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Lidiya Foxglove/Jackie Dolamore

@cozycreative.bsky.social

Author, Youtuber. I talk about writing craft, fantasy world-building and the emotional side of the creative life at https://www.youtube.com/@lidiyafoxgloveauthor Nerdy about history, sociology, manga, books, David Bowie, cats.

108 Followers  |  70 Following  |  43 Posts  |  Joined: 14.11.2024  |  2.2123

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Nowadays we're all so lonely. And we need to connect and also organize. My local Democrats (no matter where I've lived) are not a club, at least I've never seen them advertise anything that is just fun. Like maybe instead of thinking "write postcards" we should think "ice cream social" FIRST?

22.02.2025 16:26 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I've been watching/reading more about labor movements and various rights movements over the years and back in the day everyone had like, a proper club. With like, ice cream socials and stuff

22.02.2025 16:26 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Did you see the picture of his shackled, loafer-clad ankles? Making a trial look like a Prada campaign over here

22.02.2025 16:16 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
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A quarter of US shoppers have dumped favorite stores over political stances A new poll also found that four in 10 Americans have shifted spending to align with moral views in recent months

My moral stance is and continues to be anti-consumerist, but going even harder now. It's been hard breaking up with Publix but I'm working on it. It's nice to know I'm not alone!
www.theguardian.com/us-news/2025...

20.02.2025 19:56 β€” πŸ‘ 3    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

I mean, there are a lot of Jennifers. It might have been an impostor

20.02.2025 04:12 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I had a flight like this once. Why would you only have ONE FLIGHT of the day that departs at 6 am? And...yeah I did just end up staying up all night 😭

20.02.2025 00:19 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Aw that is so sweet! I haven't been checking social media that often. It would be nice to see your face but OTOH honest truth, I feel like I'm not going to take anyone's good advice yet. My Tarot deck/other signs keep telling me there is a reward at the end of this process

15.02.2025 00:03 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Oh man I mean, this speaks to the heart of what I've been dealing with since my father in law died & left us his collection, but it's more like a 5 year plan of energy cleaning apparently

11.02.2025 23:23 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

The fact that Hurricane Helene wiped away my town and side job is really hitting me fresh. I could really use a place to go, see people, get out of my head. I'm trying to just enjoy my work and kitties and spending time with Dade. But I would kill to chat with locals and organize a bookshelf

11.02.2025 03:07 β€” πŸ‘ 8    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

edgenerd maybe

11.02.2025 02:56 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Oh thank goodness!! This is good news!

11.02.2025 02:55 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Really good advice. Funny enough I have been giving similar advice and still melting down. I tend to feel everything very physically even when I keep it out of my head. Last time I couldn't breathe and this time I can't digest, apparently. But it helps to hear it from someone else

11.02.2025 02:54 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0
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The world is too much with us β€” Actually I Can As I sat down to write today, my thoughts were flying in a whole bunch of directions all at once. How to be of aid. How to comfort. How to assist. How to offer resources. How to entertain on some leve...

Last week’s blog post contains some coping strategies for current events and a Wordsworth poem.

actually-i-can.com/weekly-tips/...

11.02.2025 02:06 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 1    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

The CDC posted, then deleted, something about bird flu passing to cats, and there have been some mentions of it having a high mortality rate for cats & some cats dying from eating raw food. Of course if the CDC can't communicate with us, we'll have to piece together the info slowly on our own, so...

10.02.2025 02:19 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

If the bird flu actually does turn into a pandemic that KILLS CATS, you will never see my face in person again until this is resolved

10.02.2025 00:43 β€” πŸ‘ 4    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 0

I still keep thinking that No Buy is the place to start because it is in no way illegal. If we all just stopped shopping in protest of the Capitalist Techbro Oligarchy Nightmare...

10.02.2025 00:42 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I know we all have a lot to worry about but β€” this bill in Oklahoma is the thin edge of the wedge. In the guise of an β€œanti child p**n” bill, it actually could outlaw things like romance novels, LGBTQIA books, etc β€” felonies for not just authors but also booksellers. Straight outta Project 2025.

06.02.2025 01:29 β€” πŸ‘ 73    πŸ” 45    πŸ’¬ 2    πŸ“Œ 2

Aw... I'm so sorry!! He resembles my little lion who likes to hang out in the sink.

05.02.2025 16:16 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I got very nostalgic for the aughts today. Never really thought about how that my 00s felt like a big Bowie/Gaga/Scissors Sisters/Rocky Horror dance when I wasn't thinking about all the GWB presidency nonsense. Maybe I need a little more of that subversive gay party vibe back

04.02.2025 22:25 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

Flashback to the day around 2016 when I asked a young guy at Best Buy if they had CD players and he looked at me like I was an old crone

03.02.2025 23:53 β€” πŸ‘ 2    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

Okay so from 2016 to 2020 I went through "Am I dying or is it just stress over the geopolitical landscape?" By this time I was 38 and it started to be "Am I dying or is it perimenopause?" Now, ladies and gentlemen, for the first time ever on the same stage...

03.02.2025 17:18 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I was just wondering how kitty is doing. Looks like good progress!

03.02.2025 14:16 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

It sounds like produce might be a bigger issue with price hikes than cheese. A lot of cheese is domestic, and I think a fair amount of feed is domestic? But I could be wrong. I'm freezing avocados, if it's not already too late...dangit. I also bought enough cocoa for an army

03.02.2025 01:11 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

If it comes with a knife sharpener even that can really help, but if not, then...just buying one halfway decent chef's knife wouldn't be a bad idea

02.02.2025 20:17 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

What kind of knife is it? Sweet potatoes are pretty hard so it helps to have a big chef's knife & sharpen it first

02.02.2025 19:56 β€” πŸ‘ 0    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

My urge to move back to the northeast corridor and just be in museums looking at the art of the ages is getting overpowering!

02.02.2025 19:52 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

oh yeah and I also won't be flying anywhere, that's for sure

01.02.2025 00:52 β€” πŸ‘ 1    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

I would like to move more of my grocery spending away from Publix--and no Whole Foods--and more toward a mix of local markets, Aldi and Hopey's.

It's kind of about being frugal and a conscious spender but it's also very much about protesting via pocketbook.

31.01.2025 23:48 β€” πŸ‘ 6    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 0    πŸ“Œ 0

I'm canceling my Amazon ads for my books and will no longer be doing Meta ads. I've reduced our fast food expenditures by 30% and I'm working on doing better than that. So far I've managed a totally low-buy year for "stuff": local and small businesses only.

31.01.2025 23:48 β€” πŸ‘ 6    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

I had a few Amazon cat food deliveries scheduled because we were having trouble with other deliveries during the hurricane. but I just canceled those. I asked Dade if we could ditch our Amazon Prime subscription and he agrees with me.

31.01.2025 23:48 β€” πŸ‘ 8    πŸ” 0    πŸ’¬ 1    πŸ“Œ 0

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