It is education, it is healthcare, it is every system that runs our lives. None of these were built to benefit the

“You’re wrong" starts everyone off losing. Arguing about who’s right and who’s wrong doesn’t build connection, it builds walls, divides, oppresses and helps the rich get richer. And what do most of us actually want? To feel connected. To be loved. To have great segg. To explore new things. To live

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