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@joe1920.bsky.social - Are you familiar with Mel Robbins already? This brought up a lot for me around sides, the acceptance we naturally want and also the issue of viewing the Top/Bottom folks as “other.” “Let Them” goes both ways.

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OMG… a new research article on masturbation! I’m always surprised and delighted when these get funded. Thank you for sharing the full thing. 🤟🏼

This is the least shocking result to me

YouTube video by Dr. Marty Klein 5 Sexual Products & Services That Many People Don't Use

Dr. Marty Klein is an international treasure. I recommend reading his books and following his YouTube channel. He’s too pricey to do my humble podcast (don’t get me started) but he’s a favorite and one of my heroes. youtu.be/jRw5dWXl9wU?...

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The Myth of Sex Addiction | The Heart of Jacks Podcast The Heart of Jacks Podcast returns! In this first episode of season 2, Paul Rosenberg sits down for a conversation with Dr. David Ley, clinical psychologist and author known for his critical views on ...

The Heart of Jacks Podcast is back!
Check out my conversation about The Myth of Sex Addiction with @davidleyphd.bsky.social
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In three weeks, HOJ creator, Paul Rosenberg, will be bringing the real story of JO clubs to his home town in a live, sold-out show at Seattle’s historic Neptune Theater.

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Not sure if you mean “valley girl” or “Valkyrie girl.” 😁

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Still Fascinated by this paper arguing that orgasm actually uses the pain (not pleasure) neurological systems of the brain. Kinda throws a monkey wrench in the claims that sex/porn are addictive because of pleasure…https://academic.oup.com/smr/article-abstract/11/4/291/7252285

The sight of this one makes me so happy. It’s remarkable how few creatives—even professional copywriters—understand the value of having a style to anchor communication. I generally don’t even care which style is chosen as long as one is. ❤️

Oh Texas Texas Texas… What would they be without their moral panics?

Oh hey… who's this guy?

Ringing in the New Year hits differently this year.

Call for Feedback: Sex-Positivity | The Heart of Jacks Podcast It’s a teaser! It's a cry for help! It's a floor wax!

Prepping a bunch of multi-episode shows for 2025, I'm wrapping up a series on sex-positivity and would love more listener feedback. Here's the pitch and details on how to weigh in with your take.
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The Heart of Jacks Podcast Conversations about sex—mostly between men—that might surprise you. Host Paul Rosenberg, author of the forthcoming, The Heart of Jacks: The History and Culture of Jack-Off Clubs, talks with bloggers, ...

The Heart of Jacks Podcast started in 2020, during the pandemic. From the start, I wanted episodes to be “evergreen,” not stuck in time, so they’d stay relevant.

If you haven’t yet, I invite you to explore Season One while I prep the next chapter of HOJ.
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Okay… making an attempt to connect my Patreon supporters to my Bluesky account. Still early days but since this is my only social media channel, I have to start somewhere! www.patreon.com/posts/hoj-on...

You made it!

I set the afternoon aside for recording voice overs so of course Seattle is experiencing a windstorm and my neighbors left their windchimes up.

… and, as always, thinking about who would be good to interview about it.

Interested in your take, if you're game, @sexualheroes.bsky.social (+anyone else who wants to chime in)

Personally, I'm pro-porn and pro-sexwork. I'm also pro-fitness and pro-sexiness. I like seeing "hot" people. Given all that bias, I'm interested in how monetization may impact viewer self-image.

Discussion for a possible future episode:

Does the commercial DIY porn phenomenon of fan sites—where content creators monetize, promote, and sell access to self-porn—repeat and amplify unrealistic and harmful beauty standards for men and women alike?

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Sunday is production day in the HOJ studio. Finishing up final edits for S02E01.

Excited to revisit this interview with Robert Black @sexualheroes.bsky.social, which also happens to be the genesis of our friendship.

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We'll have to take your word on that. 😁