SIR Aaron Wolf (he/him/his)

Join us for the November edition of #BLUFSF HARD at the SF Eagle from 9PM to 2AM; arrive IN GEAR before 9:30PM & pay no cover. Gear up, show up, get your boots serviced by the on-duty Bootblack.

Read more: www.bluf-sf.com/events/hard/

Tonight.
9PM to 2AM at the SF Eagle.
Gear up.
Join us.

www.bluf-sf.com/events/hard/

Had a great time representing BLUF San Francisco (@blufsf.bsky.social) this weekend at the annual backyard party!

Check out the recap here: bluf-sf.com/2025/09/30/r...

Check out the recap for the Fifth Annual Backyard Folsom Party.

Thanks to ALL who come out throughout the day; it was great to meet & greet folx familiar & new.

See more: www.bluf-sf.com/09/30/2025/r...

Next BLUFSF event: HARD on Friday, October 10th @ the SF Eagle

Regarding today's Folsom Backyard Party...

Join BLUFSF & On Guard Salon on Folsom Sunday for the 5th Annual Folsom Backyard Party!

11AM to 5PM
106 Landers Sreet
San Francisco

Stop by, take a load off & enjoy a cigar, bloody Mary, or brat.

FMI: www.bluf-sf.com/events/special

Recap: BLUFSF CUERO – Autumn 2025 Edition The Autumn Edition of BLUFSF CUERO was a successful celebration, featuring Boy Zander’s birthday and key lime cheesecake on the Bolt patio.

#BLUFSF CUERO happened last week; check out the event's recap. Next & last edition for 2025: November 21st.

Recap: BLUFSF HARD – September 2025 Edition The September BLUFSF HARD event was successful, featuring the SF Eagle, with future events planned for October and November.

Check out the recap for this month's #BLUFSF HARD; next edtion: Friday, October 10th.

Your help is needed for #LeatherWalk2025; volunteer today!

Safety/Traffic Monitors & Banner Carriers are needed.

Sign up today @ volunteersignup.org/TEJF9

Join @blufsf.bsky.social Team & help fundraising! Join the Leather Community this Sunday for LeatherWalk 2025, register to fundraise or walk for fun. You can also volunteer; Safety/Traffic Monitors & Banner Carriers are needed. I'lll be helping as a Safety/Traffic Monitor.

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Tonight.
9PM to 2AM at the SF Eagle.
Gear up.
Join us.

www.bluf-sf.com/events/hard/

Join Us for the September Edition of BLUFSF HARD Join us for the September edition of BLUFSF HARD at the SF Eagle from 9PM to 2AM; arrive in gear before 9:30PM and pay no cover. Gear up, show up, get your boots serviced by the on-duty Bootblack.

Join Us for the September Edition of BLUFSF HARD

Join us for the September edition of BLUFSF HARD at the SF Eagle from 9PM to 2AM; arrive in gear before 9:30PM and pay no cover. Gear up, show up, get your boots serviced by the on-duty Bootblack.

On Vulnerability Embrace vulnerability to connect authentically and fortify your spirit despite societal judgments.

On Vulnerability

Embrace vulnerability to connect authentically and fortify your spirit despite societal judgments.

Check out the event recap with photos for this month's #BLUFSF HARD; thanks to all who geared up & came out last Friday: bluf-sf.com/2025/08/12/r... #BLUF #BLUFSanFrancisco #BLUFevents #LeatherCommunity #LeatherEvents

Meeting is wrapping up. #SacMAsT

Learned a new word: Limerence. #SacMAsT

Learned something new. NRE = New relationship energy. Pretty cool. #SacMAsT

Exit plans are best for life-ending situations vs. "divorces" within the polyamorous dynamic. #SacMAsT

Some polyamorous setups don't have exot plans in mind; rather, they address breakage if/when it occurs. The goal is to move forward together vs. have a plan for when things end. #SacMAsT

With the polycule, it might be necessary to distance a longer-standing dynamic to foster a newer dynamic but that doesn't need to have an exit plan. #SacMAsT

Exit plans can be a good case for polyamory in that others within the polycule can step in should the Dominant fall out. #SacMAsT

Exit plans are dependent on the level of enmeshment/entanglement & the amount of time that the polyamorous dynamic has been in place. #SacMAsT

How do we get you back to the point of getting back to standing in your own two feet? This is a point of an exit plan. #SacMAsT

From a 24/7 slave: Having an exit plan is SO important. Here's a support system & how it use it should the M go away. #SacMAsT

Having an exit plan from the beginning is important for the ending of a polyamorois dynamic. #SacMAsT

Starting w/ endings, when a dynamic has expired, learn to be like Elsa & let it go. #SacMAsT

Intros are done. The topic is now open for discussion. #SacMAsT

The Pup & I have been attending #SacMAsT meetings for a year now. That's pretty cool.

This month's #SacMAsT meeting has commenced; introductions are happening now.

Join BLUF San Francisco (BLUFSF) this Friday from 9PM to 2AM for BLUFSF HARD at the SF Eagle.

Arrive IN GEAR before 9:30PM & pay no cover. BLUF is encouraged but is not required; ALL are welcome.

FMI: bluf-sf.com/2025/07/25/j...