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Integrative Palliative Physician | Education & support for clinicians and family caregivers of the ill and aging | Author, Coping Courageously | Keynote speaker | Pro vaccines & science | Lover of dogs and deep conversations (she/her) #MedSky #palliative

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Get your loved one’s fingerprint! I’m so glad the funeral home suggested it. That’s my dad’s fingerprint on my necklace - I’m so grateful to have it

30.04.2025 00:36 — 👍 2    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

When you experience traumatic grief the grief and trauma get all mushed together. Sometimes the trauma part can make normal grieving harder
#grieving #caregiver #endoflife

17.04.2025 01:50 — 👍 2    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

Thank you so very much. Sharing and using it to help has been part of making meaning of it all. Thanks for witnessing 💛

08.04.2025 12:08 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0
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A Call for Medical Aid in Dying: A Tale of Autonomy and Desperation Podcast Episode · The Integrative Palliative Podcast · 03/27/2025 · 18m

podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/t...

08.04.2025 02:11 — 👍 2    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

As someone who is actively grieving I appreciate this very much. Thanks!

08.04.2025 02:09 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

I’m grieving my own beloved dad right now. It’s not only sad, it’s also exhausting, complicated, and it makes regular life harder than usual. PSA: give grieving people a lot of slack 💛
#grieving #grief

08.04.2025 02:09 — 👍 3    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0
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It's #WorldHealthDay! The Canadian Virtual Hospice provides support and personalized information about advanced illness, #PalliativeCare, loss and #Grief to people living with illness, family members, people working in #HealthCare, educators, and researchers.

07.04.2025 15:01 — 👍 2    🔁 1    💬 0    📌 0

@maddow.msnbc.com thank you for bravely speaking the truth and sticking up for your coworkers. I am grateful for your example of how to be a deeply decent human!

25.02.2025 04:59 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

You are so right and that is well put. Even if your advice is great, the negative impact on the relationship isn’t worth it

19.02.2025 15:57 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

I finished recording my audiobook today! (for Coping Courageously: A Heart-Centered Guide for Navigating a Loved One’s Illness Without Losing Yourself). I’ve been procrastinating for a year & am so happy to have finally done it! I took 1 tiny step & that got me going. What helps you get unstuck?

16.02.2025 02:48 — 👍 4    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

Physicians, even elected ones, should support science. People who are in charge of national healthcare should also support science.

13.02.2025 18:28 — 👍 2    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

I think that’s true!

11.02.2025 18:20 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

Does it seem like our nation needs some palliative care? Are we the anxious family with anticipatory grief?
#HPM #palliativecare

11.02.2025 17:38 — 👍 4    🔁 2    💬 1    📌 0

If your loved one is aging or seriously ill, don’t mess up your relationship with them by being overly controlling.

When time is short, connection matters.
#caregiving #cancer #palliativecare

11.02.2025 03:10 — 👍 25    🔁 2    💬 0    📌 2

Think of two buckets. One bucket holds your preparation for what you hope doesn’t happen and the other bucket holds your hope for a good outcome. Usually when I say this I’m taking about serious illness. But right now that’s not the only place that it applies.

05.02.2025 04:49 — 👍 10    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

Yes. It all hurts my heart. Thank you for sticking up for what is right!

02.02.2025 14:23 — 👍 3    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

The CDC is scrubbing manuscripts of gender affirming language? When being kind to other people has become unacceptable, what have we become?
#medsky

02.02.2025 07:11 — 👍 12    🔁 0    💬 1    📌 0

Woo hoo!!!!!!

29.01.2025 18:03 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

Choose your words carefully when you talk to people who have declining function due to age or illness. Don’t say: “oh is it too hard for you to go out? I’ll bring you lunch.” Say this: “I’m happy to bring lunch to you if you’d prefer”

27.01.2025 17:38 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

I love that - human or otherwise 🙂

25.01.2025 16:58 — 👍 2    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

Yes! Great one

25.01.2025 01:00 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

When life is tough…
- do the next reasonably good thing
- breathe slowly and deeply
- share the feelings with someone.
- go outside
- look away from screens
- pet your dog
- get enough sleep
- listen to music that makes your body move
- find something that makes you laugh

What would you add?

24.01.2025 22:54 — 👍 6    🔁 0    💬 2    📌 0
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Trump's Gag Order Halts CDC Publication MMWR did not publish as usual at 1 p.m. today

BREAKING: For the first time in its more than 60-year history, the CDC's Morbidity and Mortality Weekly Report (MMWR) did not go out as scheduled because of a communications pause at federal health agencies issued by the Trump administration. #medsky www.medpagetoday.com/infectiousdi...

23.01.2025 19:53 — 👍 22    🔁 16    💬 2    📌 9
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MeidasTouch (@meidastouch) on Threads Wow. Bishop Mariann Edgar Budde fearlessly calls out Trump and Vance to their faces. This is heroic.

Courage. When the opportunity arises to be courageous, grab it. Tough conversations? Admitting a mistake? Speaking truth to power? Here’s an example of courage

www.threads.net/@meidastouch...

22.01.2025 03:29 — 👍 6    🔁 1    💬 0    📌 0

Yes! Some days more than others

21.01.2025 01:25 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

Denial gets a bad rap. Sometimes it is a helpful, temporary coping strategy
#medsky

21.01.2025 01:07 — 👍 14    🔁 1    💬 1    📌 0
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If you're a physician or clinician with an inking that you'd like to be an entrepreneur, this episode is for you. podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/t...

18.01.2025 00:45 — 👍 2    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0
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Healing the Heart of the Healer This is the waiting list for an upcoming Healing the Heart of the Healer program for oncology and palliative care clinicians created and led by Delia Chiaramonte, MD who is a physician Board-certified...

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16.01.2025 04:23 — 👍 0    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

For oncology & palliative care physicians/clinicians: I'm creating a program called Healing the Heart of the Healer for those who feel depleted, disillusioned, or worn out. For now, here's a free 7 step guide to improve wellbeing in clinicians who care for the ill or aging. Link in comments.🌺

16.01.2025 04:22 — 👍 3    🔁 1    💬 2    📌 0

You’re right! If it will endanger others (driving for example) then limits are in order. If the risk is just to the person themself then this approach applies

15.01.2025 16:03 — 👍 1    🔁 0    💬 0    📌 0

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