Mayda Reyes. Tantrika.

Exiled In this blog, I share my journey through Tantra — the raw, unfiltered kind that doesn’t sell on Instagram. I walk alongside the misfits, the unlabeled, the ones kicked out of the village. We drop the ...

I found Tantra by accident. 30 years later, I've crossed Buddhist meditations, glass dildos, wild rituals, and even got kicked off LinkedIn for talking about male sexuality. Want to know what being a tantrika looks like? I wrote about it this week.

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Maybe love alone doesn't heal but it helps a lot. And as painful as it can be to break up again you don't only gain more pian, you also gain more self-awareness and wisdom. People that give it a second chance are courageous souls they disserve to be celebrated. And they always find true love.

I dont know, i sometimes fantazise thinking that god is the scriptwriter of my life and i do have some Carrie traits. I dont think my script is badly written, its more like messy huaman and sometimes dark humor. What kind of Carrie would you like to see?

Notes from the Other Side of Pride I had just gone through one of the most painful breakups of my life. I was really in love and the circumstances were brutal. Out of nowhere, I found myself with Covid, far away from home, heartbroken,...

Perfect Sunday read if you want to explore love, breakups pride, shadows, and why sometimes women don’t apologize — including me. 🖤 www.maydareyes.com/post/notes-f...

The End of an Era (And the Woman I Thought I Had to Be) This blog is my love letter to the beautiful, messy, sometimes brutal journey of love and endings. A space to unravel the myths around intimacy—not from a place of perfection, but of presence. After y...

After many soul-shaping years of teaching Tantra, I’m choosing a new chapter:

To write.
To ask better questions.
To reimagine what intimacy can look like when we stop performing and start acting like humans.

A legacy made of stories — especially the messy ones.

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Love Beyond Forever and the Tyranny of KPIs It’s very rare that I hang out with my friends from my corporate era. When we do meet it feels like we live in alternate universes—one where life is polished, scheduled, and measured... and the other,...

What happens when we apply our corporate logic to the most fragile, nuanced human experience: Love.

Hope you enjoy my new blog. @longreads.com

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When Pleasure Wasn’t Enough: The Tantra No One Talks About From glittery pleasure to holy mess — this is the tantric path no one warned you about.

Real Tantra doesn’t sell.
It’s not sparkles, orgasms, or perfect selfies.
It’s the truth of those who’ve been through fire.
the misfits, the labeled, the ones healing what no one dares touch.

I used to teach in curated spaces.
Now I work in the shadows.

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