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she/her | loves 90s alternative, black hair dye, tattoos, concerts, & @matty.wtf | bi ๐Ÿฉท๐Ÿ’œ๐Ÿ’™| hates raw tomatoes & patriarchy | keeper of a tuxie cat | raising teenagers | googly-eyed goth | double Taurus | stefinitely.cool

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I think itโ€™s a berry sauce or something. Idk. They say itโ€™s blood swirl

07.08.2025 17:58 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Look at you out there looking all amazing ๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜

07.08.2025 17:51 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 4    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
Wendyโ€™s new Wednesday Frosty. The cup says best served cold, like revenge.

Wendyโ€™s new Wednesday Frosty. The cup says best served cold, like revenge.

Well, Wendyโ€™s understands their market lol. I came for a Diet Cherry Coke. I left with the Wednesday meal. Chicken nuggets in a casket shaped box and a frosty with a skull & raven on the spoon - yes please.

07.08.2025 17:46 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 11    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

One of my favorite reception moments: my uncleโ€™s longtime girlfriend sang โ€œMy Heart Will Go Onโ€ at karaoke. He stood there beaming, filming the whole thing. It was his second chance at love. Such a weird song, but theyโ€™re still so happy after all these year

07.08.2025 13:07 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 7    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Love it!

06.08.2025 13:04 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

It really is!

05.08.2025 03:01 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Thatโ€™s Drumstick!

05.08.2025 01:00 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I think sheโ€™ll do ok, but weโ€™ll see. Sometimes she can do things on her own and sometimes not.

04.08.2025 22:57 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Sending my eighteen-year-old to urgent care alone. Feels weird, but sheโ€™s going to college in a few weeks and needs to know how to do these things alone. Parenting is always interesting.

04.08.2025 22:46 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 7    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

It was very sweet of them.

04.08.2025 19:43 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
A tuxedo cat is curled up sleeping on a gray bed sheet. The cat is nestled near a black and white patterned pillow and blanket, looking peaceful and cozy.

A tuxedo cat is curled up sleeping on a gray bed sheet. The cat is nestled near a black and white patterned pillow and blanket, looking peaceful and cozy.

Itโ€™s not Caturday, but it is a very Mondayish Monday - so enjoy this photo of Charlie on my bed.

04.08.2025 18:55 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 18    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 2    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
A wall display featuring a framed vinyl record of The Cureโ€™s Kiss Me, Kiss Me, Kiss Me album on a โ€œNow Playingโ€ stand, next to a vibrant, framed concert poster for The Cureโ€™s 2023 show at the United Center in Chicago, illustrated in a gothic, skeletal style. Above the poster is a garland of black and deep red faux flowers. The arrangement is surrounded by minimalist textured artwork in natural wood frames, and a string of soft fairy lights runs across the wall.

A wall display featuring a framed vinyl record of The Cureโ€™s Kiss Me, Kiss Me, Kiss Me album on a โ€œNow Playingโ€ stand, next to a vibrant, framed concert poster for The Cureโ€™s 2023 show at the United Center in Chicago, illustrated in a gothic, skeletal style. Above the poster is a garland of black and deep red faux flowers. The arrangement is surrounded by minimalist textured artwork in natural wood frames, and a string of soft fairy lights runs across the wall.

Tonightโ€™s spin was a gift from all the kids for our wedding. The Cureโ€™s Kiss Me, Kiss Me, Kiss Me - featuring Just Like Heaven. Two of the kids learned it and played it for me as I walked down the aisle last Saturday.

04.08.2025 00:22 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 18    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 1

Like I get that people need service animals and they fill a real need- but I donโ€™t want to put my groceries in a cart that last had an actual dog in it.

03.08.2025 22:25 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

How dare you love your wife, Micah. I mean, how dare you.

๐Ÿคฆ๐Ÿปโ€โ™€๏ธ

02.08.2025 18:49 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Seems like a grudge issue ๐Ÿ˜‚

02.08.2025 15:20 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Hi!

01.08.2025 23:10 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Theyโ€™re just gross!

01.08.2025 22:24 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Aww thanks

01.08.2025 21:53 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
Stef and Matty on their wedding day, standing in the grass with trees behind them. Stef wears a black dress with a lace bodice and glasses, with dark lipstick and tattoos visible; Matty wears black leather pants and a black brocade jacket with a dark boutonniere, smiling brightly

Stef and Matty on their wedding day, standing in the grass with trees behind them. Stef wears a black dress with a lace bodice and glasses, with dark lipstick and tattoos visible; Matty wears black leather pants and a black brocade jacket with a dark boutonniere, smiling brightly

Time for a reintroduction. Iโ€™m Stef, newly married to @matty.wtf, my second chance that we got right. Iโ€™m a mom of teens & suburban goth at heart. I lift & I live for 90s alt & post-punk and tattoos. I hate raw tomatoes, bad policies, and the damn patriarchy.

01.08.2025 21:35 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 27    ๐Ÿ” 2    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 6    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

If weโ€™re seriously talking about bringing back the Presidential Fitness Test, then Trump and Kennedy should have to do it first. On live TV. No edits, no excuses.

01.08.2025 20:25 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 16    ๐Ÿ” 3    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 3    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Loved everything about this, and especially loved having @jpaulreed.com be part of our day!

01.08.2025 01:30 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 10    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I feel like itโ€™s almost better that it didnโ€™t ๐Ÿ˜‚

28.07.2025 12:00 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
Matty and Stef stand outdoors in front of a large tree wrapped with string lights. Stef wears a fitted black gown with a lace bodice, glasses, and bold red lipstick. She is trying not to cry while listening to her sister speak. Matty is smiling warmly, dressed in a textured black jacket, black shirt, and leather pants, accessorized with a chain necklace and boutonniรจre. A microphone and someoneโ€™s hand holding papers are visible in the foreground.

Matty and Stef stand outdoors in front of a large tree wrapped with string lights. Stef wears a fitted black gown with a lace bodice, glasses, and bold red lipstick. She is trying not to cry while listening to her sister speak. Matty is smiling warmly, dressed in a textured black jacket, black shirt, and leather pants, accessorized with a chain necklace and boutonniรจre. A microphone and someoneโ€™s hand holding papers are visible in the foreground.

Matty and Stef stand under a black tulle-draped wedding arch adorned with purple and black floral arrangements, exchanging vows during an outdoor ceremony. Stef, wearing a fitted black gown with lace details and purple streaks in her hair, holds a microphone and a small booklet. The groom, dressed in a black patterned jacket and leather pants, smiles warmly while holding his own vow book and sunglasses. Between them stands the officiant in a black dress, holding a notebook and a mic. A small black-draped table with flowers and ceremony items is visible to the side. The scene is set in a lush, wooded area.

Matty and Stef stand under a black tulle-draped wedding arch adorned with purple and black floral arrangements, exchanging vows during an outdoor ceremony. Stef, wearing a fitted black gown with lace details and purple streaks in her hair, holds a microphone and a small booklet. The groom, dressed in a black patterned jacket and leather pants, smiles warmly while holding his own vow book and sunglasses. Between them stands the officiant in a black dress, holding a notebook and a mic. A small black-draped table with flowers and ceremony items is visible to the side. The scene is set in a lush, wooded area.

A blended family stands together on a grassy lawn in front of a backdrop of trees, dressed in semi-formal black and white attire for a special occasion. The couple at the center wear coordinated black outfitsโ€”the woman in a fitted gown with a lace bodice and slit, and the man in a textured jacket, satin lapels, and black leather pants. Surrounding them are five teenagers, all smiling and wearing laminated backstage pass-style lanyards, adding a playful, music-themed touch to the event. The setting and attire suggest a rock-inspired wedding celebration.

A blended family stands together on a grassy lawn in front of a backdrop of trees, dressed in semi-formal black and white attire for a special occasion. The couple at the center wear coordinated black outfitsโ€”the woman in a fitted gown with a lace bodice and slit, and the man in a textured jacket, satin lapels, and black leather pants. Surrounding them are five teenagers, all smiling and wearing laminated backstage pass-style lanyards, adding a playful, music-themed touch to the event. The setting and attire suggest a rock-inspired wedding celebration.

Stef, in a black lace dress, holds a brown and yellow chicken in her arms while making a playful, expressive face directed at the bird. She wears glasses, dangling black stone earrings, and a matching pendant necklace. Her short dark hair has purple streaks, and her arm features a bold tattoo of a retro-style bat-winged woman. The background is softly blurred greenery, suggesting an outdoor setting.

Stef, in a black lace dress, holds a brown and yellow chicken in her arms while making a playful, expressive face directed at the bird. She wears glasses, dangling black stone earrings, and a matching pendant necklace. Her short dark hair has purple streaks, and her arm features a bold tattoo of a retro-style bat-winged woman. The background is softly blurred greenery, suggesting an outdoor setting.

Saturday was the best day! Mostly because I got to marry @matty.wtf, but also because everything came together to make the day truly magical.

28.07.2025 10:57 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 66    ๐Ÿ” 3    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 12    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Such a great wedding eve! The cherry on top was definitely meeting Kay Hanley after the show. And now today is the big day :)

26.07.2025 16:39 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 16    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 3    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0
A couple shares a kiss in front of a brick wall with a stone seal that reads โ€œThe County of DuPage Illinois.โ€ The man wears a light blue button-up shirt, tan shorts, and navy sneakers. The woman wears a black top and black leather miniskirt with purple Converse sneakers. She has visible tattoos on her arm and ankle, and her dark hair is streaked with purple. They are standing closely, embracing affectionately.

A couple shares a kiss in front of a brick wall with a stone seal that reads โ€œThe County of DuPage Illinois.โ€ The man wears a light blue button-up shirt, tan shorts, and navy sneakers. The woman wears a black top and black leather miniskirt with purple Converse sneakers. She has visible tattoos on her arm and ankle, and her dark hair is streaked with purple. They are standing closely, embracing affectionately.

Got the license today - wedding tomorrow!

25.07.2025 23:12 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 43    ๐Ÿ” 1    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 6    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Love it!

25.07.2025 23:08 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Yay!

25.07.2025 22:55 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Yay!!

25.07.2025 22:12 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Oh no!

24.07.2025 03:19 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Beautiful!

24.07.2025 00:55 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

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