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Nathaniel Hawkins

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Married, mid 50s man w/ a secret feminine side & NSFW account. I wore a dress once & loved it. Fan of lingerie and the word gender-performative. I am here to meet like minded, friendly folks and keep the connections from the other place. He/Him DMs open.

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That is a solid time!

11.10.2025 20:55 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I am very happy for you, Ash. Your safety and happiness are truly wonderful to see.

11.10.2025 19:35 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Ha! I never thought about it that way! We may have an origin story here!

09.10.2025 22:14 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I did! He was kind of amazing. In hindsight, probably a bit weird for him to use the word "voluptuous" with teenagers so much, but it set a tone!

09.10.2025 22:06 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Fair.
I just can't stand the hypocrisy of it all. Hang in there, friend.

09.10.2025 22:00 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

This was HS, so I got influenced early. But I am picking up what you're saying.
I am grateful I had that opportunity to learn and appreciate things so early in life.

09.10.2025 21:53 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Your "compare and contrast" essay prompts are fantastic! And you being such a cheerleader for people makes me happy.

09.10.2025 21:49 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Well may be a stretch, but I am not metaphorically hiding under a blanket. Doing well may take a bit of time and effort. Thank you for the warm wishes!

09.10.2025 21:41 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

A priceless work of art that celebrates the female form?

In my art history class, this sculpture was paired with "The Birth of Venus" by Botticelli and a 3rd painting (I can't remember which modern painter...it was 1980-something!) and talked about the beauty in each one.

09.10.2025 21:40 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

The religious version of "shut up and dribble/sing", it seems. Sigh. I really loathe this time line.

09.10.2025 21:37 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Quite a bit! Your posts make me happy and I love the wit and wisdom you dish out. Between the martinis, the lovely pictures and your real-ness, I always appreciate seeing you here. I hope you had a super fun trip!

09.10.2025 21:27 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Yay!!! These always make me happy!

09.10.2025 20:38 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

That made me giggle! I suppose my exercise undies count and do the same job!

09.10.2025 20:17 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I hope it moved to mildly annoying!

09.10.2025 20:12 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Great question!
I wore them as is for a hike recently, figuring "who's gonna see?!". I think I got some inspiration for how to fix it and yes, it will likely be a next summer problem. As you know, not having access to camo cargo shorts could impact my membership in the middle aged dad club.

09.10.2025 20:11 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Hey folks!
Still here!
I am hanging in there. Still navigating some personal stuff but not as much of a hot mess as I had been earlier this year.
Let's see...what's new? I got new glasses! They are different than what I normally get and make me feel hip.
What else...
Ask me stuff?

09.10.2025 19:32 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 11    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 2    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Oh gosh, this is absolutely fantastic. I love this so much!

08.10.2025 20:23 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Not as often as I'd like! ๐Ÿ˜…

08.10.2025 20:05 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

That is a fantastic milestone, Dr. Noelle! I am very happy that you accomplished it - I hear you on not living to work, but I know how important the work you do is.

07.10.2025 15:13 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Did you see the movie? It was fun to get the commentary on each song.

05.10.2025 21:42 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

Content warnings, please!!!
๐Ÿคฃ

05.10.2025 19:23 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I mean...how can you not be?!

05.10.2025 19:22 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

This picture makes so happy! Nice to see you two!

05.10.2025 18:22 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

"All you had to do was to get a taste of it was to risk being your true self"
Been thinking about authenticity a lot, lately.

05.10.2025 02:27 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 3    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

It is such a lovely sound. I miss hearing it.

04.10.2025 01:43 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 1    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I love the spirit of this.

02.10.2025 15:26 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

๐Ÿ˜ถ

01.10.2025 21:07 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 1    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

I will say it here, too. You were my very first real friend in this environment and have always been lovely and kind to me. I will miss you very much and wish you the best on your journey. I truly hope we cross paths again.

01.10.2025 17:32 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

You have my support, Poly. I am sorry folks are spreading misinformation.

29.09.2025 17:46 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 2    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

This makes me happy!

28.09.2025 21:19 โ€” ๐Ÿ‘ 0    ๐Ÿ” 0    ๐Ÿ’ฌ 0    ๐Ÿ“Œ 0

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