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@johnwgrey.bsky.social

movies & tv shows enthusiast. book lover. bit of an old hollywood nerd. dog mama at heart. living my life one obsession at a time 🌻 https://linktr.ee/johnwgrey

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Happy birthday!!

30.10.2025 09:46 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Heard y’all wanted more Princess & the Grilled Cheese, well… We’re cooking up some DESSERTS this time ihihiβœ¨πŸ‘€πŸ’–

02.10.2025 22:07 β€” πŸ‘ 58    πŸ” 7    πŸ’¬ 4    πŸ“Œ 2

Hey, if you like queer romance or historical fiction or gorgeous prose or fundamentally good but broken people suffering beautifully, achieving catharsis, growing as humans, and having hot sex, @kjcharleswriter.com is your jam.

Just sayin'.

30.09.2025 01:33 β€” πŸ‘ 44    πŸ” 16    πŸ’¬ 4    πŸ“Œ 6
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Five months but I'm only writing once or twice a week so technically, I've only been writing this chapter for 3 or 4 weeks, which isn't so bad, I think

24.09.2025 17:05 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Only one scene left to write in this chapter!!! Y'all!!!! I've been working on this chapter alone for FIVE MONTHS! oh my god!!!!

24.09.2025 17:03 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

But I still think that representation matters and that humour should never be at the expense of others. So. Yeah.

23.09.2025 22:46 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

It's possible I'm taking all this too seriously. Maybe it's not that deep. Maybe they only wanted to create opportunities for them to have fun on set. (Probably. I think Jamie Lee Curtis had the time of her life filming this movie)

23.09.2025 22:46 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

And the film industry really needs to learn to leave well enough alone and stop writing subpar sequels to beloved movies.
Honestly, I was surprised to see that other letterboxd users generally liked this movie.

23.09.2025 22:46 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Nor is she reduced to a walking stereotype for the sake of comic relief. She has hidden depth and is three-dimensional and that's why the movie worked for me. Resorting to clichΓ©s the way they did in FF is not only unamusing but lazy, in my opinion.

23.09.2025 22:46 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

And is clever and caring enough to see that her mother struggles financially and decides to help her by paying bills with the money she earned (which she could've kept for other, more selfish needs). She is neither saintly - she has flaws and makes mistakes -

23.09.2025 22:46 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Regardless of what one might think of the movie, the screenwriters presented Padgett as a teenager/young adult who, yes, cares about her looks but ALSO has good grades and manages her business as a content creator

23.09.2025 22:46 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

As one of my uni professors once said, the spectator isn't stupid. Don't treat him as such. There have been movies in the past that were light and fun and still managed to present young women as clever and discerning. Right now I'm thinking of he's all that (2021)

23.09.2025 22:46 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Maybe because she's old enough not to have her emotions belittled and still young and attractive enough not to be a source of laughter for others.
I've never met real people who are such clichΓ©s and two-dimensional. I don't know why characters should be.

23.09.2025 22:46 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Better laugh than cry, I suppose but there's no need for exaggeration and anyway, I didn't find it very funny myself.
The only person who seemed to get out of it all pretty much intact was Anna.

23.09.2025 22:46 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

But anyway, moving on.
Through Lily's actions, Tess - as an older woman - is ridiculed. So, again, is this what the screenwriters think of elderly people? Or is it what they think young people think of them? Or was it simply comic relief? Do they think the aging body is something to be laughed at?

23.09.2025 22:46 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

with who she was? And I'm thinking of representation as well. Of teenagers watching this movie, seeing what the film industry wants society to think of them. I mean, I would be scoffing and rolling my eyes if I were them.
In fairness, I'm sure most of them recognise it's just good fun, but still.

23.09.2025 22:46 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

She becomes hysterical and shallow and doesn't seem to have a single thought in her head for most of the movie. So I'm wondering why this change? Is it what the screenwriters think teenagers are like? Did they think the movie wouldn't have been funny enough if they'd stayed consistent-

23.09.2025 22:46 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Thoughts on freakier friday:
I feel like the way the characters are portrayed is ridiculous. Lily, at the beginning of the movie, is presented as an intelligent, creative and (it's implied, I think) ambitious young woman but as soon as she finds herself in Tess's body, -

23.09.2025 22:46 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Going from Haymarket to Grassmarket today like, what am I? A horse?

20.09.2025 07:32 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

It's tomorrow if you can even believe it!!!!

11.09.2025 19:03 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Waited on an American customer today at work and she was so sweet and so nice! I'm obsessed with her. I hope she has a very nice life ✨❀️

23.08.2025 16:34 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0
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Being a baby ace is wild 'cause sometimes I will read scenes like this one and I'll be like, "oh come on, was that really necessary? Is it even realistic?? I mean, who would react like that in real life?"

And then I remember.

22.08.2025 20:32 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Was just prepping one of my student groups for a performance this afternoon, and suggested that anyone who tends to get nervous for concerts should grab a banana at lunch. My first violinist, puzzled:

"Like, just to hold onto? Or...?"

12.08.2025 14:40 β€” πŸ‘ 223    πŸ” 34    πŸ’¬ 18    πŸ“Œ 3

Also finding out I unexpectedly received money from the government doesn't hurt I guess

25.07.2025 13:18 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Work is a bit intense lately and I really need a break so I'm taking a self-care day which involves ignoring the things I'm supposed to do, rewatching a beloved romcom, a blanket, and a cup of tea 😌❀️✨

25.07.2025 13:13 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Nothing like a shit movie to put me in a shit mood. I just can't wait to go to bed and cuddle up with my babies* ugh

*fictional characters from my book

22.07.2025 15:59 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I just finished booking rooms for my trip to Scotland in September πŸŽ‰ I'm so excited!

06.07.2025 12:09 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 1
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To be fair to my 23yo self, I had no idea asexuality was a thing back then and I was so sure that everyone felt the same level of sexual attraction to people they didn't personally know as I did (namely, none) so it really was a totally normal thing to say from my point of view πŸ˜‚

24.06.2025 14:48 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

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