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but it *is* okay to not help someone if u don't feel like u can atm. u can text someone else and ask them to help the person in question if they can. i also don't respond to some vent posts simply because i don't feel like i can help whether it's im miserable myself or just dk how. ur not bad 4 that

you may not wanna help cuz u dk how or feel like you're not close enough with someone. sometimes u just not in the right place mentally. it's okay. u don't have to help everyone.

hugs🫂🫂

i don't^^ you're helping a lot. /gen

well..i still don't feel sure about this, but talking to you did make me feel a bit less anxious so thank you :)

maybe it became too much for ya? or maybe u feel safe enough to complain about it now? i can't know for sure, but im glad you're speaking ur mind.

girl, it's ok to complain. seriously, it is. it's bothering you. it's valid. you're valid. your feelings are valid. im here to listen to everything you have to say even if it feels like it's not worth saying ot you shouldn't say that.

u r not.

uhhh ig? maybe so, yeah.

yippers, thank you :3♡ ly!!/pl

i genuinely don't know( ._.) but will think about it :>

maybe you are right :shrug: i just.. idk i thought being trans is like. "oh wait im a girl/boy! holy shit now it all makes sense" or smth. and it doesn't feel like that to me. it just feels like im being stupid and faking😭

3. idk, what are the chances that im trans? im not even very opposed to the idea of being a girl, i don't, like, feel bad when im seen as one. ik i said i was afraid ppl would start perceiving me as a girl if i tell them im afab but idt it's trans.

oki so.
1. as i said, methinks i was always ok with being a girl and being cis until i joined bsky (didn't even use any pronouns before). what if im js mimicking?
2. never felt dysphoria, i think. yes i hate dresses but it's not cuz i feel too fem, they're just inconvenient and feel uncomfy usually.

m. that's a good idea^^

i don't think i wanna be anything.. but i will try to think about it, thanks :)

wait im consuming food but i shall answer bit later.

bc u a good friend.

-being rude to the trans community by uhh pretending to be its member. im most certainly overthinking it btw ik😭

i kinda.. don't believe i can be trans? as in. "oh wow, you were always comfortable with being cis and expressing urself as a woman and then when u joined a community with many trans ppl you're suddenly 'questioning' and 'he/they', so believable!" and i don't wanna lie/pretend cuz i'd feel like im-

i feel like ppl started assuming im trans since i have "he/they" label on my main now, and it feels sorta... wrong? like i am not trans and i feel like im lying to people or pretending to be trans by having this label??(╥﹏╥) if ppl get the idea of me being trans maybe i should delete the label.

as in, don't worry, again, im not pressuring u to talk about anything u don't wanna talk about.

i trust you oki?🫂

hhuh.

hope is good :) im glad you're feeling it. love u🫂 /pl

that's so sweet of him!!<3

but do know if u ever wanna speak about it, i am here.

oki!! and samesies.
you haven't been annoying at all to me.

i truly think that it does matter to me and u can't change it, i will still care. but it's ok if u don't wanna talk about it. im not going to pressure you into telling me anything.

it does to me.