Mistress DragonFly

My record with my husband is 6 ruined orgasms in a row. The 6th was a completely dry one where he whimpered and virtually begged me to stop.

Tip to other dominant women:
Did you know that most men don't get a normal refractory period after a properly #ruinedorgasm? His libido stays in overdrive and you can start stimulation of his penis almost immediately after obtaining his first load. Nice to know if you want to drain him completely.

I never tire of watching the effect my scents have on my husband. The combination of scents and humiliation makes my husband's poor locked up penis start dripping "chastity tears" of precum in a matter of seconds.

Every female-led household should have a decent piece of furniture for #queening or #facesitting. It makes receiving oral sex and enjoying my husband's eager tongue so much easier. @vanessachaland.bsky.social (i'm not soponsored) makes and sells this kind of furniture. Mine is built by my husband.

Earlier this week I received a question: Do you use any kind of specialized furniture in your play?

Not much.
A female-led relationship doesn't require much in that regard.

* 10 restraining points concealed in our bed
* 1 Restraining point in my husband's "cornertime" corner
* 1 Queening chair

She got to study my husband's cage in detail. His piercing, how to put the #chastitycage on etc. She also got to witness both the level of control I have over my husband and his obedience. And I let her see first hand how I treat him if or when he misbehaves. It was a great evening.

Hi guys. Just thought I'd give you an update after we had my friend visiting our home last Saturday.
My friend now knows everything about our #FLR lifestyle and is very fascinated. She wants to adopt several aspects of it in her own marriage. I've invited both her and her hubby tomorrow.

I just came across this little video and I couldn't agree more. Unfortunately I don't know the source.

I really admire men who submit to their women for the right reasons.

A lot of people are asking me about the #edgeomatic device. How it works etc. To be honest I don't know if it'll work, but I've found this video (unfortunately don't know the source) that explains it quite well. The sub is riding the edge of orgasm for a long time until it ends in a #ruinedorgasm.

This has been a really eventful weekend. I'm super excited about my friend's visit next Saturday. I would love to have a close friend to discuss #FLR topics with, and maybe in the future to have another couple to play with.

I feel so inspired that i just told my husband to saddle up my "horse".

Yesterday evening my husband gave me a rather insolent remark regarding my friend's visit for lunch next Saturday.

The remark has earned him a proper #spanking and a lengthy visit to his "corner". While repenting in his corner he'll burn in both ends. The plug in anus and the sliver in his urethra.

Sometimes we use a cocksheath like this one instead of a strap-on. I call them "cock extenders" because that basically what it is. Unfortunately most of them lack the necessary firmness to give me what I need. In my opinion they work best for humiliation purposes.

When I need penetration I bring out one of my favorite 9" or 10" dildos and enjoy it together with my husband in one of the following ways:

* Mounted on my husband's face
* Worn by my husband in a strap-on harness
* Mounted on my Stallion #fuckingmachine

I get what I need and no #prejac 😈

After years in chastity, my husband has become incredibly skilled with his tongue. He knows exactly what I like, where to lick and for how long.

My absolute favorite ways of enjoying his tongue is either while seated on my Queening-chair or from behind.

My husband definitely won't like this being duscussed out in the open but fully erect and aroused he is just under 5" (4.9" = 12.4 cm).

With all this as a backdrop, my husband and I have a very rich and rewarding sexlife.

My absolute favorite is riding my #Sybian vibrator while my husband is seated behind me, embracing me, caressing my nipples and anus. The Sybian makes me cum so hard and so many times that I almost pass out.

I'm also a size queen. I need a very large penis (8"+) and quite a lot of stamina to be able to reach orgasm from penetration. I love my husband with all my heart and I love to have intercourse with him, but he just too small and ejaculates too quickly to be able to satisfy me.

A few facts first. In our marriage I'm in charge of most things. I consider my husband's penis to be my property and I keep it locked up in a #chastitycage most of the year. I've found that strict chastity/orgasm control is necessary for our #FLR to work. Years in chastity has made him a #prejack

Someone just asked me: What gives you the most pleasure and the best orgasms when you don't get them from intercourse with your husband?

I have to some degree answered this before, but I'll try to do so again in more detail in this thread.

A few facts first. In our marriage I'm in charge of most things. I consider my husband's penis to be my property and I keep it locked up in a #chastitycage most of the year. I've found that strict chastity/orgasm control is necessary for our #FLR to work. Years in chastity has made him a #prejack

I've invited her over for Lunch next Saturday afternoon. Saturdays are my husband's "household chores day", and in addition he'll be both preparing the food and serving us. I'll also let her inspect both his #chastitycage and his PA-piercing. I've never shared this kind of info before. It's exciting

Ok guys, I'm sorry. I just couldn't help myself 🤣.

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Last night was great, and just as I thought we ended up discussing the benefits of female-led relationships. My friend was especially interested in male #chastity, and had no idea it was even possible to enforce it for longer periods.
I've invited her to our house next weekend to "meet" my husband.

Yay! It's finally Friday.
I'm going for a "girls' night out" with a friend of mine. I've fed her hints about our #FLR lifestyle earlier and she has reached out to learn more. I'm super excited!

My husband will stay at home. 😈

The third electrode is a bi-polar "butt plug shaped" electrode inserted in his anus. The current causes the sphincter to clench and relax rhythmically causing the plug to some degree move in and out, stimulating his prostate. With this setup he will climax eventually whether he wants to or not.

I use a specialized TENS-unit and three electrodes.
One uni-polar at the base of my husband's penis and one on his glans. With the right settings, a mild electrical current causes a nice stroking sensation.

After my post September 16th, people keep asking me: how it is possible to use electricity to make a man cum?

When you keep your husband pussy free and in long-term #chastity; use your scents to keep him servile and to control his behavior. #flr #scenttraining #pantysniffing #crotchsniffing