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Dr. Tina Paone

@drtinapaone.bsky.social

Author, Professor, & Licensed Professional Counselor ✅ Substack- https://open.substack.com/pub/drtinapaone ✅ Website - https://www.rise-thrive-therapy.com #narcissisticabuse #knowledgeispower #emotionalabuse

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I appreciate you! Building community together to increase knowledge and awareness 💜

18.10.2025 14:57 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

In a non-abusive relationship - absolutely.

18.10.2025 12:49 — 👍 2    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
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A narcissist's faked helplessness is a manipulation tactic. They claim they "can't" do something to get you to do it, making you feel helpful while subtly gaining control and avoiding responsibility. 😡

❓ What things did they tell you they couldn't do?

#narcissticabuse #domesticviolence #cptsd

18.10.2025 11:36 — 👍 20    🔁 4    💬 1    📌 0

🥳 appreciate that!

17.10.2025 11:15 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0
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💜 Because healing starts with truth—and truth is easier to find when we find it together. UNBROKEN is a safe, unfiltered space for survivors, seekers, and truth-tellers to explore the realities of narcissistic abuse and the path to reclaiming your life. 💜
✅ open.substack.com/pub/drtinapaone

17.10.2025 10:54 — 👍 16    🔁 2    💬 0    📌 0
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The silent treatment is a common narcissistic abuse tactic—it's weaponized communication to punish, control, and manipulate. It leaves the victim confused, isolated, and desperate for contact. Recognizing this pattern is the first step to healing.
#NarcissisticAbuse #domesticviolence #trauma #cptsd

16.10.2025 11:34 — 👍 39    🔁 8    💬 5    📌 1
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From Grandiose to Calculated: Navigating the Dark Triad How narcissism, manipulation, and recklessness shift depending on environment—and how naming them brings clarity

✔️ The Dark Triad: Narcissists ~ Psychopaths ~ Machiavellians. Listen or read ⬇️

What stands out to you?

#narcissism #narcissisticabuse #emotionalabuse #domesticviolence

15.10.2025 14:42 — 👍 20    🔁 3    💬 0    📌 0
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🎭 4 Power Plays of the Narcissist 🎭
Narcissists employ cunning tactics to maintain control and ensure their supply of attention. Knowing these plays is your first step to defense! 🛡️

Knowledge is power! Have you seen any of these plays in action? 👇
#knowledgeispower #narcissisticabuse

14.10.2025 12:27 — 👍 23    🔁 4    💬 2    📌 0

They completely need to control. And I believe that anyone can end up in their clutches. If the narc can figure out what’s missing for someone else - they will look like they fill that void.

13.10.2025 21:57 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

Of course! It’s exactly why I created this content. Learn more to help one another. 💜❤️‍🩹

13.10.2025 16:16 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
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Narcissistic abuse doesn't just show up in intimate partner relationships - it can show up everywhere. Parental alienation is a form of abuse. It is the way one parent speaks negatively to a child about the other parent. 💜 Learn more about parental alienation.

13.10.2025 12:20 — 👍 23    🔁 6    💬 1    📌 0

Heard! Loud and clear 💜 I can relate.

12.10.2025 15:41 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

💜 thank you for sharing. You are a survivor 💜

12.10.2025 15:40 — 👍 2    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
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💜 There is no BUT with love 💜 Have you heard this before? Did you recognize the pattern?

#emotionalabuse #narcissisticabuse #domesticviolence #knowledgeispower #psychologicalabuse #cptsd #trauma

12.10.2025 11:44 — 👍 18    🔁 6    💬 0    📌 0
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9 Truths of the Narcissist

11.10.2025 16:05 — 👍 20    🔁 6    💬 1    📌 3
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You are NOT the problem! 💜

#domesticviolence
#narcissisticabuse
#emotionalabuse

10.10.2025 20:42 — 👍 39    🔁 8    💬 3    📌 0
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❤️‍🩹 Have you ever heard someone say this to you? ❤️‍🩹

#knowledgeispower
#emotionalabuse
#domesticviolence
#narcissisticabuse

09.10.2025 21:39 — 👍 26    🔁 11    💬 1    📌 0
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Narcissistic Abuse = Domestic Violence It may not leave bruises but it always leaves scars.

How do you recognize abuse when there are no bruises?

#domesticviolence
#narcissisticabuse

08.10.2025 12:26 — 👍 32    🔁 14    💬 0    📌 0
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follow MomentousRise:

🌿 Website: www.momentousrise.com
📱 Instagram: instagram.com/momentousrise
🧵 Threads: threads.net/@momentousrise

#NarcissisticAbuseRecovery #TraumaHealing #CPTSD #EmotionalAbuseAwareness #SelfReclamation #GriefAndGrowth #HealingJourney #PsychologicalAbuse #MomentousRise

11.04.2025 21:31 — 👍 21    🔁 8    💬 0    📌 0
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Learn the signs 💜 Believe the survivors. Violence thrives in silence. Make some noise! 💜
#DVMN

05.10.2025 18:59 — 👍 32    🔁 15    💬 1    📌 1
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Birthday: Reclaimed! How my 50th birthday gave me back the celebrations I was denied—and the love I had always needed

Healing is hard, but reclaiming my birthday? 🎉 Priceless. I stopped ignoring it and started celebrating me. Took control, let go of the past. It feels great.

What did I reclaim? Read my blog👇

03.10.2025 00:15 — 👍 14    🔁 1    💬 2    📌 0
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Reclaiming My Birthday How I’m breaking a lifelong pattern of birthdays hijacked by narcissists—and making 50 a day entirely my own.

Happy 50th to me! 🥳

After decades of letting the narcissists in my life hijack or flat-out destroy my special day, this is the year I'm finally saying, "This birthday is MINE."

Consider this my official reclamation. 👑 The past is over. The future is bright. Let the good times roll! 🍾

25.09.2025 11:31 — 👍 22    🔁 2    💬 4    📌 0
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When My Own Name Feels Like a Threat Scenes like this one play out regularly, and it’s how I know narcissistic abuse still lives inside me.

Hearing my own name can make me freeze in place. Have you ever felt that?

17.09.2025 13:04 — 👍 8    🔁 2    💬 1    📌 0
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“Alexa, Turn It Up to 10!” How a joyful moment can trigger deep-seated trauma—and the steps that help retrain a nervous system shaped by narcissistic abuse

It’s hard to explain how a good time for some can be a trigger for others.

#knowledgeispower
#unbroken

13.09.2025 13:25 — 👍 5    🔁 1    💬 0    📌 0
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Why a diagnosis of Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) isn't the point. You don’t need a therapist’s diagnosis to know the truth about what you are experiencing. Naming the patterns is enough—and it’s the first step to reclaiming yourself.

Patterns are far more important than an actual diagnosis. Know what you are looking for.

#knowledgeispower #narcassisticabuse #mentalhealthawareness
#unbroken

11.09.2025 17:27 — 👍 7    🔁 4    💬 0    📌 0
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Future Faking: A Promise That Never Comes True Narcissists talk about the future like it’s already written. My ex made all kinds of promises, and none of them were kept. Here's how to recognize the patterns and what to do.

“As soon as I…” - Sounds like a promise but not when there is no intention to follow through…only to manipulate. Future Faking…

09.09.2025 15:28 — 👍 4    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
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Why My Practice Specializes in Narcissism and Narcissistic Abuse I saw firsthand how poorly therapists are trained to recognize narcissism. I want to change that.

The system wasn’t built to protect survivors of narcissistic abuse - so I built something new.

07.09.2025 12:02 — 👍 6    🔁 2    💬 0    📌 0
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The Cost of Silence: And the Power of Breaking It Why speaking your truth is the most radical act of self-love

I will no longer be silenced!

05.09.2025 18:06 — 👍 2    🔁 1    💬 0    📌 0
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Confidence or Conceit? How to Tell the Difference Not all confidence is created equal—here’s how to spot when it’s genuine, and when it’s a mask for narcissism.

Sometimes it’s hard to tell. Recognize the patterns.

03.09.2025 16:23 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
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When to Seek Help How do you recognize the moment that you can't (and shouldn't) navigate narcissism alone?

Sometimes you feel like you can manage the effects of narcissism on your own. Other times you feel like you cannot.

01.09.2025 12:51 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

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