5 days left* in Bangkok.
I'm gonna try to make them count.
Joys. Connecting with people.
Being kind to my future self. Doing some slightly-scary things.
Let's be kind. To ourselves AND each other.
*I will be back in a few months.
@stuffbybez.bsky.social
Loves games, dancing, people. Makes games. Improvises music. Tries to be a decent human. Sometimes refers to herself in the 3rd person. https://linktr.ee/stuffByBez Designer, developer, illustrator, rules writer/editor. Available for hire. Learning Thai.
5 days left* in Bangkok.
I'm gonna try to make them count.
Joys. Connecting with people.
Being kind to my future self. Doing some slightly-scary things.
Let's be kind. To ourselves AND each other.
*I will be back in a few months.
I have been tempted to restart a book about game design, connections, money, sex, and life.
It might be called "Why the fuck did I do that?"
I would love to have your guidance along the way, if you have the time/energy/desire.
I need to be heard but I don't know what to say. :-p
20.02.2026 12:00 โ ๐ 1 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0Making peace with the uncertainty of the future, specially when things feel precarious, seems like one of the hardest things.
18.02.2026 15:27 โ ๐ 2 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0I was reminded of "A Game about Selecting Seven Cards speedily searching for Synergies" just now.
I don't think that game reached many people, but I kinda love the way I incorporated the icons (stars, keys, eggs, cake...) into the images.
www.instagram.com/p/DPW_rhDiIk...
Welcome to blusky!
Why do you love PnP in particular? :-)
1-((11/12)*(11/12))= 0.15972222222
1/6 = 0.16666666666
So go with the D6.
I am very very excited to see my new joyfriend in less than 3 weeks' time!
11.02.2026 21:08 โ ๐ 3 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0If you were to compliment me, what compliments would you offer me? :-p
08.02.2026 20:44 โ ๐ 0 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 1 ๐ 0What is a recent joyful moment you've had?
08.02.2026 20:43 โ ๐ 0 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 1 ๐ 0Who won? Who lost? The winner can be celebrated, but that's not the key thing.
The key thing is the stories and the time shared. We might benefit from exercising our strategic minds, but if we were to chase that goal exclusively, it would no longer be play but work.
11 days since Upper Deck made their ~nothing~ response taking ZERO accountability for their actions against the trans community.
Weโre watching @upperdeckent.bsky.social
Your refusal to respond to us, blocking and deleting all discourse around you, doesnโt absolve you of the problems you created.
I have a friend writing a BG-themed cookbook and she was gonna have a recipe for 'Terraforming Maize'.
Whilst it was a good pun, I told her about some of the shit stuff.
There are enough BGs by cool people. Let's play and celebrate those instead!
Regardless of what happens with this game, supporting a boycott based on a game's IP is supporting a long term vision for the hobby/industry.
17.01.2026 18:19 โ ๐ 73 ๐ 15 ๐ฌ 4 ๐ 1Good morning, or whatever it is now for you. <3
What's something you'd be happy to get done?
I'm finding life overwhelming sometimes and finding it helpful to limit my focus/attention sometimes.
Is there even a cat in your house? :-p
19.01.2026 15:59 โ ๐ 3 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 1 ๐ 0I think that marketing, along with logistics, is probably way more important to a game's success than the stuff in the box.
19.01.2026 15:57 โ ๐ 3 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 1 ๐ 0Thank you very much, Graham. :-)
16.01.2026 19:23 โ ๐ 1 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0Having said that, if there are actually a bunch of folk who would like to come to a Bezzy event one of the days, maybe I should ask around, maybe even see if Gigamic want to do a (possibly slightly weird) Yogi-related promotion.
YOGI STOCK GURU was fun. But that needs more than one facilitator.
I love to see you had a sticker photo on hand!
Will this one ever go on anything?
Thank you for the wishes.
Spiel... not '26. Probably not '27. Maybe in '28? But when I go back, I can't imagine having a stand again.
When we can't change it, we must adapt.
When you're cycling in BKK and a motorcycle is going the wrong way - it's not helpful to be annoyed, but it is helpful to get out the way. ๐
But really, if it's an issue, bring out the red flags and effect change.
Literal red flags in Thai traffic.
There's enough Thai places here not yet on Google maps that I could make this happen if it doesn't already exist. :-p
16.01.2026 16:32 โ ๐ 2 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0But if you mention me, or something I made, and a friend makes me aware, I'm gonna check it out and maybe feel a sense of worth for a minute.
That's probably an unhealthy source of self-worth.
Anyway, thanks Fun Problems for the mention. And thanks @eanderssonsunden.bsky.social for telling me.
I used to be all about the podcasts.
Mainly board game design things. A few about reviews and news and opinions.
Occasionally, something else about interesting facts, mindfulness, self, or just some entertaining stories/jokes. And in the past 5 years, a few for learning Thai.
Now I barely listen.
A plan of what to do when you start pondering ways to kill yourself, I believe.
Potentially, this could include ways to distract yourself or ways to hopefully spark joy. Realistically, it's just a way to get through the next few hours without hurting yourself permanently.
Announcement:
I just closed my online shop. For many years, the admin has been a struggle for me, so I'm 'retiring' from single-person self-publishing.
All remaining stock I had is donated to @farplace.bsky.social , who will be selling it at their UKGE stand.
I'm gonna focus on other stuff.
I haven't seen that debate.
15.01.2026 04:19 โ ๐ 0 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 0 ๐ 0What's the difference? To me, CCG/TCG are synonymous.
14.01.2026 21:14 โ ๐ 3 ๐ 0 ๐ฌ 1 ๐ 0If you really try to avoid 'tainted' hands, by wearing plastic gloves, you're just giving up tactile joy.
#mangosteenWisdom