Heather, Pleasure Educator & Coach

Whenever people complain about the number of folks relying on food stamps, it is worth reminding them that SNAP is, by too large of a degree, a subsidy for corporations that refuse to pay a living wage and their political allies who reject public policy prescriptions to reduce income inequality.

Homelessness is a policy failure, not a personal one.

YouTube video by The Topless Talk Podcast with Ryan Nickel Letting Go of Control | Heather & Ryan - ToplessTalk Ep. 13 - Part 01

Check out my first time as a podcast guest. Learn (too much!) about me here and stay tuned for part 2 to learn even more about my work as a Pleasure Educator and Coach. m.youtube.com/watch?v=jFbc...

The first time I’ve seen a Feeld shoutout on Bluesky! 😂

“I Have Lost Everything”: The Toll of Cities’ Homeless Sweeps Cities often take belongings — including important documents and irreplaceable mementos — when they conduct sweeps of homeless encampments. ProPublica gave notecards to people across the country so…

We asked people who lived in homeless encampments that were cleared out in city “sweeps” to write about what object was the hardest for them to lose.

“They took my baby pictures and my moms obituaries,” a 29-year-old in California wrote.

Kaos on Netflix. It only lasted a year, but it was soooo good.

White House acknowledges problems in RFK Jr.'s 'Make America Healthy Again' report HHS Secretary Robert F. Kennedy Jr.'s "Make America Healthy Again" report cited hundreds of studies, but a closer look by the news organization NOTUS found that some of those studies did not exist.

HHS Secretary Robert F. Kennedy Jr.'s "Make America Healthy Again" report cited hundreds of studies, but a closer look by the news organization NOTUS found that some of those studies did not exist.

Uhhhhhhh, yeah.

❤️ It’s been a long time since I’ve seen a news story that was heartwarming instead of horrifying. More of this, please.

SOMEBODY HUG THIS GOOD BOY NOW

How to stop living for the weekend, according to well-being experts | CNN With a traditional five-day workweek, some people may feel as if they’re living for the weekends. Here’s how to liven up your weekdays for a more fulfilling life.

With a traditional five-day workweek, some people may feel as if they’re living for the weekends. Here’s how to liven up your weekdays for a more fulfilling life.

Is there anything harder than deciding on a font?

Paleontologists have discovered a newly identified fish species in Australia so well-preserved that they could determine its last meal — dating back up to 16 million years to the Miocene Epoch.

Read more: cnn.it/3DMlxcB

I can’t believe this has to be said, but: You cannot tell the story of Jackie Robinson—as a ballplayer, serviceman, or human—without discussing our country’s history of racism.

From Around the Horn:

Cereal

Is there anything better than pulling out a random chocolate from the variety box and not being disappointed with the filling?

The Purity Culture Dropout™ Community Our community is a safe and welcoming space for anyone who is healing from the impacts of purity culture. Join us for learning and discussions with Erica Smith, a sex educator who is dedicated to remo...

I run a private, off social media paywalled community for people coming out of purity culture who want shame free sex ed & community support. The members are so sweet & supportive, plus there’s unlimited direct access to my expertise. purity-culture-dropout-community.mn.co

As someone who spends a lot time thinking about the values I want to teach my kid (besides PLEASE DON’T EAT DIRT), the thing I keep coming back to is this: I want him to believe that the strongest, bravest thing he can do is give a shit about other people—especially ones who aren’t like him at all.

Ready Fire Aim is a lousy way to govern.

A moment for petty resistance:
1. Google Gulf of Mexico
2. Click on the 3 little dots to the right of "Gulf of America"
3. "Send Feedback"
4. Click on "Gulf Of America" text
5. Select "Inaccurate content"
6. Select "Incorrect" & type "The rest of the world calls it Gulf of Mexico" or what I wrote👇

Witnesses said they could clearly see a boob, and also his wife

Every time you utter a tepid “sure” instead of a clear ‘yes’ or ‘no thanks, babe’ to your lover, a fairy adds one more pebble to the pile against you in their plot for your demise. I don’t make the rules.

Even if they leave, there will be lasting damage that might take years to recover from.

I was led to believe by R.E.M. that I would feel a lot better about this.

Gotta check that preview language before posting.

Normalizing spelling out what people actually mean when they cite DEI rather than letting them hide behind the safe cover of a euphemism that's been sapped of meaning

If Meta is going to stop "censorship," I'd love to see my sex education based Instagram account fucking flourish. Let me actually write the word sex instead of some silly ass shit like "secks."

Ukraine’s ‘Bachelor’ starred an amputee. He’s one of many injured veterans navigating a new sex life | CNN Sexual rehabilitation for people who have lost limbs or suffered other serious injuries has been largely overlooked in Ukraine. Now, attitudes seem to be changing, with new programs offering support.

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Foreplay can be so much more than just touching right before sex. Start with a good morning text & tell your partner you can't wait to see them later. Send a subtly seductive picture at lunch. Build heat through eye contact at the restaurant. What would you add to the list?

#sex #foreplay #pleasure

My general rule is that people should have whatever kind of (consensual) sex they want to. But there are THREE things I insist be a part of your experience: full presence, authenticity, and connection.

#sexcoach #intimacycoach #connection #mindfulsex #mindfulness