SIR Aaron Wolf (he/him/his)

Join BLUF San Francisco (#BLUFSF) this Friday from 9PM to 2AM for BLUFSF HARD at the SF Eagle.

Arrive IN GEAR before 9:30PM & pay no cover. BLUF is encouraged; ALL are welcome.

We will be sharing space with the Bay Area Cigar Buddies & ASHHOLE.

FMI: www.bluf-sf.com/events/hard/

Again, communication is the bedrock regardless of when intent is introduced in the M/s dynamic. It can be from the get-go or later on. When there's a shift or if there is a shift wanted in the dynamic, being able to communicate is vital #SacMAsT

M/s dynamic intention can begin when labels are applied to things. #SacMAsT

One of the many great things about BDSM dynamics is that EVERYTHING is negotiable. #SacMAsT

An M/s dynamic does not necessarily need to be comprised of romantic intent; love can a part of it but it's not necessarily steeped in romance. #SacMAsT

Intention within M/s dynamics begins when:

- Parts start to want one another.
- When want becomes need.
- Desire becomes devotion.
- Play becomes practice.

Intention can start early on in the dynamic and tilts as it develops. #SacMAsT

#SacMAsT is a Bronze Sponsor for this Northwest Leather Celebration (NWLC) in late-April/early-May: www.northwestleathercelebration.com

Seated for this month's MAsT Sacramento meeting; intros have finished. Topic: When Does Power Become Intentional? Beginning the M/s Dynamic #SacMAsT

Pillion Showtimes

Tickets for Pillion are available now; showing at the Kabuki 8 starting February 12th in San Francisco.

The first edition of BLUFSF CUERO in 2026 will be on Saturday, February 7th from 9PM to 12AM. A raffle auction fundraiser for the Trans & Queer Youth Collective (TQYC) will be held...

Read more: bluf-sf.com/2026/01/14/a...

The January 2026 Edition of BLUFSF HARD was successful & very well-attended; a great way to start the new year!

Check out the recap & photos to share here: www.bluf-sf.com/2026/01/12/r...

Next BLUFSF HARD: February 13th

Tragedy Is Not The End by Joel Ansett In mid-2025, I lost a mentor & this song helped me navigate grief and to understand, once again, that there is a way forward from loss when the tears have all been shed.

In mid-2025, I lost a mentor & this song helped me navigate grief and to understand, once again, that there is a way forward from loss when the tears have all been shed.

Tonight.
9PM to 2AM at the SF Eagle.
Gear up.
Join us.

www.bluf-sf.com/events/hard/

Social FRIDAY, JANUARY 9, 2026 @ 7:00 P.M.Dinner Before BLUFSF HARDBasil Canteen, 1489 Folsom Street, SF Join us as we gather for an informal dinner at the Basil Canteen around the corner from the SF Eagl…

If you're in SF tomorrow evening, join BLUF San Francisco for dinner before the monthly BLUFSF HARD at the SF Eagle.

Dinner will be at 7PM at the Basil Canteen; RSVP by 3PM Friday afternoon. After dinner, we'll walk to the Eagle together for BLUFSF HARD.

RSVP: www.bluf-sf.com/events/social/

The discussion tonight has been so good & very nurturing to this Dom's mind and heart. I'm glad I came. #SacMAsT

When an M/s in solely reliant on scenes, burnout can occur. Take time to develop the dynamic. Seek maturity in your needs. #SacMAsT

The following texts have been mentioned tonight:

Slave Craft by Guy Baldwin

Hearts & Collars by Dawn Williams

Unequal Partnership by Aisha-Sky Gates

#SacMAsT

Know yourself & what you have to offer to someone who may be interested in exploring with you. The more specific the want, the smaller the pool can be. #SacMAsT

M/s dynamics take time. Do not try to skip steps into a serious dynamic right away. Date with the intention of learning & exploring with someone.

i.e., Approaching me & immediately wanting a hardcore TPE dynamic before we've even met is a fast track to moving on. #SacMAsT

Know what you are looking for, what your goals are. Know yourself enough to know you're ready for a dynamic. #SacMAsT

If there's a specific munch on a specific topic, chances for finding like-minded folx increases. Do the research. #SacMAsT

How do you date with purpose when looking for M/s-D/s dynamics?

"Fish in the right ponds." Look for someone in the best place, not general dating environments. i.e., Recon vs. eHarmony. #SacMAsT

I've officially ID'd as a Master to #SacMAsT tonight... #MAsTSacramento

MAsT SF and NWLC in the house. #SacMAsT

#SacMAsT meeting has commenced; introductions happening.

#SacMAsT topic - Seeking Power with Purpose: Dating for M/s & D/s Relationships #MAsTSacramento

Seated for this month's MAsT Sacramento meeting; it's been a while. Good to be here. #MAsTSacramento

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Join BLUFSF for HARD this Friday at the SF Eagle from 9PM to 2AM. We'll be meeting for dinner at the Basil Canteen at 7PM; if interested, please RSVP by 3PM on Friday, January 9th.

Dinner: www.bluf-sf.com/events/social/

HARD: www.bluf-sf.com/events/hard/

BLUF encouraged; ALL are welcome.

(Ir)Resolutions SIR Wolf reflects on 2025 and states goals HE has for 2026

SIR Wolf reflects on 2025 and states goals HE has for 2026