Tyrea Jovier

Yeah 😅 Could very well be wrong and it’s someone completely different who just happens to have the same bday but again if not I’m a bit creeped out

Dang. Well either way it’s been going on far too long and I’ve been nice long enough. While I hate getting publicly involved I needed to do this and stand up for myself so that she couldn’t try to say I was hiding behind Gen in the original post

I’m really hoping it’s not her because the DOB for that LaDs in game account screenshot has me concerned… as it’s my bday and if it’s her I’m creeped out

I remember her Twitter crash out being in August of 2023 because it all went down when I was attending orientation week for the health care program I was starting the following week so it’s pretty engraved in the memory

So like with her LaDs account if she really felt bad about all this why post it on some out in the bushes alt account no one is searching for rather than one the main account where people who were impacted by her actions would actually see it? Make it make sense please

We can certainly hope yes. Thank you for taking the time to read not only my post but the posts from Gen and our other friend who is impacted by this and sharing it for others to see it. It helps get the word out about what’s going on and what’s occurred

All I can say is that based on how you you’ve gone about things you’re not the good person you think yourself to be. As Gen said, please seek help.

Something I’ve learned through life is that you can learn a lot about who a person really is based on how they react/ their actions after any form of relationship, platonic or romantic, breaks down.

her a chance to resolve this privately and she didn’t take that chance. I was being nice but that is gone now and this is what I feel I have to do to stand up for myself. Want me to be the bad guy, fine I’ll be the bad guy in your story because I always was when I didn’t go with what you wanted.+

The same was done with the XIV equivalent of Safiya. Once again rather than taking accountability for her actions of theft of my character she tried to cover up for it in hopes I let it go.

Again I really hate getting publicly involved like this and I really really hate confrontation but I gave +

Once again rather than take this request seriously and cease use of Safiya and potentially come up with a completely new replacement character for Safiya like with Aaron she instead decided the the acceptable course of action was to just rename Safiya and give her a different color palpate. +

character away to who still is taking part in the ongoing campaign. I made Safiya and she is mine and mine alone to use in any capacity. As noted in my request message to her, I told her to cease use of Safiya in any capacity included the version of her that had been created in XIV. +

I took part in a private oneshot to help build her a bit and later two group oneshots in the time I was included in her campaign so there wasn’t much built up of her overall. Regardless of this fact that doesn’t mean continued use of my character was acceptable by her or to the person she gave my +

refuse to take responsibility for your crappy actions after being called out for them.

My dnd character Safiya was made back in October of last year and never made an appearance in the formal campaign as the original intent was to introduce her later after I had time once I completed school. +

name and backstory that was how it should have been from the start not suddenly reversing course because you needed to cover up for the actions you’ve done these last few months. The vague posting on its own was cruel and despicable enough, but this takes it to another level and shows that you +

and now this nameless Miqote has a name and a backstory based of Glinda from Wicked all because she’d recently watched Wicked: For Good. This character has existed for the last few months and now she suddenly has a name and backstory. If that was the intent for this character all along to have a +

I was at the point of drawing a line on what I would tolerate, and the more she continued to post this Miqote the closer and closer she got to the line drawn. The line was finally crossed when within the last day rather than stopping her vague posts and deleting them she instead shifts course +

I’ll be honest, when the vague posting began and was just of the Miqote left mostly faceless I was more than fine to let things slide even when I knew these posts were about me. It was when it got to the point that she felt confident and bold enough to start making posts with the face showing that +

to her. and it wasn’t something I was going to long term discuss. It was going to be resolved now and that was that. Obviously she did not take these requests seriously as is noted in the evidence listed in Gen’s post on both topics. +

she gave my character away to as she lost the rights to use my character in any manner after cutting contact with me and to stop vague posting about me on her account. I made my points about these requests of what I excepted very clear as noted in the attached screenshots of my private message+

to be. That was the initial route I tried to take concerning her actions these last few months. My two requests to her were very clear and I did so in a nice manner despite the fact I was upset with what she was doing. The requests included stop use and postings of my dnd character by her or others+

As I said I usually don’t involve myself publicly in matters like this because I don’t enjoy this kind of stuff. When things like this happen I prefer to do them privately in hopes things can be handle in an adult manner without things having to get messy or involve others when they do not need +

self as well as the use of my dnd character despite the fact I am no longer associated with the campaign or the one running it. Both points were brought up very clearly by Gen in their post with proof and our other friend in their quoted post. +

There are obviously things though since then that haven’t been good. This being the vague posting that’s been going on about me first with a faceless Miqote with just enough of the traits showing to vaguely be me then evolving into the entire face showing with very coincidental traits to my IRL +

or people of the past because nothing ever good comes from it. I enjoy being in the present and looking forward to the future and that’s what I’ve been doing since April. I’ve been living life and for most the time since then it’s been good. +

occurred. I myself completed my schooling and began my new job in May while in my free time continuing to enjoy things that made me happy like XIV and other games, going to anime conventions, and concerts like Distant Worlds with my friends and those close to me. I don’t enjoy dwelling on the past +

back then but I hope that my apology reaches those hurt by my actions.

After our breakup we remained friends up until she cut contact in her crash out with myself, Gen, and our other friend mentioned in the post. Since that moment in April we have done our best to move on from everything that +

sincerely sorry to all those people I hurt while doing so regardless of if we knew one another by a name basis, shared space in a discord server, or just in passing from those she surrounded herself with which I was then also sporadically around. I know a sorry won’t make up for what I did +

blatant lie. Unfortunately I was one of a handful of people who backed her up and took her side when the Twitter crash out occurred. Being her partner at the time I thought I was doing the right thing by supporting her. I know during all that there were people that I hurt while defending her and I +

and saintly partner who did no wrong throughout the relationship because there were times I wasn’t a great partner and I won’t deny that. I’ll take that accountability now and be honest about it because there isn’t any reason to hide that. No person nor partner is perfect and to assume so is a +