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boston-area artist and student | adult | ΘΔ he/it . . . digitalhound.neocities.org (wip)

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Macron plans law to kill more French wolves It comes after the EU downgraded wolf protections to make it easier for farmers to kill animals that threaten their herds.

French President Macron says new laws may be needed to increase wolf culling—weeks after the EU weakened protections.

Another blow for wolves in Europe, where fear and politics are being used to justify killing a species essential to healthy ecosystems. #StandforWolves #ProtectWolves
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peanut soy noodles

24.04.2025 20:38 — 👍 4    🔁 1    💬 0    📌 0

i’m #probably therian but i have an album rollout going on so im not gonna figure that out until next month

22.02.2025 04:38 — 👍 110    🔁 10    💬 5    📌 0
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how to love everything

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Well. Tulip is awake

22.02.2025 12:41 — 👍 10548    🔁 404    💬 344    📌 35

okay, it’s time for me to finally weigh in: it’s probably a bad sign that guys are just doing sieg heils in public again

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ri day trip….

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scratch my bellayyuu

21.02.2025 06:05 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
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ohh my fagslop #furryart

21.02.2025 05:12 — 👍 9    🔁 2    💬 0    📌 0
paradox of tolerance

paradox of tolerance

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Gender neutral, trans inclusive resources on sexual assault
April 2, 2018 10:02 PM
I'm looking for online resources to help dealing with sexual assault. The difficulty is that it needs to be written in a way that does not presume the perpetrator is male and does not presume the survivor is female.

The reason I'm looking for this is that I've been working on addressing my own rape trauma (associated with an assault that happened a long time ago but have never really dealt with)

The problem I'm running into is that 99% of what I read is written assuming that cis women are the survivors, and so they use phrases like "believe women" instead of the more precise "believe survivors" language.

I *CANNOT* read these things without bursting into tears. It sets off my trauma responses because my rapist was a cis woman, and at the time the assault happened I lived as a man. Resources targeted at male rape survivors tend to be less gender specific, but even they tend to presume the rapist was male (and of course it interacts very poorly with my gender dysphoria to be forced to think of myself as a man now). I keep trying to google this to find something that fits the bill but of course this is a futile effort because all the top hits are #metoo style pieces that are massively triggering, so I can't even read the search results.

Any help at all would be deeply appreciated

Gender neutral, trans inclusive resources on sexual assault April 2, 2018 10:02 PM I'm looking for online resources to help dealing with sexual assault. The difficulty is that it needs to be written in a way that does not presume the perpetrator is male and does not presume the survivor is female. The reason I'm looking for this is that I've been working on addressing my own rape trauma (associated with an assault that happened a long time ago but have never really dealt with) The problem I'm running into is that 99% of what I read is written assuming that cis women are the survivors, and so they use phrases like "believe women" instead of the more precise "believe survivors" language. I *CANNOT* read these things without bursting into tears. It sets off my trauma responses because my rapist was a cis woman, and at the time the assault happened I lived as a man. Resources targeted at male rape survivors tend to be less gender specific, but even they tend to presume the rapist was male (and of course it interacts very poorly with my gender dysphoria to be forced to think of myself as a man now). I keep trying to google this to find something that fits the bill but of course this is a futile effort because all the top hits are #metoo style pieces that are massively triggering, so I can't even read the search results. Any help at all would be deeply appreciated

Removing resources for transgender sexual assault is not "harm reduction." It is harm in itself.

Look at this forum post from 2018, a time when there were far fewer online resources for trans victims of assault. I fear that we are once again heading in that direction.

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(in doechii voice) i mean fuck i like moe's i like marge i like pink donuts i like duff i hate bart

20.02.2025 19:16 — 👍 1    🔁 1    💬 0    📌 0
ms casey from severance

ms casey from severance

your outie always seeds torrents to a ratio of at least 2.0

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shut the fuck up

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If Hades is a game that made you feel seen and represented, it's because of the hard work of the people who contributed their talents. Now we have an opportunity to repay that.

Please tell Supergiant that you support striking workers.

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Incredible news! More hospitals have returned to offering gender affirming care after Trump's executive order was blocked.

Moments after publishing our story on hospitals returning, Childrens National DC announced a return to care.

And JUST now, Colorado Children's is back to giving care!

AMAZING

19.02.2025 23:25 — 👍 8132    🔁 2081    💬 70    📌 72
Painting featuring two standing white female figures, to the right, holding a sword in the act of beheading a white male figure who lies centrally on a bed, all in a dark room

Painting featuring two standing white female figures, to the right, holding a sword in the act of beheading a white male figure who lies centrally on a bed, all in a dark room

Judith Slaying Holofernes (1614–20) by Artemisia Gentileschi, considered one of the most accomplished of all Italian Baroque painters #WomensArt

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fair warning to my friends lol i might repost some kind of weird stuff so just be warned 🐾 lol ! i need to freak out

20.02.2025 05:02 — 👍 4    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
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what is this country and why do all of the hot people come from here

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Hundreds gather in Boston for 'No Kings on Presidents Day' protest Nearly 1,000 people marched in the snow from the State House in Boston to City Hall, chanting “Elon Musk has got to go” and “No kings on Presidents Day!” The temperature was below freezing with wind c...

Nearly 1,000 people marched in the snow from the State House in Boston to City Hall, chanting “Elon Musk has got to go” and “No kings on Presidents Day!” The temperature was below freezing with wind chills in the teens.

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vday

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