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Erin Stevens

@aclientfirst.bsky.social

Therapist, Supervisor and Trainer. working with people who have experienced harm in therapy, and therapists who are interested in addressing harm. Pro-client AuDHD she/they

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Counsellors Staffroom: Meet BACP Board Candidates 2025 Erin Stevens and Matt Cormack
YouTube video by Erin Stevens - Harm in Therapy Counsellors Staffroom: Meet BACP Board Candidates 2025 Erin Stevens and Matt Cormack

Counsellors' Staffroom hosted a Q&A event for the BACP election with candidates Matt Cormack and me. It's now available to view here youtu.be/n5TpemRbyrs?...
Voting closes 15th August!

31.07.2025 20:56 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
Meowslow's hierarchy of needs 

Pyramid of needs with food on almost every tier except the second top with reads "other cats to stay out of my garden"

Meowslow's hierarchy of needs Pyramid of needs with food on almost every tier except the second top with reads "other cats to stay out of my garden"

Meowslow's hierarchy of needs

26.07.2025 06:19 β€” πŸ‘ 23    πŸ” 6    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Thanks Joy ❀️

15.07.2025 18:57 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
BACP Board Elections: Meet candidates Erin & Matt (Live Q&A) Ask questions, share reflections, and meet BACP board candidates Erin & Mat in this open Zoom session

You can also meet me and fellow candidate Matt Cormack at the Counsellors’ Staffroom Q&A on Friday 18th July at 2.30pm. Free tickets here

www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/bacp-board...

15.07.2025 11:33 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

BACP Trustee voting is open! if you are a BACP member, please check your emails and cast your votes! Remember you can email me on erinstevens4bacpboard@gmail.com if you have any questions for me.

15.07.2025 11:33 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Thanks so much. That's a really important facet of disability justice that therapists and the whole profession need to attend to.

21.06.2025 19:07 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Thanks Sara πŸ™

21.06.2025 18:39 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I'm standing for the BACP board! Voting is 15th July - 15th August so if you are a BACP member, you can look for an email from Mi Voice with a link to vote around then. I'm interested in anti-oppressive practice & ethics and I'll be answering questions sent to erinstevens4bacpboard@gmail.com

21.06.2025 18:32 β€” πŸ‘ 21    πŸ” 4    πŸ’¬ 5    πŸ“Œ 0

This is such a great point, thank you so much for it.

21.06.2025 18:22 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
The Harm in Therapy Series: Introducing the Therapy Harm Resistance Project
YouTube video by Erin Stevens - Harm in Therapy The Harm in Therapy Series: Introducing the Therapy Harm Resistance Project

Introducing the Therapy Harm Resistance Project: a conversation with Natalie Russ is now available on YouTube!
youtu.be/Ne1NX48UoKk

06.06.2025 16:07 β€” πŸ‘ 7    πŸ” 3    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Um therapy harm πŸ™ƒ

12.04.2025 18:31 β€” πŸ‘ 4    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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When Therapy Causes Harm: A Webinar for anyone interested in Therapy Harm A one hour webinar including Q&A with Erin Stevens - a therapist working with clients who have been harmed and a survivor of therapy harm.

30th April I'm hosting a 1 hour webinar on therapy therapy, open to everyone whether client, therapist or just interested. I'll overview the fundamentals of recognising harm, leaving harmful therapy, complaints (UK) and seeking support. Tickets by donation.

www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/when-thera...

12.04.2025 18:04 β€” πŸ‘ 21    πŸ” 5    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

I know, it's feels like BACP have become much more open to Harm in Therapy and much more open to people like me in the last year or so. It's promising.

11.04.2025 08:49 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
BACP podcasts Listen to our BACP podcasts featuring highlights from Therapy Today, extras from our events and professional learning insights - in the office, on the move or at home.

If you are a member of BACP you can listen to me being interviewed by Katy Georgiou for the latest Therapy Today podcast here
www.bacp.co.uk/events-and-r...

11.04.2025 07:02 β€” πŸ‘ 8    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
Workshop Recordings | Erin Stevens

The recording of the Harm in Therapy for Queer Autistic Therapists workshop with me and Sonny Hallett @scrappapertiger.bsky.social , which was sold out for live attendance, is now available for purchase! Access here: www.erinstevens.co.uk/workshop-rec...

01.04.2025 11:25 β€” πŸ‘ 8    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 1
Front cover of April 2025 Therapy Today magazine. When therapy causes harm. Image of a therapist standing on a client's toe, which i take to be metaphorical.

Front cover of April 2025 Therapy Today magazine. When therapy causes harm. Image of a therapist standing on a client's toe, which i take to be metaphorical.

I've been really pleased to hear from people who found this landing on their doorstep today. Finally, conversations about harm are becoming mainstream in the profession. I was grateful to be invited to participate in this issue & the corresponding podcast. If you are a BACP member check it out. πŸ™‚

24.03.2025 19:44 β€” πŸ‘ 25    πŸ” 2    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0

πŸ™ totally agree, survivor advocacy is a huge part of therapy harm activism. @sophieblackthorn.bsky.social is a brilliant activist survivor and writer, in case you don't know her. I'm really getting a sense of solidarity and community finally becoming more visible πŸ”₯

23.03.2025 17:43 β€” πŸ‘ 4    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

When a patientβ€”perhaps unknowinglyβ€”challenges the therapist’s ego, self-image or worldview, and the therapist feels threatened, the therapist might respond with bullying or belittling behaviours that serve to undermine the patient’s self-esteem and reinforce the therapist’s power and authority.

22.03.2025 16:48 β€” πŸ‘ 7    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

In PCA terms, for me therapeutic neutrality is UPR in action. It's the knowledge that my client isn't 'bad', 'wrong' or 'broken', they don't need me to change them, or to tell them what to do. It's about power. But it isn't about denying the impact of who we are or how we show up in the room.

22.03.2025 14:52 β€” πŸ‘ 11    πŸ” 2    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

My long-term therapist once said to me that I always get myself to where I need to be. He didn't create my ability to make choices, he simply made space for me to see that I can. It was this non-possessiveness, this therapeutic neutrality, that helped me develop my self-trust.

22.03.2025 14:52 β€” πŸ‘ 10    πŸ” 2    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

By this I mean that I do not operate from wishes or desires for my clients. I don't have desired outcomes for them, and I prize their self-determination. I am not meeting a client to impose my own conditions of worth on them, I don't know what is best for someone else.

22.03.2025 14:52 β€” πŸ‘ 11    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

and any attempt at neutrality is inherently a non-neutral act. In short, complete neutrality is a paradoxical notion and impossible in practice.
Yet, I view therapeutic neutrality as an important part of my philosophy of therapeutic practice. In reality, I think TN describes non-possessive practice

22.03.2025 14:52 β€” πŸ‘ 10    πŸ” 2    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Therapeutic neutrality. Let's talk about what it is and what it isn't.
We are inherently non-neutral. We bring contexts, some of which will be explicit, some of which are implicit, all of which influence how we show up in the world and in the room. Any attempt at apoliticism is inherently political

22.03.2025 14:52 β€” πŸ‘ 19    πŸ” 2    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0
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a group of people in red jackets are standing in a dome with purple lights Alt: a group of people in red jackets are collecting flying gold tickets in a dome with purple lights
20.03.2025 10:31 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I'm doing the crystal maze experience for my 40th birthday, fulfilling a lifelong ambition to collect tickets in the crystal dome.

20.03.2025 10:30 β€” πŸ‘ 12    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
Update on our social media channels News from BACP | We’ve reviewed our use of X and are exploring new channels

Good decision from BACP to leave twitter. I hope they join BlueSky
www.bacp.co.uk/news/news-fr...

18.03.2025 20:33 β€” πŸ‘ 20    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

πŸ™

18.03.2025 16:23 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
Workshop Recordings | Erin Stevens

Workshop 2 in the Harm in Therapy Series - "Rupture and Repair: The Fundamentals" is now available to buy from my website. Keep an eye on this page as more Harm in Therapy resources and CPD are added! www.erinstevens.co.uk/workshop-recordings

18.03.2025 14:25 β€” πŸ‘ 11    πŸ” 3    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

No prob I'll aim to make the resources available on my website afterwards :)

17.03.2025 19:43 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

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