Audrey St James

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Thank you!

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Because trust me, you would know if I was topping you. There would be a wicked gleam in my eye and you would have a safe word.

Will make people consider that what maybe they have seen as “no power dynamic” is in fact, them assuming control and that when a woman expresses preference or a request it’s not her topping them, it’s playing as an equal.

And the other person has said I’m taking power in the dynamic. Well, I guess in a way I am. I’m taking enough power back so that we are equal lovers.

I’m writing this 🦋 essay in the hopes that it

And if we had discussed it beforehand it would be okay, but I’ve had a couple recent encounters where that has been the assumed default. Where I’ve said
“hey, I’d love to warm up to that,” or “I love being asked instead of ordered, can we do that instead? I find it very sexy,”

We find a journey that is hot and super fun for both of us (how boring would it be if I faked having a good time?)

Assuming that it’s okay to order me around or do things to my body that I’m not expecting, isn’t an equal footing. It’s you taking more power than me.

I’ve had a couple lovers recently where this has come up, so I wanted to discuss.

Unless we discuss a power dynamic beforehand, I am assuming we are together as equals. Equal means equal. It means we explore together, read each other’s bodies, and listen to each other’s words.

But the composition, the lighting, the EVERYTHING!! I feel like I want it framed on my wall but then I’d also never be able to focus

Omggggggf this is so hot and stunning

Yikes. Thank you for your service 🫡

I want to have a date sometime where we go for dinner, then return to a beautiful hotel and I read to you while your head is lying in my lap and I’m stroking your hair. ❤️📚

Are these all the illegal words?

This photo was such an impromptu grab, but I love it.

Need somewhere to take this beautiful blowout tonight.

Ooo fabulous!

For your hot teacher needs 📚

Happy birthday!!

Wait, I don’t know…

There are two women inside me. One is a mommy domme and the other is a baby girl who wants to be treated to nice things.

What do we like to listen to other than Massive Attack and Portishead for sexy dates?

Absolutely this

💯

Thank you so much!

I only blue ears. Don’t want any ear doctors recognizing me.

Big time. I’m right there with you.

One of my favourite new friends bought this for me as a surprise so we could both be cozy. Micah Moonlight is an absolute stunningly gorgeous gem. She’s not on here often, but you should absolutely look her up in Tryst under Micah Moonlight.

Yes please!